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Bibliophiles of the internet, my name's Adriana and I just recently completed my project of reading nothing but

#ownvoices Latinx months for two months, *and* there's also been some things happening in our community.

And, for some reason, the two things are connected in my mind.

So I wanted to take some time to reflect on my reading choices.

Let me just start by saying that I have spent two months committing myself to this project for Hispanic Heritage Month,

and I *still* was not able to read all of my possible choices.

I still have enough books to make another TBR for *another* two months.

And in the wake of that, it's really important for me to have an explicit discussion

about why I make the reading choices I make.

I had wanted to do a kind of recap or reflection to drive home a point,

but it's been especially weighing on my mind since recently we've had yet another "controversy"

wherein the BookTube community is not able to own up to its own racially-charged implications.

I think Saajid probably said it best in his recent video when he said that these very real issues are simply a byproduct

of implicit biases towards non-White creators which definitely influence the way we navigate the world

and make choices about what we consume and what we don't.

It's implicit, it's subconscious.

These biases don't just disappear because we've made small amounts of progress in certain areas.

As a queer, non-cis, Latinx BookTuber, I definitely see those biases in play, and I can say with certainty

that there is a kind of glass ceiling that marginalized creators definitely bump up against.

It's not really up for debate. The proof is in the numbers:

what kinds of videos are being promoted and viewed the most,

what kinds of people are *making* those videos,

but even more importantly to me, you can see it what kinds of books are being discussed *in *those videos.

And before I continue, I just really want to emphasize that what I'm saying is a look inwards

rather than an attempt to pass judgment on anyone else.

That doesn't interest me in the slightest. Read what you read, do what you do.

That is how you're shaping your universe, and your community, and your content.

That is your choice to make.

I want to talk about why I make the choices *I* make.

Again, as a queer Latinx creator, what I've always wanted is to have someone acknowledge my voice.

And frankly, that's something that happens less often for creators of color or creators who are marginalized in any way.

So if I can acknowledge and celebrate another marginalized creator's voice,

that brings me a deep sense of connection and fulfillment.

I'm very purposeful about what I read and who I read.

And especially when there's a month dedicated to certain groups, I find that to be a good jumping off point.

For me, that's a signal that I should center certain voices.

That's why you see me reading Asian authors in May, Black authors in February, queer authors in June,

Latinx authors in September and October,

and going into November that's why I *will* be reading Native and Indigenous authors.

That's my thing. That's my choice.

I find *value* in that.

I find value in celebrating good books that often get passed over in favor of, like, the new Sarah J. Maas,

or whatever it may be. And again, that's *everyone's* choice to make.

To me, reading all these incredible voices is one small way that I can acknowledge

and validate people's existence.

That's essentially what we're saying with our dollars when we buy a book or pick up a book.

We are saying, "I think this person has a good story, and that story should be told."

What frustrates or bothers me most is that many people default to viewing the act of diversifying as a sacrifice,

or as a kind of loss, or a form of extra work they have to take upon themselves.

So there's a negative stigma surrounding the very idea of diversifying that, frankly, should not exist.

I'm specifically talking about how these conversations about needing diversity and "Is BookTube Racist?"

cycle through again and again, and when people use that a call to action to say,

"Hey, how many brown faces *are* in your sub feed?"

"How many POC authors *do* you read?"...people are very resistant to that.

Like the number one "defense" I see people fall back on time and time again is:

"Well, I don't read books to check off boxes. If a book is good, I'll read it. I don't care who writes it."

But that's not being reflected. That's simply not the truth.

Because there's some good ass books out here, some of which I promote 24/7, and the comment I get the *most* is:

"Oh my god. That book sounds amazing. I didn't even know it existed."

But I digress.

I mean, first of all, no one is gonna fight you on that.

Of course! Enjoy what you read, read what you enjoy. But I'm just exhausted by this mindset "well I only read good books,"

because it *only* ever comes up when we're talking about marginalized creators.

Like when has Becky Albertalli or V.E. Schwab or Brandon Sanderson or whoever put out a book

and people have been like "Well I *guess* I'll read it if it's good"?

And please don't @ me like, "Well those are very popular authors,"

because they're only popular *because* people give them the time of day and buy their products.

But regardless, even if it's a debut author without a built-in following,

I *rarely* see people hesitate to buy or hype up books by non-marginalized authors.

But when it comes to marginalized creators, people like to hem and haw

and act like the choice to support this creator hinges on the "quality of their content."

But the thing is, it's a standard that only marginalized creators seem to need to meet

*before* they're even given a chance.

Why is there a conception that books by marginalized authors

or content made by marginalized creators is inferior in the first place?

Because when you say that you only engage with "things that are good," there's an implication that you're reinforcing

that the creators in question are more likely to *not* be good.

And we have to ask ourselves where the justification for that fabricated hesitation comes from.

Because I don't see it.

When all is said and done, I'm not concerned with the reading choices other people make.

My first and only concern is what I'm reading myself,

because that informs *my* content, and that is the only thing I can control or change.

And if you *don't* want to read diversely

or follow non-white, straight, cis, able-bodied, neurotypical folks, that is your choice.

And there's nothing, like, inherently "evil" about that choice, even if I don't necessarily agree with it.

But don't do it by hiding behind this façade of this being a question of "quality" content,

because that creates a stigma that does more harm than anything else.

I am not here for people continuing to stigmatize marginalized creators from the onset,

because I can tell you firsthand that there is no risk.

Nothing is at stake.

There is *nothing* to lose.

Circling way, way back to my project to read only Latinx authors for two months and why I read what I read,

I make those choices *on purpose* to show you all that the idea that you have to sacrifice *anything* to read diversely

is nothing but a myth that our community is very precious about.

And I'm not just saying that because it fits the context of this never-ending conversation,

but because it's been something that I've been explicitly purposeful about

since the conception of perpetualpages.

What I most often see is this push-and-pull where people think that they have to make a choice

between reading that thing they love and reading a diverse book.

And it's just a false dichotomy. It's a false choice.

¿Por qué no los dos?

First of all, if you read widely and often, you are most likely able to read that new Sarah J. Maas

*and* that new Yoon Ha Lee. You can do both.

And I feel like the proof is in my own content.

Because, yes, I prioritize #ownvoices often and always,

but I also read *plenty* of things by non-marginalized authors.

And no one's revoked my queer POC card yet!

But more importantly, marginalized creators are *already* making content within the context of the things you love.

One of the reasons I was really excited this year to continue my project of reading #ownvoices Latinx books

not just from the 15th to the 15th, but through two whole-ass *months*,

was because I knew I would be able to reference back to it and make a point.

I wanted to be able to say, "Look, we are in your contemporary YA, we your historical fiction,"

"we are in your comics, we are in your poetry, we are in your SFF,"

"we are in your paranormal, we are in your horror stories, we are in your middle grade, we are in your romance."

"We are in your new releases *and* your classics."

We are there, we have always *been* there, and I feel like if you were really committed to a certain genre

or a certain niche, you would have no problem finding these creators or these stories.

And if you *aren't* finding them, it's NOT a question of quality or worthiness,

but the symptom of a deeper disconnect.

And if that's the case, I feel like we owe it to ourselves to interrogate that and investigate why that *really* is.

And frankly, marginalized creators do not exist in the first place to "check off boxes."

We exist because we're *people*, and we have voices that deserve to be heard and stores that deserve to be told.

And either you're gonna listen, or you're not!

