Did you have any ways off the top of your mind or in the bottom of your heart
that you think I could support you in this moment? this just came to my mind
That's a really good question. I like how you presented that. I just am always curious of what blocks I have..
The things I don't see.
This just came to my mind. Imagine if.. Let's say the blocks that you were looking for
what if that was you looking for them?
I don't have any blocks!
I don't know.. I don't think I've ever said that to anyone or even thought about
that myself exactly that way but something about the way that you.. When
you said that I was like "I wonder if since.. I wonder if you looking for blocks
is what's maybe.." Have you ever heard of the observer effect? Like in quantum
mechanics or quantum physics where something really doesn't appear until
someone looks for it. Yeah and that's why.. I think that's where part of my
postulate of "people see what they're looking for" came from. Like it was
inspired by that idea. So that's the first thing that's coming up right now.
You look happy about that.
I am. And I was dancing a couple hours this morning with my.. I have an eight and a half year old daughter
and in Minneapolis, Minnesota we have a ecstatic dancing for two hours on Sunday mornings
to like progressive house music and it was so much fun! And so we just got home
from that and so I feel like.. ecstatic, really. I feel so happy.
And so that seems to resonate with you, huh? Is that potentially..
Yea! And so it's time for each of us to understand the mightiness of our being. And so that's how I always
walk around in life. I feel like my dharma's here to help uplift humanity and so I'm always
"how can I uplift those around me?"
And have you.. Do you have any guiding answers to those questions?
I love the questions
Yea! I do Lyft at the moment. Lyft and Uber. And so I get drive people from all around the world all over the city
and I always give them a little uplifting message that says like "do small things
with great love" and it just enlivens them. They just smile and they're so happy and
they're like "I'm gonna hang this on my bulletin board!"
It looks like you might have shaved your head. Is that correct?
Ohyea! I did on the Eclipse on August 21.
Tell me about that. That's a statement.. talking about nonverbal communication.
Yea it is the most empowering thing ever. I just love myself unconditionally
and I have for the last couple years.
And so I don't care what other people think. I love it. And I get lots of people that
compliment me and they're like "wow that's so awesome" or woman will come up to me..
"I've shaved my head before to! It's so awesome." But I have friends all over the planet
that have done it as well, so then that like, sparked an interest in me to try it. I wanna see what it feels like.
Awesome. Well I greatly appreciate you for your what I would say it seems
to be like a grounded and balanced positive optimistic outlook on life. I
think the main thing that's coming up for me is like I'm wondering what it
looks like if you're not in a ecstatic state or a kind of bliss bunny..
Or lifting up other people. Like I wonder.. I guess I'm allowing myself to wonder do
you allow yourself to go to those spaces or do those spaces even exist for you or
are you avoiding those spaces? What's coming up for you on that those questions?
They come once in a while but not as much as they used to. Like I have more uplifting moments than not.
I have more happy moments than sad moments, I guess. Cuz I used to feel depressed a little bit when I was
17 because my sister died when I was 17 and she was 15 and she needed a heart transplant and so
after that I kind of really got depressed and was suicidal and I was
like "I don't even know what I want to do in my life." I felt just sad.
I never want to go back to that place again so I've always since then.. I'm 40 now so
since I was 17 I've been like seeking answers to my
questions like "why are we here?" "what is my purpose?" "what is our species supposed
to do on earth?" "why are we in existence?I've always tried to go inward and be the best I can be
so that I don't get to those low, low places.
Yea that's main thing that's coming up for me especially.. I'm not sure.. I don't see the
time.. how much time we have left but I want to honor the creative constraint
and I would say like thank you. Thank you for sharing that with me and I imagine
that must have been extremely challenging you know maybe that's what
I'm picking up on the sense that you don't want to experience that type of
sadness ever again. And I'm just wondering if that's costing you anything.
Oh, see. That's a good question cuz ten years later then, when I was 27 my first husband
died in a car accident. He was drinking and driving and died instantly.
That shocked me even more and took me in an even more inward journey.
But I tried to just go with the flow and whatever comes to me with my emotions.. I try to just
breathe through them and I don't mask them with alcohol or drugs. I just try to feel them, let them pass
and then just keep.. the more I give gratitude to things around me.. it uplifts me faster again
and brings me back up to higher moments quicker than before.
Yea, well, woman. Woman. I understand and I hear that and I'm so proud
of you and I'm so honored to be speaking to you about these topics. Yeah I think
that I I think the main thing here is that I wanted.. like I said that..
is avoiding certain spaces or highly focusing on one aspect of the
full emotional spectrum or focusing on the positive.. I just want to make sure
that's not costing you a fuller experience. And I also am not one to like
poke at old wounds to.. make someone feel bad. That's not my intention at all.
But I was wondering is there some sort of defectiveness in this ecstatic-ness?
That's a.. question.
yeah and.. Hey I might be recognizing it because maybe it's something I've
done. Maybe I've focused on certain feelings much more so.. and and I'm not
saying that's right or wrong or good or bad but I think I'm I'm exploring
out loud and looking for a type of self acceptance that transcends duality or
transcends right or wrong or good or bad and I I thank you for getting me to ask
those questions out loud to myself as well.
Right? Exploring out loud. That was a great way to put it. Nice.
And I.. what I really wanna do is
affirm you. I want to affirm that even though the experiences you've had.. like
keep shining. Keep being ecstatic. Keep giving your gift whether it's through
Lyft or or whether it's dancing with your daughter, or whether it's taking up
opportunities like this. Please keep doing those. I think your you're an
inspiration to me in this short period of time so imagining you're an
inspiration.. A deep inspiration to a lot of people in your life.
Thank you for this opportunity to be with you. I appreciate it. And to get to see your beautiful little girl.
I know I think Divina liked that one as well. She's like.." Did you hear that
noise she made afterwards?
You know what I want to say on this calls like.. Thank
you for not.. really.. for holding a space for me not to think I'm teaching you
anything but more to learn about you which is allowing me to learn about
myself on camera which I think will inspire plenty of other people to learn
about themselves rather than thinking that I have the answers or that you have
the answers just basically like I said from the beginning exploring out loud with me.
Thank you for listening to me, so deeply as well. Thank you.
Yea, I think listening is leading honestly. I've recently started
listening to a book. I just finished it up. It's called "Never Split the Difference."
Cool book from a hostage negotiator and his whole thing is like.. "yeah a lot
of people think negotiation is talking. It's not. It's not. Talking is barely any
of it. What it is is listening like a ninja. Like can I listen to you..
like basically Tai Chi for communication. And this is not that I'm trying to hurt
you but if you are.. if someone is throwing combative blows or being
violent with their communication that basically by me holding a space of
listening that's the best thing I can do for them. I don't need.. If if I can
get them to hear themselves then I think I've done what I can do.
Whoohoo. Nice. Listening like a ninja.
Aahh, well that was the buzzer and I am uh.. I'm so happy I followed my
inkling to do these calls because I get to meet people like you. And let's stay
in touch. Keep glowing and keep being ecstatic
and if anything comes from this conversation that's a bit bending of
time or space on your mind let me know about it.
Uhm, yeah, wow. That was just another
epic quantum consultation. If you're watching this for the first time or you
don't know what these are about, I'm basically doing eleven minute
quantum consultations. I'm committed to doing 111 with people that have sent me
a screenshot of their review of Breaking Normal which is the book I currently
published right after this one was born so it's very.. It's
fresh off the press. I would recommend it mostly on Audible but you can ger it on
Kindle and print on Amazon. Send me a screenshot of your review and.. wow. Let's
listen through each other like ninjas next. Talk to you soon. Peace.
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