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Sunday on the bus

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The Teno family one of many local talents taking part in Christmas by Candlelight at the Museum of A - Duration: 2:36.

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San Luis Obispo family creates spectacular Chsitmas light show - Duration: 1:29.

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A Passion for Beauty, A Family in Business - Duration: 12:19.

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Edward 'Jake' Wagner pleads not guilty to 23 counts in Rhoden family homicides - Duration: 1:54.

For more infomation >> Edward 'Jake' Wagner pleads not guilty to 23 counts in Rhoden family homicides - Duration: 1:54.

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Maury counts down the top 10 most outrageous family fiascos ever seen on his show. - Duration: 3:40.

For more infomation >> Maury counts down the top 10 most outrageous family fiascos ever seen on his show. - Duration: 3:40.

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Family confirms missing man's body found in Lady Bird Lake - Duration: 2:50.

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Cardi B Family: 7 Siblings, Husband And Daughter - Duration: 3:25.

Belcalis Almanzar more known as Cardi B is a super popular singer, TV star and personality

in the media as well as Instagram.

Before becoming a worldwide famous rapper, she had quite a few difficulties in her life.

Parents didn't have enough money to provide for the family and so, a little starlet had

to live with grandma.

Lack of money made a music star work as a stripper in one of the New York clubs.

Her music career started in 2015 when she first performed in a clip video.

Also, she took part in reality TV series called Love & Hip Hop: New York.

Gradually, she was getting more and more recognized as a celebrity with millions of fans and subscribers.

After the reality show, she decided to pursue singing career and released the first album

with such hit tracks as Bodak Yellow, What a Girl Likes, etc.

Nowadays, Cardi B is not only a rap queen but also a multi-award winning performer.

As for the Cardi B's father, it is known that his name is Carlos and he has Dominican

roots.

He used to work as a taxi driver and according to the celebrity, it was a very boring job

one could only imagine.

After parent's divorce, the rapper is not very close with dad.

As for the mother, her name is unknown and there is literally very little information

about her.

However, what we know is that she worked in a supermarket and was a very strict parent,

punishing the daughter not only verbally but also physically.

Despite all this, Cardi B is on good terms with mom.

The famous rapper has only one blood sibling, a sister Hennessy, who is a very talented

fashion designer and stylist.

Along with an elder sister, Hennessy took part in Love & Hip Hop: New York, where she

was noticed for her unique and extraordinary clothing style.

Both sisters share a very tight bond and are always there for each other.

From the father's side, there are also six more half-siblings but we found only 3 of them.

Maciel is a half-sister, who lives in Dominican Republic, where she is married and raises

three kids.

One more half-sister is Nicauly, yet no information is available about her personal or professional

life.

Fernando is a half-brother.

Like the rest of the half-siblings, he lives out of the spotlight, so nothing much can

be said about him.

The music star has been happily married to a hip-hop singer Kiari Cephus aka Offset since

2017 and till present moment.

Apart from being a member of the Migos band, he also invests money in cryptocurrency and

real estate.

He is also known due to the issues with the law and several imprisonments.

Nonetheless, he is the best spouse for Cardi B and the best dad to their daughter.

The couple's child, a daughter named Kulture was delivered in summer 2018.

She made both Kiari and Cardi B parents for the very first time and both celebrities refuse

to hire a nanny as they want to experience all the pleasures of parenthood on their own.

For more infomation >> Cardi B Family: 7 Siblings, Husband And Daughter - Duration: 3:25.

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Family's jeep spreading Down Syndrome awareness - Duration: 2:12.

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Friends, family remember 13-year-old boy killed during block party - Duration: 1:51.

For more infomation >> Friends, family remember 13-year-old boy killed during block party - Duration: 1:51.

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Family of seven loses everything to Camp Fire - Duration: 1:57.

For more infomation >> Family of seven loses everything to Camp Fire - Duration: 1:57.

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wild animals finger family song for kids | nursery rhymes,Gorilla,Tiger,Lion,Bear,arcus n media Kidz - Duration: 1:41.

finger family

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Dear My Family - SMTOWN (Short Vocal Cover) - Duration: 4:13.

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Child alerts family to two Thanksgiving fires that destroyed home - Duration: 1:45.

For more infomation >> Child alerts family to two Thanksgiving fires that destroyed home - Duration: 1:45.

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Codependent Responses to Dysfunctional Family Problems - Duration: 8:47.

What are some codependent responses to dysfunctional family problems?

Codependents typically do one of four things. They fix. They try to fix the

problems. They try to fix everybody in the house. They try to control everybody,

tell everybody what to do, keep all the balls up in the air so nothing falls so

that there's no problems. That no consequences as a result of what's going

on. Make sure the kids are okay. They might explain to this person what is

going on, make excuses, you know for how dad's behaving to the children.

Everything is with the attempt to fix the situation, to prevent there from

being any problems more than just the drama that's going on. The next thing

they do is they enable. They enable by doing the things that allow the person

to continue the bad behavior because they're afraid if they let things like I

said fall apart, they're gonna suffer, the kids are going to suffer.