It just makes me feel so exhausted when people make it out to be an either-or choice.

IIf you're reading romance books in February, romances with black characters exist.

If you're reading creepy books in October, Latinx authors have written some of the darkest,

twistiest, most fucked up shit there is.

If you're making a TBR for yet another read-a-thon, why not throw in a queer comic or a queer anthology

or a queer fairytale or a queer *anything*? Because chances are, those narratives already exist

within the realm of what you already love and are excited about.

And time and time again what I see is people failing to recognize that they can do both, or both at once,

most likely because they just don't know those books exist,

or because they assume that reading them is not a "sure thing"—which to me, is *not* a great precedent to set.

That's why I do what I do, that's why I read what I read: to directly combat that precedent and that mindset.

That's why I *love* those comments where people are excited about books they've never heard of,

where they're telling me that a title they've only heard whispers about has just shot to the top of their TBR.

That's great!

Because when I do my work and strip back a story to discuss what it's *really* about

and what's really happening within those pages,

people realize that good content can come from anyone at any time at any place.

All I can definitively say is that I find out about new and exciting stories by listening to different voices,

whether they're authors or reviewers themselves.

And that's my choice. And that choice doesn't make me any better or more worth than anyone else.

It just puts a fine point on what I'm all about.

So all of this was simply to say that I'm gonna continue doing what I do,

whether or not it brings me any measurable success,

because it means something to me and I love doing it.

And in the process, I am being very deliberate to prove that no creator has to pre-emptively earn my respect,

because good stories come from a wide variety of brilliant writers.

That is not a question around these parts. And hopefully that's something that you take away from my content.

As always, I welcome any thoughts you may have on this subject,

as long as they are not disrespectful or inappropriate, because I reserve the right to curate my comment section

as a safe and inclusive space. But barring that, I would love to know your thoughts.

But that's everything I had for this discussion/reflection today. Thank you so much for watching this video.

I really hope that you enjoyed it, and I will catch YOU on the flip-side of the page.

Bye!

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Don't Do What I Did - I Hope this can Save You from Destroying your Relationship - Duration: 42:59.

hello hello my friends so today's episode is going to be very very special

episode when I say near and dear to my heart

I think that's an understatement I did a facebook live about a recent fight that

I had with my wife Fanny and to say that it's gotten some of the best comments

and feedback of anything I've ever put together has is is an understatement it

was something that I thought would come out as a 10-15 minute share about what

not to do if you want your relationships to succeed and in doing so I think I

poured my heart out for about 40 minutes so what you're about to hear is a very

personal and raw story I think it's very important to share stuff like this just

because I've been doing personal development work for 16 plus years does

not alleviate me or you know restrict me from having fights with my family this

case my wife having things that I have to deal with hopefully in this year you

will basically get to see there's five things that I came to as I went through

this process that I believe if you took on and put into effect into your life

into your relationships whether it's with your intimate lover or partners at

work or even your kids you will have massive massive improvement in your

relationships so without further ado I'm gonna let this audio here play of

everything that I gathered and the process that I went through after

probably one of the biggest fights I've ever had with my wife if after hearing

this it resonates with you please please please reach out to me ilan at Satoriprime.com

