Youtube daily here Oct 10 2017

Let's all say hello.

I'm going to start.

Hello, I am Aron from NU'EST W.

Hello, I'm Ren from NU'EST W.

Hello, I'm Baekho from NU'EST W.

Hello, I'm JR from NU'EST W.

This is our first time on V LIVE in a long time.

Our last time was three weeks ago.

I think our fans will all know

why we are doing this right now.

Finally, our first album

'W, HERE' is released today.

There were a few teasers here and there

Yes, our new album, 'W, HERE' will be released very soon!

We were all talking about how nervous we are.

As you can see in the teasers,

we have been working so hard towards this.

We have a lot of things prepared in front of us.

I like the Goods for this album as well.

These are our photo cards.

We took selfies this time for this album.

We took it like this.

It turned out really nice.

And, what else I like is...

If you look at the CD,

the picture is printed on it.

Can we show them this?

Are we not allowed to show them?

Ren's picture is on this.

This is Aron.

We saw Baekho's pictures a lot.

This is really great.

The pictures in this are different to the album pictures.

This is our first NU'EST W's 'W, HERE' album!

We have a lot of released a few pictures

along with the teasers.

Who liked their own pictures

and any other stories?

We tried a lot of different shooting techniques

for this album.

For my solo shoot,

I thought there was a ghost.

I didn't see a ghost

but I heard it.

You should have followed the sound.

No, you have to leave ghosts alone.

A lot of people thought

that we took these album pictures

overseas but it was actually in Korea.

It was in Danyang.

You took pictures at a cathedral.

A lot of people knew where this was.

Some people said that it is closer to their homes.

I went to a lot of different places.

I went to Jebu island

and I went into the water

and landed in Daejeon.

When I came back out of the water,

I was back on Jebu island.

What was I saying?

A lot of great pictures were taken

and I think the music video will have turned out well.

I told you that I got burned.

Yes, I got burned.

Anyway...

Let's talk about the title track.

I think you will be curious about it.

Before we actually talk about that...

Let's talk about the album.

Ren, please tell us.

NU'EST W

'W, HERE' is the first album for NU'EST W.

It is a story about us

and showing where everyone is at in their lives.

You can see the lives

of each member

throughout this album.

Ren, that was good.

I feel like he introduced it

as if it wasn't our album.

We wanted to be specific with our album introduction.

Let's go on to the next part.

Let's talk about the title track.

The title track...

We wanted to show the reality

and the dreams we have.

We wanted to compare the two

and we wanted to express the struggles between finding what's realistic

and what is not.

it is very dramatic.

"Where You At"

is a future based song...

It is very dramatic

and the vocals and rap

have the best timing...

You should look forward to the performance as well.

That was the title track introduction.

You heard it...

Since we talked about the title track,

we need to talk about the solo singles as well.

Before we go into it...

We released a highlight medley. How did you feel?

Did you understand the question? I didn't really get it.

It was really impactful.

I thought it turned out really well

and made us more curious.

Some people might wonder

why the balloons are moving.

The AC is blowing right above this. That's why.

There are a lot of comments about Aron.

The lyrics were really popular these days!

Baekho helped me write this song. Baekho!

JR and Baekho, and Aron,

we all worked on the album. That's right.

We are explaining a lot right now.

Ren is really great at following directions.

He has to read it if it is written on the script.

Paradise.

That's not bad.

Paradise.

Okay, stop.

Paradise. That was good. Yes.

And...

I wrote this song

because I was thinking about the fans.

I will release the picture it was based on

and I hope you can listen to the song

while looking at the picture.

I think it will help you understand the song even better.

What about you?

For me, Seventeen's Woozi

helped me put it together.

I wanted to sing something like this

so I asked Woozi to help me.

Even though he was really busy,

he supported me straightaway.

And, helped me write this song.

I really like Baekho's single.

Personally I like mine as well. I like them all.

You are going to hear it soon....

I wrote the lyrics a lot of times.

I used the third round of lyrics,

If we get 10 million hearts,

we were going to do a promise,

If we get passed 11 million hearts,

we will do the medley for them.

We released our solo teasers

but we didn't release the group one.

Everyone wants to know about this.

I am in charge of vocals...

why do I have to do the dance?

Please show us.

They might not be able to see you. Wait a minute.

Start!

Thank you. That was enough.

That was 0,1 seconds.

At 6pm, you will see the music video.

We have passed 11 million hearts now!

Let's do the medley now.

What was the key!

Thank you!

That was it.

That was it.

That was great.

It's my turn now.

I am going to go now.

I'm going to stop right there.