Maybe the difficult person, which could be an addict and alcoholic and somebody

who's abusive, narcissistic, mentally mentally ill. Whatever the problem is,

they don't want that person to experience the natural consequences of

their actions because that means that the codependent and the children or the

rest of the family will also be affected and they're fearful of that, so they're

going to respond by keeping everything keeping everything going and that ends

up often being enabling. The other thing is to triangulate. Triangulate means that

you take, you have two people that are maybe having a conflict or don't have a

good relationship and you add a third person. The third person comes in and

tries to fix the relationship between these two people but in doing so

unwittingly I'm real not realizing it, the codependent coming in and

triangulating automatically makes one of these people the persecutor and one the

victim and the codependent the rescuer. This increases the dynamic difficulty in

terms of resolving this, because anger can be projected onto the codependent

and then this has never resolved. These two people don't

have to hash things out together and figure out what to do. But triangulating

is a way to rescue someone that you think is vulnerable or a victim or need

some help in order to make things okay. This could be you, could be your child

that you're rescuing it, could be a mother, it could be a sibling, it could be

anyone that you feel is in a position where you've got to jump in and try to

rescue them, because something is going on between that person and someone else.

Okay, the last thing that they do is they vacillate between trying to control,

trying to fix and then just tolerating things

as they are. Accepting things they don't like, allowing things to go on that they

wish they could change, but they don't think they can or they haven't been able

to. Tolerating things that are not acceptable. Tolerating things like abuse.

Tolerating things like irresponsibility. Tolerating things: mistreatment,

disrespect and that by tolerating those things, they allow them to continue, but

at that time they don't know what else to do so those four things are fixing,

triangulating, tolerating, and enabling. Okay?

Why do codependents do these things? Why? First of all, they feel responsible for

other people's feelings, choices and actions, and they have a hard time

allowing other people to do for themselves what they need to do because

they don't feel like other people are going to be responsible enough and they

feel so overly responsible. The other one is they can't handle these emotions and

feelings they're experiencing. They look at what's going on. They see the drama.

They see the behavior. They see the addiction. They see the mental illness.

They see all of this, the abuse and all. This stuff going on. and they are fearful

and they're anxious and they're panicky and all of this stuff is going on and

the only way they know how to respond to it is to jump in there and try to do

those four things. They don't want to see what will happen and have to face and

have their own lives affected by what will happen, if the concept

this do come about that they're afraid of they don't want to make the hard

choices that they would have to make if they accepted the fact that they can't

change this person. That things are like they are and that there's something that

they need to do. A decision that they need to make. So that's kind of getting

back focused on themselves and having to make some difficult boundary choices> If if

I as a codependent look, at this family dynamic or this person, difficult person,

that's causing all this problem, and I see the reality of that and I don't jump

in and I don't tolerate it. I don't jump in passively not doing anything. I don't

try to fix it I don't triangulate and I don't enable what could I do

only thing I can do is sit back focus on taking care of myself getting healthy

myself and then making some decisions some hard decisions based on reality

what I see happening what's going on what am I willing to do and not willing

to do by fixing and enabling and tolerating and triangulating> The

codependent avoids having to face those difficult choices. They don't want other

people to suffer. They don't want anyone in the family to suffer. They don't want

to suffer themselves which makes sense but they also don't want the difficult

person who is the one doing what they're doing and should be experiencing those

consequences, but they're just too fearful, This is especially true if it's

a child and watching their child suffer and go through things is extremely

painful. Honestly, they don't trust God at their core to do the right thing if they

let go, for God to handle things, to trust God, to trust God to lead and do what he

does. Not that God magically fixes anything.

No, no, no, but to allow God to

work in the lives of the people in their family. I don't think I really understood,

even though as a Christian since I was four years old, I don't think I really

understood surrender and trust until I went into a 12-Step recovery group

because at the level that I was having to deal with surrender and trust was in

really dysfunctional difficult situations and my

instinctive response wasn't trust God, it was to do those four things that I

talked about codependents doing. Then if they're honest, they'd probably tell you,

have to tell you, that they also don't trust other people to fix themselves.

They don't have faith that the other person will do what is right. Some of

that is well-founded based on a track record but sometimes if we let go and we

give people the dignity to figure out for themselves what they need to do, they

will, but it just might not be on our timetable. A lot of codependents focus on

the other person and trying to fix that person because their own heart and lives are

so empty and they don't really know themselves and they don't know who they

are and they don't know what they want and they don't know what they need. They

don't know what they do need to do to fix themselves so because of that focus

of the inability to work on themselves, they focus outwardly and instead try to

fix somebody else. So fixing and enabling, tolerating, triangulating don't work.

Getting healthy, getting your life in order by taking care of yourself by

stopping all of those four things, by overcoming the codependent habits and

traits by learning what's healthy, working through all of those processes

the codependent can get to where the codependent responds differently to the

difficult family drama and dynamics that are going on. Thank you for watching this

video on Change My Relationship.

For more infomation >> Codependent Responses to Dysfunctional Family Problems - Duration: 8:47.

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Family remembers young rapper killed outside SW Houston nightclub - Duration: 1:57.

For more infomation >> Family remembers young rapper killed outside SW Houston nightclub - Duration: 1:57.

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Terrorized family facing alarming threats - Duration: 1:31.

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World's Most Luxury Single Family Home For Sale - Duration: 5:59.

World's Most Luxury Single Family Home For Sale

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