or you can find me at facebook at Elan Ferdinand personal message me I

would love to hear what you took away from this I hope you have an amazing day

enjoy all right so let me jump here because I experienced something

last week that still you know I've been processing that was just been kind of

figuring out how to how to share this and this might be a little bit longer of

a Facebook live but I thought it was really really important by the way let

me know if you guys can hear me okay I thought this was really important to

share because I think what I experienced is something that most couples would

actually probably lead to divorce or or I don't know maybe even worse I'll kind

of walk you through the story and then I'll actually walk you through what I

learned from it and and really how I'm really really hoping that you hear this

and implement this in your life immediately so if you don't have to deal

with with what I just went through so yong-ki pool happened and for those that

don't know is a Jewish holiday one of the High Holy Days last week and it's

you know I'm not religious I don't personally do well with organized

religion which I'll talk about a little bit later as to why hey Niki major but

really you know this is something that's really important to my wife Fanny and I

love my wife and I adore my wife and she wants to give our kids an experience of

religion and while I don't have that view

you know I for me it's more about the traditions and the family and

get-togethers I I can see where she's coming from I appreciate it and so while

this has been a struggle an ongoing struggle in our relationship there's

very few things that we disagree with at that kind of level this is definitely

one of them and I'm clear before I get into any of the other stuff I'm clear

that this is something that I get to work on obviously I marry my wife which

the irony of the whole thing is that her entire side of the family are Orthodox

Jews her brother's a rabbi so like who does Ilan pick to get married

you know lessons are everywhere right so we actually are starting to plan to go

to synagogue and I really and I and I want to say this I really went in with

the absolute best of intentions like I know well I don't enjoy it there and I

still I was like look it's an hour hour and a half I'm gonna be there with the

family I could just do what I do right and just it'll be over really soon hey

what's up Tori hey Bev Annette so I'm getting ready and I'm gonna walk you

through all of these pieces so you really start to get and I'll kind of tie

the thread of what I've been unraveling for myself throughout this entire

process so I'm getting ready to go to synagogue and it's hot outside and we're

gonna walk for a bit so I was like I don't want to wear a suit and so I don't

wear a suit I just wear pants and a button-down and the tie and my wife is

like why don't you wear a suit everyone's gonna be wearing a suit and

I'm like well I don't want to wear a suit so you know it already kind of

starts like a little bit of attention and she knows she knows that I have

resistance towards going so I think in her world there was also this story of

like Oh Ilan's doing his elan thing again and I really I I was going in with

the best of intentions right before we leave and this this becomes important in

a little bit right before we leave we had about like three minutes four

minutes before we leave and the kids are like can we get some screen time and we

said no we're leaving in 3-4 minutes and when I walk downstairs after getting

ready my son is in the kitchen watching TV and I'm like Shia we told you no

screen time please turn off the TV and he's like how about what's the big deal

there's three minutes you know I'm like Shia we had this conversation and I told

you and it's no big deal no big deal so at this point I'm like give me the

controller and he's trying to hold it for me but a lot of side to reach in

there I grabbed it from him and I turn it off and he kind of storms off

obviously like a little bit angry which is is okay and we were about to leave

and no one can find child Shai is nowhere to be found so eventually my

wife finds him like I'm already in the car getting ready to go my wife finds

him in the dining room with his head literally in the corner of the wall

crying I realize it was like that in you know

impactful what what he had experience but that's what he was doing so she

comes down she's fuming like I did something I ruin this now I mean

whatever and so I say in all seriousness kind of maybe to try to get out of the

synagogue but not really to get head of synagogue she's like you need to fix

this I was like well do you want me to stay home and just have a conversation

with him and she flips because again this is like Elon not wanting to go hora

wanting to be with the whole family etc so eventually as I go to walk upstairs

to figure out what he wants to do he ends up coming down the stairs so we go

but he's not talking to me he's super angry he's not talking to my wife he's

not talking to me we all get in the car we start driving and he's walking now

we're like getting out of the car we parked and we're walking to shul which

is a little bit of a way and he's walking super slow which I have to tell

you in all honesty part of me was like brother walk as slow as you want cuz the

last place I'm fond of you right now is inside that synagogue I was like you

take your time little man and I can see my wife like fuming as this is happening

but I'm just walking to you through everything that that that was occurring

for me so eventually we get inside I was like do you want to put a Tallis on

which is this no no it's like a piece of fabric that some men wear and shul and

I'm like no I don't want to wear it on so this was like checking up checkmark

number you know three four in her Ilana doesn't want to be here Ilana fuck

you too all of this etc so we go to sit in and Shai doesn't want to come in

so he's against the wall again head kind of against the wall outside the

synagogue I go in I'm like whatever he's got to do his thing he's got to relax

I'm gonna be in here and I sit in there and services are about to start and

rabbis saying a few things and having people introduce themselves to each

other hey drew Dina hey Miguel hey Cynthia and I'm sitting there and I've

been doing a lot I don't you know for some of you guys follow me more than

others I've been doing a lot of work energist acquis so like understanding

what is happening in my sister I'm really getting in tune hey what's up

mark really getting in tune with with what I can feel in the body as

sensations so that and this going to come into play a little bit later so

that as I'm feeling it before that's the first way that the your system

communicates is through the body through different mechanisms through different

tightenings or shrinking or pain or pokes or prods that's the first clue

that something's happening that then in essence turns into some sort of feeling

or emotion and you you label that and then that creates the thought and then

that thought actually creates the action so if you can capture things while this

is happening and this is something we work with our clients quite a lot and

I'm working with myself quite a lot you can get to things much quicker and I'm

gonna point to that here a little bit later because I actually did a lot of

work around this so I'm sitting there and this whole thing starts and I can

start to feel and and tune in and let me know if this has been your experience

ever where you I could start to feel this thing in the pit of my stomach and

it just starts rising and rising and rising it's almost like a volcano is in

my system and I could feel it just building and building and building and

I'm like it gets to the province's by this by the way this is all happening in

five minutes of me being in synagogue okay so it started with like hey turn to

this person say hi turn to that person tell them this tell them that tell

someone what you know something that that you worked on you're proud of this

year like simple stop right and I'm just feeling all this stuff build and build a

build and then it's like you know we're reading from this page and I'm like fuck

that I'm not picking up that that book I'm not reading from that so I put it

down and then it's like okay stand up and turn this way and Bend and and then

sit down and then you know this sides gonna sing this and this side's gonna

sing that and I am just starting to feel everything just rise and rise and rise

and rise to the point that at some point my daughter's sitting on me and we're

all supposed to stand like all the adults everyone

Sam my wife looks at me she's like are you gonna stand and I'm like I can't

alia sitting on me which in hindsight you know you realize like but at the

time I was like and all this stuff is just building and building and building

to the point where the only way I can describe this to you it was like rage

absolute rage and I don't know how many of you guys seen that Dave Chappelle

show but it's like Elance got a choke a bitch like that's where it was like so

oh you know and I was like I have to get out of this room because I'm gonna choke

somebody now meanwhile nothing serious is happening and I and this is really

important to just for you to hopefully understand it's like they're just

sensations in the body but the reality like the stuff that's happening in the

room is not that crazy but in my system the system's going fuckin haywire so I

was like I got to get out of this room I got to get out of this room so I get out

of the room and just as I get out of the room my son is actually this was at his

pre-k so the two teachers that they used to teach him were there in the hallway

trying to figure out what's wrong with Shia so I walk over I start having a

conversation with them should I still not talking to me and in that moment as

I'm talking to the teachers he kind of like jumps on my back but like in a

loving you know cute way and I turn around and I'm like looking at him he's

like and he's just this cute you know like he was like - meanwhile he's seven

he looks and then goes up up you know like what they do and they're like

really really tiny and so I pick him up and he gives me this huge hug and I'm

like are you okay he's like yeah I'm like what happened he's like I'm not

sure I don't know why I reacted that way and I was like do you want to go outside

and talk he's like yeah so we go outside and talk and meanwhile it's like a

gorgeous day so we have this amazing conversation which I my gonna get into

all the details we like really flush out what was happening et cetera and I'm

sitting outside with my saw and having this super loving amazing moment it's

sunny it's beautiful and I'm checking in with my system and my system is so

relaxed and so at ease and it's just like wow you know like

that's the release that's the feeling I was looking for and then when I'm like

thinking I'm like do I want to go back into that that room everything inside of

me is like fuck no I do not want to experience what I just experienced all

that rage and all that boiling and all that stuff happened I don't want to do

that again so I was like I'd rather stay out here so we end up staying outside

for about an hour and my wife and daughter eventually come out and as she

comes out and sees me because she didn't know where we were

but as she comes out to see me have you ever had someone look at you where it

looks like fire laser beams are coming out of their eyes like they are going to

murder you but they haven't said a word it was like that and I was like oh I

done fucked up like this is not this is not going to be good like whatever just

happened this is not going to be good so we start kind of like talking on the way

and I can feel she is really angry and she's so angry and we kind of know like

we have this practice where we're so angry we actually choose not to

communicate with each other in that moment because we both realized that

what is going to come out of our mouth is not going to be good for us or the

relationship and so it's just we don't do that okay so we kind of start getting

into it but we realize like this is not going anywhere

and so we we come home she goes outside to sit in the Sun I go and meditate we

don't really talk about it for a while and then she kind of like starts to

share with me how upset she was and she wants this for our kids and how I chose

to go out and how I was doing all these things throughout the day to basically

not go to synagogue and it's always just like big fuck you and blah blah blah and

we didn't really take it much farther we had dinner with the family etc the

morning after I'm driving her to the bus and she starts off the conversation at

first very calmly hey so I just want to kind of like finish up what we were

doing before we get into it and as she's saying this

more and more anger and frustration and all that stuff builds up and for me

there's this you know like when someone's telling you all the ways that

you wrung them or fucked up it's very difficult to be like yes thank you thank

you for like there's a part of you that gets really really defensive and really

really like wanting to justify and-and-and make your point and all that

stuff right and so I'm literally in the car and she's sitting next to me and it

feels for 10 minutes she's just railing into me all the ways

that I messed yesterday up and how I you know fuck things up for for her and the

kids and how and it just starts spiraling into this whole thing about

how I'm not only insensitive it's deep it's different it's like I only look out

for myself and I'm so self-centered and and I I don't ever do things for others

and and she starts naming all these things and I'm like well and I what I

try to explain to her is here try human I love that Laurens what I try to

explain to her is that like my experience in in synagogue was torture

like like literally in my system felt like torture and I and she's like well I

do tons of things that that I don't want to do for you and she starts naming the

stuff and I'm like and then the defensive part of me comes in and it's

like well you know don't do those things for me like I'm offering you to do these

things like these are not things you have to do and whatever and I realize

like everything out of my mouth is he righteous and self-defensive and it's

not going anywhere and so she literally gets out of the car to run to her boss

midstream like mid yelling at me and and I'm sitting there after having what

Lords called the hair dryer tree man you know like and I'm so disheveled

I can't even it was just like so many things were happening in my system at

that time that I wanted to be right about that I wanted

- hold on - and all this stuff and I'm going home and I'm driving home and I'm

just between like it felt like someone's just like punching you over and over and

over in the face I was so dazed and so confused and I come home and I'm angry

and I'm angry and I'm frustrated and I want to make my point and I write out

all of it and here's the key guys this is like this is so what I'm about to

tell you this process that I went through it's so important that please

just pay attention because I'm gonna walk you through about three things that

I remember through the day that if you remember in your relationships any

relationship not intimate any relationship your life will never be the

same so the first thing I remembered the first thing I remembered is this that I

could either be right or I could be in love I could either be right about

exactly all my point of views and how I was and be defensive and have all that

mind chatter prove that I was a good guy and I was this and I was that and I

would no longer have and this is part two because I quickly remembered hey I

have a commitment in my relationship and that commitment is to experience love

connection and intimacy and when I remembered hey what am I committed to

love connection and intimacy right so that's really important always go back

to like hey what I couldn't do in this relationship and then right after that

that thought of okay well I can either have that or I can be right I can't have

both I cannot have you two things cannot

occupy the same space at the same time

I cannot have both so what am i choosing right and this like an actual choice all

this shit is still happening in my system I'm still I want to be defensive

I want to be right I want all of it and in the moment I'm like okay well do I

choose intimacy connection and love with my wife who by the way we're celebrating