That was great!

What time is it right now?

It is 5:49pm.

We have 11 minutes left.

We don't have much time left.

A few minutes left.

We are thankful to all the people who helped us make this album.

Please give us lots of love.

We worked really hard on this album

We have ten minutes left...

So, we will talk to our fans for the rest of the time.

"What was your motivation for producing and writing songs?"

Motivation...

I don't know really.

Ren and Aron worked on writing songs this time.

Let's stop playing around.

Let's start with Aron.

I didn't write too many parts,

just some of the parts.

I asked him...

What do you want to tell people?

I heard his answer

and we used the themes

and that's how the songs became possible.

I thought about fans

and we have received a lot of lovec.

to express in our songs.

That's where my motivation came in.

He worked really hard on

writing the lyrics.

he worked on this a lot

even late at night.

We have 8 minutes left.

After the press conference,

we were trending on the number 1 spot.

We are number 1 right now.

Thank you!

Why were you late on Instagram?

I uploaded a picture late...

He was busy.

I deleted the teaser picture three times

Number 1 promise?

I think we are going to change parts.

We will upload a video

to show you guys.

If we do this, what part will I do?

We are going to do a countdown

and as soon as it hits 0,

the V LIVE will finish.

We worked really hard on this album

5, 4, 3, 2, 1!

It will be over.

We have five minutes left.

We are really nervous right now.

Yes, fans are saying that they are nervous too.

Ren, you can do whatever you want.

The beginning was really difficult.

It was really dark underwater.

You have to breathe

through an equipment.

It was hard to sink.

If you want to go down,

you have to have weight tied to you.

So, in the beginning,

I signalled like this

but he said that he couldn't see it.

That was a little difficult.

You are very athletic

so I think it would have helped.

We have three minutes left.

Two more comments.

Everyone is saying that we did a good job.

Everyone worked really hard.

Our fans waited so long for this

so we could be motivated by that.

Let's do one more comment.

"What do you do when you are nervous?"

When we are nervous?

When we are nervous... we just accept it.

I think that is the best way.

You have to be nervous before going on stage.

I think that helps with the performance.

We have a minute left.

We worked really hard on this.

Please give it a lot of love and support. Thank you.

Make it a little longer.

We are going to show you great things

in the future as well.

We were NU'EST W! Thank you!

For more infomation >> [ENG/INA SUB] [171010] NU'EST W NEW ALBUM 'W, HERE' COUNTDOWN V LIVE - Duration: 29:33.

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[Engsub] 171010 NU'EST W COUNTDOWN LIVE "W HERE" - Duration: 29:33.

Let's all say hello.

I'm going to start.

Hello, I am Aron from NU'EST W.

Hello, I'm Ren from NU'EST W.

Hello, I'm Baekho from NU'EST W.

Hello, I'm JR from NU'EST W.

This is our first time on V LIVE in a long time.

Our last time was three weeks ago.

I think our fans will all know

why we are doing this right now.

Finally, our first album

'W, HERE' is released today.

There were a few teasers here and there

Yes, our new album, 'W, HERE' will be released very soon!

We were all talking about how nervous we are.

As you can see in the teasers,

we have been working so hard towards this.

We have a lot of things prepared in front of us.

I like the Goods for this album as well.

These are our photo cards.

We took selfies this time for this album.

We took it like this.

It turned out really nice.

And, what else I like is...

If you look at the CD,

the picture is printed on it.

Can we show them this?

Are we not allowed to show them?

Ren's picture is on this.

This is Aron.

We saw Baekho's pictures a lot.

This is really great.

The pictures in this are different to the album pictures.

This is our first NU'EST W's 'W, HERE' album!

We have a lot of released a few pictures

along with the teasers.

Who liked their own pictures

and any other stories?

We tried a lot of different shooting techniques

for this album.

For my solo shoot,

I thought there was a ghost.

I didn't see a ghost

but I heard it.

You should have followed the sound.

No, you have to leave ghosts alone.

A lot of people thought

that we took these album pictures

overseas but it was actually in Korea.

It was in Danyang.

You took pictures at a cathedral.

A lot of people knew where this was.

Some people said that it is closer to their homes.

I went to a lot of different places.

I went to Jebu island

and I went into the water

and landed in Daejeon.

When I came back out of the water,

I was back on Jebu island.

What was I saying?

A lot of great pictures were taken

and I think the music video will have turned out well.

I told you that I got burned.

Yes, I got burned.

Anyway...

Let's talk about the title track.

I think you will be curious about it.

Before we actually talk about that...

Let's talk about the album.