10 years or am i choosing to be right about this now once you do that

something really interesting happens because you're focused where your mind

wants to take you is let me be right about this let me prove my point

let me show them why on this and they're not but as soon as you make that that

shift and you go okay what am I committed to then the focus changes and

now if my true commitment is hey love intimacy and connection then now I get

to focus on some different shit how do I get love commitment and intimacy back in

my life because my wife is fuming right now and she's on a bus and she is angry

and she's frustrated and she's mad and that brings me to point number three and

point number three is this this is so important to remember this will

alleviate so much headache and stress and frustration for you in your life if

you really just bring this into your heart everyone's point of view is 100%

accurate and valid I'm gonna say that again everyone's point of view an

experience of life is 100% accurate and valid for them you don't need to agree

with it you don't have to understand it logically because truth be told I

couldn't understand my wife's point of view logically I couldn't understand why

she would react the way she'd react because I know that if I was in that

sense just you if I was in that situation I wouldn't have reacted that

way and once I can bring myself to that place of understanding Wow

her experience is 100% valid I don't need to understand it I don't need to be

to get the logic of it I can just validate that that was her experience

now that allows you to tap into something else and what I chose to tap

into is compassion

yeah Amanda you said a right perspective is subjective right so now if I get that

her experience is a 100% valid the next thing I get to experience is what is

that perspective and I actually sat there and put myself in her shoes as all

this stuff was happening and I could feel the anger and being let down and I

could feel the frustration and I can feel all of it all the pain and hurt and

I could get that I was responsible for her having that response when you have

compassion and you could put yourself in another person's shoes not to get on the

tangent here right and I'm this is not to get political but look what's

happening in our world right now in the u.s. at least with with Brett Kavanaugh

and dr. Ford right everyone's kind of like grounded and this is my point of

view this her point of view and you know what for me I always like to put myself

in both of their point of views you know what both of their lives right now

fucking suck because there's so much hate they've been putting through the

wringer do you like everyone's like well you know he shouldn't have reacted that

way or she shouldn't react though you don't know because you're not in a

fucking position and in that position in that timeframe like that's that's their

valid experience right and so we could have compassion for that and so when I

start to see all this right and I start to get my wife's experience sorry

someone called me now what I can start to get is her world and that gives me

access to something now I can be responsible 100 percent responsible for

how her world is occurring in moment and let me tell you if your

commitment is to love intimacy and connection and you feel what I felt that

I put my wife through that is the fucking opposite of love intimacy and

connection and regardless of what I was feeling in my system at the time of

being tortured of all that other stuff where was the focus during all of that

me me me me me me what I was feeling how I was feeling

all of it huh Jay Jay heights here and he was actually he walked outside as I

was sitting outside with my son during synagogue so I started to see

this now here's here's the the part that gets a little bit uncomfortable cuz now

it's not about just recognizing that stuff now comes the action piece so most

people are very satisfied with the aha moment like now comes the actual

conversation piece the part where you go to the other person involved and you

call yourself out on all of it and you start to come from a place of 100%

responsibility not that they did anything not nothing you looked for

where did I where was I responsible for how this whole event happened and so I

went to my wife and I explained all the stuff her I literally walked her through

the same things that I'm walking through right now and we had a brilliant

conversation that lasted more than a few days and it's still lasting this is not

something that like you know I was a one-and-done conversation what's really

fascinating is when you show up to a conversation and you take 100%

responsibility you will quickly notice that the other person in charge will

also start to look for where there responsible and yes there are gonna be

parts in the conversation where they like yes you were an asshole and yes you

did this and it's not your job to feel bad in the moment because you're

obviously calling yourself out on it so when they say that to you notice she'd

be like yeah I was yes I was now after I had that conversation with her which led

to a few things that we're just getting to look at look a relation with 10 years

right so we've been together for about 11 and a half years so over that time

period people change

I'm not even talking about just the circumstances of your life change right

like we met we were 26 I'm 37 today we got two kids

I've lost built a business lost a business built another business closed

that business started another business like a lot stuff happened right we

traveled the world she's grown etc and so it's irrational

to think that you don't get your relationship and what works and what

doesn't work in fact what I found which was absolutely gorgeous in this entire

process is and this is starting to unravel like what I started seeing

myself which i think is important for you guys to hear I'll take it a step

further here in a second but you know what I feel is happening is like my

wife's flame like the light inside of her is really wanting to start to come

out more and more and like I've always been this way my energy when I'm a fuck

yes all in I'm like the most infectious person that you can be around I get

everyone psyched right now the same side of that on the opposite oh my god so

when I'm a fuck no like I don't want to do this I'm the biggest energy suck like

the people around me are so affected and everyone knows Elon does not want to

fucking do this I have like big it's not probably I was sitting in

synagogue was this big like fuck you don't talk to me sign written on my head

so the same way that that energy is like super infectious because my energy is

always out right some people they get into certain situations and they're like

overwhelmed or or in fear they like suck themselves in and disappear I'm the

exact opposite I'm like a flame in one direction or I'm a flame in the other

but that flame either lights up you on the inside or it fucking burn lose you

and I get to be responsible for that and so I've been this way for a long long

time and I've actually started to have conversations with with friends and

things like that about it of late but you know for my wife while I've always

been that way I think what's really interesting is today her light is really

starting to come through and her energy is starting to come through and when I

be that way like really really big it actually squashes her her light it

squashes her fire and for maybe the first time in a long time that doesn't

feel good for her anymore she doesn't want to experience that so that's just

something that we're looking at like well how do we kind of co-create and and

and when in those moments she feels like that I'm doing that thing to actually

say it in the moment to me versus having it build and build and build and build a

little build which creates that that huge fire and this is something that my

friend Ben actually when I shared this with him the first time had me see you

know a lot of the times when we have these blowouts we tend to look at the

blowout itself like the the incident itself and we tend to like start to try

to unravel and unpack this this one incident and he reminded me of something

really beautiful because there was two things I was really upset about the

first thing when this happened I was like why me

why us why is this happening to me and he reminded me that whether it was now

or on Thanksgiving or New Year's or next year sometime this is something that we

have to go through so going into the why me why us why now all that is irrelevant

because this is an experience that our relationship needed to have in order to

build something stronger so I was like oh wow that feels really

really good right and then the other thing which I

can't remember right now what I won't say I'll come back to so here's here's

what I really want to share with you guys about the work that I then went and

did personally I spoke to you about the body sensation right and by the way just

let me know is this is this resonating like are you guys seeing your

relationships in this can yeah just let me know if as I'm sharing this because

this is really really important stuff and I really hope that you guys are

getting value from this look this was no I'm not I'm not even kidding you this

was like the most uncomfortable I've probably ever been in my relationship

ever because I'm driving home and I'm like holy shit like this is how people

get divorced it's this like like these conversations right like where all this

shit built up oh yeah so this is the other thing that I knew it come back to

me the other thing that was really important is that it's not don't delve

and try to fix or figure out the incident realize that the incident was a

highlighter for a much much deeper thing and so for my wife there's like a much

deeper conversation there's a much deeper piece about that energy of

feeling like I'm either you know lifting her up or like burying everything around

and like when I'm a fuck know like that that impacts her and so we got to have

that conversation and that really was the conversation no it wasn't what

happened in the synagogue was like you know quote unquote the needle that broke

of the right the needle that broke the camel's back I think yeah something like

that it's but it's way way deeper than that right and that's really important

when you're having these conversations it's like don't delve on the moment

itself always look for like what is the underlying thing that's a tad that's

impacting the relationship and that was really really beautiful for us so then

after we did that stuff I went and started to do my own work

because what I'm really curious about right you guys had all mentioned that

you've had that experience at some point where where something you know come like

starts building up inside of you like a volcano and just all of a sudden there's

an eruption I got curious I'm like well what is that

what was that rage that I felt in synagogue because for me that was the

highlighter right like there's a whole piece about my relationship with Fannie

and then there's a whole piece about like what happened internally to me that

I just totally missed and what I started to unravel through through a lot of the

work that that that guy and I do is

there's this part of me that is massively attached to autonomy and I've

known this it was just a deep deeper experiential knowing of this which is

when I'm being told what to do when I feel like I don't have a say or control

that feeling starts building up inside of me and yeah so Tammy that's that's

actually I think you guys are under light but that's like actually exactly

what it is so when I started to unravel that look there's tons of experiences

that I've had that width right but that energy that I was talking about where

I'm like a fuck yes or a fuck no that fuck no part comes from where I feel

like I've lost autonomy where I feel like I don't have a say anymore and

what's really interesting is that in the moment just like I was sharing with with

you guys about Fanny like if in the moment she's feeling something by my

energy and she just says like hey Ilan you're doing that thing you're like

sucking all the life out of the room you're Beauvoir that's a good reminder

for me right like that's a great red flag and then I can actually in the

moments where I feel all this stuff happen I can be in communication and you

ever notice that like when you say something you know the example I love to

use is like you're you go on stage and you're super super nervous there

tell you like tell tell the people on Sage I'm really really nervous

and you tell people and in and so in those moments now I get this new

practice of when I feel like I don't have a say or when I feel like I don't

have like it's it's out of my control and someone's dictating and I have to do

this I can actually be honest with whatever is happening around me so it's

like Fanny and I could be like look at in the moment I feel like I don't have a

say in this etc right and in as I'm saying that you

will actually feel a release in the body no now they're practice Tammy is

autonomy ego driven that's a really good question um let me explain it this way I

think there are parts so so ego is a word that gets thrown around a lot and I

think it's kind of like difficult for people to understand so I'm gonna say it

this way there are parts of us very very young parts that are like protectors

right so that there's a part of me that wants me to feel independent that wants

me to feel like I get a say etc and so when I don't have that experience

protectors come online and protectors are like you can't make me don't fucking

touch me you can all that stuff those are protectors and they all work

beautifully like there's not there's gifts in this stuff too right so like

think of being independent and there's a key can list you like multitudes of

things why how independence has made me super

successful so we don't want to look at these things as like that's a bad part

of us this is a good part it's more just it's a part and we get to dive into the

gift of the part and then the shadow of the box as well right so for me and for

you this is really what I'm inviting you to is like to honor those moments to see

and notice as quickly as you can that whole experience that wants to rise up

and instead of having the explosion see if you can actually feel in the

moment what that is and what your system is actually asking for and if you need

any help with this like this is the kind of work that we do so you don't have

blow ups and relationships and by the way look I do this work all the time I

still had a blow over the wife and within 24 hours we went from yelling I

mean like yelling like you see in the movies yelling to having intimacy

connection and love which is what I'm committed to back in our lives and in

our relationship and I can tell you like with 100% certainty that that is exactly

the kind of stuff that people get divorced over because they'd rather be

right then have what they're truly committed to so to put a bow on this

remember here the three major things right that that help me you can write

these down do whatever you want the first is you can either be right or you

can be in love you can't have both the second remind yourself of what you are

committed to in this relationship whether it's with your children whether

it's with your spouse whether it's with your business partner what are you truly

committed in that relationship and are the actions you're taking right now

consistent with that commitment and you will surely find that you are choosing

to be right instead of honoring that commitment the third thing everyone's

point of view is 100% valid 100% valid you don't need to understand it you

don't need to believe it you don't need to anything you just get to honor that

their point of view is 100% valid and bring compassion to that viewpoint see

if you can actually put yourself in that place to feel what they're feeling not

through your brain through your heart actually feel what they are feeling and

then once you unpack all of that stuff and you start to realize where you're

100% responsible for everything that happened you get to go and have that

Congress and you call one out on yourself and I

know that it's uncomfortable I know this is the part that your ego is gonna go

hey why no but they did this and then it put all that aside and bring yourself

back to that commitment if you guys have any questions about anything I covered

right now I'm happy to stay on here and answer anything anything that came up

for you that you want to share I know we're in a little bit of a delay here so

I'm happy to chill here for for a few minutes if you guys are called to share

anything but yeah this is like so so so important and can save you so much

heartache and frustration because eventually you're gonna come to this and

sometimes you guys are already separated at at that point and then you're just

left with guilt guilt and shame and then you have to do all this other work that

we do with people about forgiving their parents or their spouses or just so much

easier in the moment honestly like I'm so grateful that I have these tools I'm

so grateful that I have this ability to to see this stuff in the moment and and

moreso share it you know like all these people they're many many of you guys are

working with us in one way or another and you know just the ability to share

this and have you guys take this in your world and impact your spouse's and and

loved ones and partners and children is just absolutely amazing so yeah if

unless anyone has any other questions

Kevin I love that your daughter gets to reap the benefits of the maturity took

to put the relationship first family strong yeah and and that's such a good

point because as your kids mimic how you operate with your spouse more than

anything else it's not will you tell them how to be it's what they see you

being and so having that ability to process this in a very very quick and

timely manner so that you can get back into that thing which you are committed

to in the first place is absolutely massive

all right so if there are no questions I just want to thank you all who were here

participating commenting this was something that I was for the last week

really just wanting to share and and trying to figure out how to do it so I'd

love to hear from you guys in the comment box if this impacted you please

let me know and what you took away from this and how you're gonna have this live

on through action in your life and if there's anyone in your life that you

feel called that has some sort of experience right now in a relationship

that you think this would make a whisper this would give them some freedom or

inside please please please share this this is a I know this is a quite a

personal Roth message but I would love to get this out there so love you guys

thank you so much we'll see you soon

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so hi through this video we are going to look at the day-to-day problems and how

we can come up with systems to solve those problems for example I remember

some years back I had gone out of my home and there were plants which needed

watering but I did not have a solution to this so until I was just wondering if

only I had a system which could take care of my plants when I am away from

home sometimes when I go out of my home there are elderly people who are not

able to communicate with me so I just thought like if again there was a system

which could communicate on their behalf and tell me about the well-being of the

people I am sure such incidences or such things happen to many people around us

day-to-day and we feel that there should be some systems or some help from

electronics systems that we can use in order to solve these problems then as a

teacher I interact with so many students every day and then they have some

wonderful ideas which they wish to implement but again they are not having

that much of knowledge to implement those or maybe they are not aware of

what are the things that are available by which they can implement their ideas

at the same time I also interact with students who are in their final years or

they want they again they have some great ideas through which they want to

have their own startup so basically some idea which you want to implement but you

are not aware of how to implement that in technical terms we call this as a

prototype so we want to build a prototype but we want to do it

fast we want to do it at a very low cost so that we are not spending too

much on it and at the same time that idea is getting converted into the

solution which we require for us now when you are building any system any

such system which is going to solve a particular problem electronic system the

at the heart of any system not only electronic if you look at our bodies the

system that is controlling the entire functioning of our body is the brain

right so when we say that the main brain is controlling our actions and we are

doing certain actions according to what we require that system we call it as an

intelligent system so similarly in electronic systems as well there are

there is an intelligent part or a device which will be controlling all the other

components and other devices in that particular system now who does this

function of the intelligent system so that is in electronic terms it is a

microprocessor or a microcontroller now there are so many varieties of these

intelligent systems available for example if you just Google

microprocessor the word microprocessor you will get 3 crore hits within some

seconds at the same time if you google microcontroller you will get 10 lakh

sorry 10 crores of hits within seconds so how do you decide which

microcontroller or which microprocessor should I use for prototyping or for

building or implementing the idea that I want to implement so don't worry there

is a better and a simpler solution to for your problem and that is using the

system or the board which is known as the Arduino board now this Arduino board

has become very very popular very and many people now all over the world are

using these boards now what why do we use these Arduino boards the first

and the most important reason is that it is an open source hardware I mean you

don't have when you are buying the Arduino board you don't have to pay any license

fee for that so you can come up with your system at a very low cost at the

same time it is very very easy to write the coding for that particular board if

you consider say other microcontrollers naturally you have to learn you have to

go through the entire process of learning the programming part of that

and it's not very easy but this Arduino board it is very easy to program the board so

software part is taken care of at the same time when you consider the hardware

of the Arduino board the people at the Arduino board have developed this board

so that it can be used even by a hobbyist

even by a person who is or even by school children by a person who has no

knowledge no ABC of electronic systems so it is as easy as that

at the same time they are available in many versions from low end to the high

end so all your requirements are taken care of and they are easily available or

throughout in the market so I if I want to buy a Arduino board just know I can

get it online or I can go to a hardware shop and it is available there so these

are the advantages again when you are writing the Code for the Arduino board

naturally we are going to use either a desktop or a laptop for writing the code

and we use what is called as a development environment now this

development environment of the Arduino for that you don't need a particular

operating system in your desktop or laptop for example for some environments

you need you need to have a Windows in your laptop for some you need to have

some other systems but here for the Arduino you may use it is we call it as

a cross platform that is you can have any operating

system and you can write the code for the Arduino so it has the advantage of

being easy on the software part as well as easy on easy and fast on the hardware

implementation as well so these are the some of the advantages that Arduino

board have and so what we recommend on what I would suggest that if you are a

hobbyist if you are a school goer you want to have builds or some system you

have some fantastic idea and you want to implement that idea in a very you know

less time and inexpensive way at the same time if you are a student who want

to implement maybe a engineering student as well if you want to implement your

idea faster cheaper and you don't want to spend too much time writing the code

and you are maybe some people you know they when it comes to electronic systems

or even when we say that these are also called as embedded systems students are

you know very of that they feel that no I am NOT able to do that they they don't

have confidence on because they say that I am not good at coding but for Arduino

the coding is so simple that you don't have to be a expert coder in order to

write the code for that so you can build your system with the Arduino board

in a very fast way simple way and spending to not much from your pocket so

that is the reason why I would suggest you use your use the Arduino board and

another advantage is that the software as well as the hardware know for example

if you are saying that you are going to have your own prototype you want to have

your own startup then it's if even if you use that in the Arduino board it is open

source you can use the hardware and you can make changes in the hardware as well

as a software part and implement your system so it's something like you know a

solution not only at a lower level its for I would say it's a solution that

can be used for at all the levels but at the same time yes I would also say that

if you are a for a startup this proof of concept level using the

Arduino board is fine if you are an engineering student using

this for no just implementing your idea is fine

but if you want to multiply like for example if you come up this idea works

okay you show the proof of concept to the Arduino and then you want to build

you want to multiply your product you want to know market your product or you

want to come up with your own solution then I would recommend that for

prototyping you use the Arduino and then using your knowledge you can build your

own system using the microcontrollers or the microprocessors available design

your whole system there are other methods which you can use for example

you can simulate it using the online simulations and then you can go for the

actual designing and implementing it with the actual hardware so this is what

I had to say about the Arduino board so happy Arduino boarding thanks

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What's Up for November 2018 - Duration: 2:28.

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What's Up for November

Planets, asteroid Juno, comet 46P and a morning meteor shower.

Hello and welcome! I'm Jane Houston Jones from

NASA's Jet Propulsion Laboratory in Pasadena, California.

You can't miss bright Venus in the predawn sky.

It appears next to Spica,

Virgo's brilliantly white star, all month.

You can catch Saturn at sunset this month.

On the 11th the crescent moon is

less than 2 degrees--or 4 moon widths--

away from the ringed planet.

For northern hemisphere observers

Jupiter is visible at sunset for the first week of November.

But then it becomes lost to view on November 26

as it reaches solar conjunction.

"Solar conjunction" is when

the Sun is directly in-between Earth and another planet.

Next month Jupiter will reappear as a morning planet.

Mars has its own meetup with the moon.

It continues to be brightly visible in the evening sky.

As it moves farther from Earth in its orbit,

it will fade in magnitude and shrink in apparent size.

Mars will be easy to see on November 26,

when NASA's InSight mission lander touches down

on the Red Planet.

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Asteroid 3 Juno, the third asteroid ever discovered,

but only the 11th brightest,

is visible in telescopes this month

shining at magnitude 7.5.

Comet 46P, also at magnitude 7.5,

may brighten to naked eye visibility.

Observers in both the northern and southern hemispheres

should be able to see it.

Finally, the Leonid meteor shower peaks November 17

as dust from comet 55P Tempel-Tuttle

passes close to Earth.

The Leonids are best seen after midnight your local time,

once the Moon has set.

You should also be able to see some Leonids

on the 18th, 19th, and 20th.

The maximum for any of these nights

is only 10 Leonids per hour.

Next month we'll wrap up the year,

and I'll wrap up 12 years

writing and presenting "What's Up."

A new presenter will resume the series in January.

You can catch up on all of NASA's

current and future missions at: www.nasa.gov

That's all for this month. I'm Jane Houston Jones.

NASA Jet Propulsion Laboratory

California Institute of Technology

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Special Halloween: What does a blue pumpkin mean? - Duration: 2:50.

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what is the best wireless microphone on Amazon - Duration: 4:09.

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What is Aperture – How Aperture Affects Your Video Exposure & Depth of Field - Duration: 6:03.

That right there is aperture, and well I mean this is actually just like a

spaghetti portion measurer, but it works pretty much in the same way.

Hey everyone, Camber here back with you; and today we're talking about aperture and how it

affects your video and if you're new here this channel is all about teaching

you how to use your camera to make good videos so if that's you consider subscribing.

So what is aperture? Well, your aperture is the circular opening in

your lens that gets larger or smaller in order to allow more or less light

through your camera lens and to reach your camera sensor. And it may seem

somewhat confusing with all the numbers involved and we'll get to that a little

bit later in the video, however, the concept itself is pretty easy to

understand if you just think about how our eyes work. As you move between bright

and dark environments the iris in your eyes either expands or shrinks

controlling the size of your pupil. And in a similar way you can enlarge or

shrink the aperture on your lens in order to control how much light goes

through the lens and reaches your camera sensor. So aperture has two main effects

on your shots and the most obvious of those is going to be your change in

exposure or the brightness of your images. So with a wide open aperture

you're allowing more light to reach your camera sensor which results in a

brighter image, and when you have a narrow aperture, less light is being able

to get through your camera lens and reaching your sensor resulting in a

darker image. So the other big effect the aperture has on your shots is your depth

of field, and this really controls the style of your shots. So your depth of

field refers to the amount of your image that's sharp from front to back.

So with the thin or shallow depth of field, that's going to give you a background

that's completely out of focus; whereas with a large or deep depth of field your

foreground and your background are gonna be a lot more in focus and a lot more sharp.

So now we know how aperture works, but the way you'll see it represented on

your camera is by an "F" number or an f-stop. Whenever you see an aperture

value the letter "F" will appear before the number like F/8 although some

cameras omit the slash and just write F8. But one important part of aperture

that may seem confusing at first is that small numbers equal large

apertures while large numbers equal small apertures.

Huh?

Yep that's right.

A smaller number equals a larger opening with more light and more blur, whereas a

larger number equals a smaller opening with less light and less blur.

And to help you understand this just think about aperture as a fraction. So if you're

looking at f/2 versus f/16 in fraction form by replacing the "F" with a "1" then

you'll be able to see that 1/2 is a much bigger number than 1/16, and

therefore represents a much larger opening in your camera lens.

So remembering that a stop of light is any doubling or halving of the amount of

light let in when taking a photo or video you can know exactly how any

change in aperture is going to affect your exposure. However, unlike shutter

speed and ISO you can't simply double or half your current aperture number in

order to figure out those changes. Instead you have to multiply your

current aperture number by 1.4 in order to decrease by one stop resulting in a

darker image. Whereas you have to divide your current aperture number by 1.4 in

order to increase by one stop of light resulting in a brighter image.

So, looking at this image based on the metering scale you can see that we're

underexposed by two stops of light and our current aperture setting is at 5.6.

So in order to increase by one stop of light, we'll go to f/4, and now we're only

one stop underexposed. And to increase one more stop of light we'll go down to

f/2.8 and now we've increased by one more stop of light and we're properly

exposed based on the metering scale. On the other hand if the same image was

overexposed by two stops of light and we were at f/5.6, we would then need to

increase our aperture to f/8 in order to decrease by one stop of light so that

now we're only overexposed by one stop. And then we would have to increase our

aperture once more to 11 in order to decrease by one more stop of light

bringing us to the proper exposure. So there are a lot of numbers with aperture and

it can be a bit confusing, however, you see how it affects your light and how it

affects your exposure. But there's also something else in play and that's your

depth of field. So let's look at another picture, but

this time we're going to keep the exposure at zero and use shutter speed

to compensate for our exposure, and this way you can see how the different "F" numbers

are going to affect your depth of field. So starting at the highest

aperture for this lens of f/22, you can see there's a very deep depth of field

where there's more in focus, and as you move to the lower "F" numbers the

background becomes progressively blurrier. Now at f/8 there's much more

blur in the shot, but as we keep moving all the way down to f/1.8 which is the

lowest aperture for this lens you can see the background is much more blurry.

And now comparing it together with f/22, there's a huge difference in how your

aperture is going to affect the depth of field and the way your shot looks.

Overall, you can see the aperture is clearly a crucial point in exposure and

possibly one of the most important settings on your camera because of depth

of field and the major role that plays in the style of your shots. And your

choice in aperture is really going to control the look and feel of your film.

And that's all for aperture so if this was helpful go ahead and hit that like

button and let me know down below if you do have any more questions about aperture.

Go ahead and subscribe if you haven't, and remember that the only way

to get better at something is to practice. So get out there and film something!

See you soon!

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Halloween Shoe Preview: What's Karl-Anthony Towns up to This Year? | Heavy.com

Minnesota Timberwolves center Karl-Anthony Towns has made a name for himself as a sneakerhead in the NBA.

It's only his fourth year in the league, but he's already rocked any number of custom kicks on the court and has personally teamed up with professional shoe customizer Kickstradomis to do so.

Last Halloween, Towns caught attention for wearing these "Friday the 13th" shoes by the custom artist.

This Halloween, he's set to get even spookier.

Kickstradomis himself teased last night that Towns would be wearing not one, but two custom pairs tonight in honor of Halloween.

He'll be switching shoes at halftime.

The Kicks Make Their Appearance.

One pair is based on the 2017 movie "It", and the level of detail is stunning; there's even a balloon on the backs and blood spattered along the soles.

Both pairs are eye-catchers and will hopefully complement some scary play on Towns's part.

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What it's like traveling with Meghan and Harry: Reporter's Notebook - Duration: 9:50.

The last time I went on an official trip with someone important, it was with the Pope to Myanmar and Bangladesh around this time last year

I said then that being part of the "bubble" was rather like being on a high school trip

On and off buses; people shouting instructions; your time rarely your own. But this time, it was a whole new ball game

If you could enter school trips into sporting competitions, the one with the Pope would have perhaps been a regional tournament -- pretty high paced but not massively taxing

The trip with Meghan and Harry, by contrast, was Olympic in its scale and difficulty: 16 days across 4 countries, with 76 separate engagements

We were constantly against the clock, with palace officials as referees, standing over us with whistles and timers as we raced between planes -- nearly 20 flights in total -- buses, boats and taxis, hauling our equipment as we went

Granted, the Duke and Duchess travel in some comfort, but this must have been grueling for them too -- particularly pregnant Meghan

The news of a baby Sussex came on the eve of the trip -- we heard the news huddled around a speakerphone in a Sydney government office

This only kicked the whole thing into overdrive, and as the days wore on and our exhaustion made us increasingly manic, the fits of laughter at the live position every night with brilliant colleagues Bruno Roeber and James Gillings only became more contagious

"Good Morning America" was on between midnight and 2 a.m., depending on time differences -- a bit of a killer

It is seeing the palace relationship with the press up close that has perhaps been most interesting for me

As someone who doesn't cover the royals full time, I was consistently fascinated by those who do

It's an amusingly love-hate relationship. The royal family needs journalists, as travelling to the other side of the planet hardly would be worth anyone's time if no one was there to document it

But they are very wary of us -- especially Harry, who's antipathy for the press following his mother's death is well documented

The tabloids were not kind to him in his 20s, and the unrelenting interest in his new wife makes him understandably guarded

There were two incidents on the tour that demonstrated why they do sometimes hold us at arm's length

The first was at a market in Fiji. The visit by the Duchess was one of her first truly solo engagements, and she was there to meet women who've been helped by a U

N. project. Her interest in female empowerment and the powerful symbol of a mixed-race royal in the Commonwealth made it a popular event

But too many people came, and within about 10 minutes of her arrival, she already was being whisked away by her aides -- to her own personal frustration, it seemed to us

The palace called it "crowd control," but some among the press preferred the term "security scare," and almost immediately the drama became amplified for no reason

The losers? The sweet, gentle Fijians at the market who'd waited hours to see Meghan who'd now been cast as a threat

The second incident came on the royal charter from Tonga to Sydney. There was a plane on the runway that hadn't moved away quickly enough, and the pilot pulled up to come around again -- a perfectly routine maneuver called a "missed approach" -- that might have seemed dramatic but simply wasn't

Nevertheless, breathless reporting of a "near miss" was beamed out around the globe

It occurred to me that these issues might be part of the reason the palace keeps journalists at a distance

I saw the pope up close more often than I did Meghan and Harry on this trip. That sounds like a punchline, but it's literally true

Perhaps the relationship between press and palace will change with time -- perhaps Meghan will be the one to bridge the gap

Despite this, the trip was successful. There are moments I will remember forever -- the thousands of Tongan children welcoming the royal convoy along the route from the airport, the moving greetings Harry and Meghan received from Maori elders in New Zealand

The couple's obvious concern for mental health initiatives was very powerful. Watching them on Bondi beach with people discussing their problems, we saw Harry speak with -- and listen to -- every member of the group

When a small boy in Auckland told him his mother had taken her life, he made him feel special, using his own experience to lift the boy up

The tens of thousands of young people who tuned out, positively shaking with excitement at the prospect of meeting the glamorous pair, showed why a Commonwealth in which 60 percent are younger than 30 needs its new youth ambassador and his wife not afraid to speak their minds

Above all, this tour showed the world what Meghan and Harry will be about in their lives as working royals

Many often ask what purpose Britain's royal family serves, and I think the couple have answered that question loud and clear

There were big themes on this tour -- above all, conservation, youth empowerment and mental health -- something I take a particular interest in

These are issues that affect us all and should be above politics. But they often aren't

Harry and Meghan -- along with William and Kate -- are serious about tackling them

If our politicians fail us, then at least we have these powerful advocates to help lead the way

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What's Next? Channel Update (November 2018) Get it Painted Challenge - Duration: 8:15.

November already it's been a crazy hobby month time for a channel update and a

chat about my get it painted challenge

Nick speaking and welcome to this video and if you're new to the channel and you

would like to keep up to date with the wonders of Warhammer 40k then please

subscribe and hit the bell button so you don't miss an upload ok so like I said

it's been a crazy busy month for me and today we're going to have a chat about

what I've been up to so let's start off with a channel update okay so I've been

very busy with the channel this month I hit 13,000 subscribers which is

absolutely awesome a massive thank you to everyone who has pushed the subscribe

button I really appreciate it I set myself a task last month to make a

brand new tactical series on necrons but not just a new series I wanted to push

myself with my videos as well to make them as good as I could get them so my

idea was to make some very high quality videos giving some great information to

Necron players basically to help people play necrons so I set myself that task

now I must admit I even surprised myself with where I took those videos if you

watch them as a series from the first one to the last one you can really see me

growing in the quality of the videos and the ideas and concepts that I was coming

up with I've been experimenting with some unusual angles here in the hobby

room I've even taken you outside in the daytime and the nighttime I've even done

some recording on the stairs now that is pretty cold I've also

discovered that my blinds in this room actually make a good background however

I'm still experimenting I've noticed sometimes the camera doesn't focus

properly and today I'm trying a different focus system so hopefully it's

focusing better now I had a lot of fun making those videos and they've been

very successful on the channel however of course they did take a

lot of effort my best necron units video took me 14 hours to make so not a

quick process however it did give me some inspiration

to take what I learnt during those 5 videos and start to add them into some

of my other videos so hopefully you've noticed that my videos have gone up in

production value and hopefully in entertainment value as well if you're

enjoying the new style let me know in the comments box below do you like them

or do you prefer it when I just stick to the hobby room now one of the videos

that I made using these extra techniques was my spellcrow giveaway video now

that giveaway is still on I'm going to be announcing the winner tomorrow in the

IDICBeer wargamers unification facebook group so if you haven't entered

yet I'll link you up to the giveaway video it's just there head on over and

check it out it's very easy to enter talking of giveaways keep your eyes open

because I've got this box here with something that I'm going to be giving

away one because I'm going to be unboxing and giving something away

because I have this box here and inside it it's something else that I'm gonna

give away now one of the other things which has kept me really busy has been

my tournament journey now of course the tournament has now been and gone and

that's now freed my time up a little bit more a to make battle reports with

different armies and different army lists but also for my hobby as well so

let's have a chat about my hobby before that though it's time for a channel

shout my good buddy Nick from old average Brit gaming is getting close to

1,000 subscribers and I would totally love to get him there as soon as

possible so if you're not subscribed to his channel check out that video there

you've given us up and of course don't forget to tell him I sent you

okay so a hobby update and I have to be honest I was getting absolutely bogged

down with hobby projects I have a big table here right

in front of me and last week this table was absolutely chock-a-block of projects

I had my 36 Noise Marines on a tray I had my darkops piece of terrain a

cryptek the librarian which I talked about in the last update and a few other

bits and pieces which I haven't shown you yet so I must admit I was getting a

little bit crazy just looking at my desk so I decided I needed to come up with a

bit of a plan now this time of year usually brings my get it painted

challenge this is a challenge where you select a unit that you've been meaning

to paint for some time and to get it painted now I was going to paint my

shining Spears in actual fact that was another unit I had on the table however

I decided that that wouldn't be a good idea I've got so many projects on the go

that I didn't want to do that I then came up with a second idea of painting

my noise Marines for the get it painted challenge I've been painting these for

quite some time so I think arguably they would pass as an old unit that needs to

be painted however what I've decided to do is actually clear my table this is

part of my plan I've actually put everything that was on the table

upstairs apart from one project at a time I started with my cryptek because I

needed to get that done for the tournament so I painted him first

I've then finished my darkops pieces of terrain which your'e going to see in a

video and a battle report very shortly now I should be painting my noise

Marines next however I have promised someone a charity painting project so

I'm going to be painting the librarian for that project

in actual fact I'm doing a little mini diorama of the librarian fighting an ork

on a big base and it's all going to be magnetised so they come off so that is

going to be my next project and I can't really say that's a get it painted

project because it is a new project so I don't think I'm going to do the get it

painted challenge this year myself now I don't know how you feel about me running

a get it painted challenge but I'm not entering myself

doesn't seem right to me however I know lots of people

do get inspired by the get it painted challenge so if you want to join

in so if you want to do it then basically you've got until now until the

end of the year to get something painted a unit that you've been meaning to paint

for quite some time now in terms of the noise Marines I'm gonna get them painted

worst-case scenario I'm gonna use them as my Nick's

New Year painting challenge and get them painted next year but I'm hoping to get

some more paint on them before that of course I have just ordered the new

necron construct now it's fair to say that when that arrives all other bets

are off all other projects are off that will go

straight to the top of the list to build and paint now of course as well as all

this I've been painting my death guard from the first strike box set with

necron girl it's coming along slowly but surely we are getting there we've now

based all of the models so we're ready to wash and then highlight then all

we've got to do is the bases and they're done so I'm hoping to have an update for

you on the first strike box set soon now if you enjoyed the video and you're not

subscribed start now hit the IDICBeer icon and if you want to see those cool

Necron videos I was talking about then check out that video there beam me up