Ren, please tell us.

NU'EST W

'W, HERE' is the first album for NU'EST W.

It is a story about us

and showing where everyone is at in their lives.

You can see the lives

of each member

throughout this album.

Ren, that was good.

I feel like he introduced it

as if it wasn't our album.

We wanted to be specific with our album introduction.

Let's go on to the next part.

Let's talk about the title track.

The title track...

We wanted to show the reality

and the dreams we have.

We wanted to compare the two

and we wanted to express the struggles between finding what's realistic

and what is not.

it is very dramatic.

"Where You At"

is a future based song...

It is very dramatic

and the vocals and rap

have the best timing...

You should look forward to the performance as well.

That was the title track introduction.

You heard it...

Since we talked about the title track,

we need to talk about the solo singles as well.

Before we go into it...

We released a highlight medley. How did you feel?

Did you understand the question? I didn't really get it.

It was really impactful.

I thought it turned out really well

and made us more curious.

Some people might wonder

why the balloons are moving.

The AC is blowing right above this. That's why.

There are a lot of comments about Aron.

The lyrics were really popular these days!

Baekho helped me write this song. Baekho!

JR and Baekho, and Aron,

we all worked on the album. That's right.

We are explaining a lot right now.

Ren is really great at following directions.

He has to read it if it is written on the script.

Paradise.

That's not bad.

Paradise.

Okay, stop.

Paradise. That was good. Yes.

And...

I wrote this song

because I was thinking about the fans.

I will release the picture it was based on

and I hope you can listen to the song

while looking at the picture.

I think it will help you understand the song even better.

What about you?

For me, Seventeen's Woozi

helped me put it together.

I wanted to sing something like this

so I asked Woozi to help me.

Even though he was really busy,

he supported me straightaway.

And, helped me write this song.

I really like Baekho's single.

Personally I like mine as well. I like them all.

You are going to hear it soon....

I wrote the lyrics a lot of times.

I used the third round of lyrics,

If we get 10 million hearts,

we were going to do a promise,

If we get passed 11 million hearts,

we will do the medley for them.

We released our solo teasers

but we didn't release the group one.

Everyone wants to know about this.

I am in charge of vocals...

why do I have to do the dance?

Please show us.

They might not be able to see you. Wait a minute.

Start!

Thank you. That was enough.

That was 0,1 seconds.

At 6pm, you will see the music video.

We have passed 11 million hearts now!

Let's do the medley now.

What was the key!

Thank you!

That was it.

That was it.

That was great.

It's my turn now.

I am going to go now.

I'm going to stop right there.

That was great!

What time is it right now?

It is 5:49pm.

We have 11 minutes left.

We don't have much time left.

A few minutes left.

We are thankful to all the people who helped us make this album.

Please give us lots of love.

We worked really hard on this album

We have ten minutes left...

So, we will talk to our fans for the rest of the time.

"What was your motivation for producing and writing songs?"

Motivation...

I don't know really.

Ren and Aron worked on writing songs this time.

Let's stop playing around.

Let's start with Aron.

I didn't write too many parts,

just some of the parts.

I asked him...

What do you want to tell people?

I heard his answer

and we used the themes

and that's how the songs became possible.

I thought about fans

and we have received a lot of lovec.

to express in our songs.

That's where my motivation came in.

He worked really hard on

writing the lyrics.

he worked on this a lot

even late at night.

We have 8 minutes left.

After the press conference,

we were trending on the number 1 spot.

We are number 1 right now.

Thank you!

Why were you late on Instagram?

I uploaded a picture late...

He was busy.

I deleted the teaser picture three times

Number 1 promise?

I think we are going to change parts.

We will upload a video

to show you guys.

If we do this, what part will I do?

We are going to do a countdown

and as soon as it hits 0,

the V LIVE will finish.

We worked really hard on this album

5, 4, 3, 2, 1!

It will be over.

We have five minutes left.

We are really nervous right now.

Yes, fans are saying that they are nervous too.

Ren, you can do whatever you want.

The beginning was really difficult.

It was really dark underwater.

You have to breathe

through an equipment.

It was hard to sink.

If you want to go down,

you have to have weight tied to you.

So, in the beginning,

I signalled like this

but he said that he couldn't see it.

That was a little difficult.

You are very athletic

so I think it would have helped.

We have three minutes left.

Two more comments.

Everyone is saying that we did a good job.

Everyone worked really hard.

Our fans waited so long for this

so we could be motivated by that.

Let's do one more comment.

"What do you do when you are nervous?"

When we are nervous?

When we are nervous... we just accept it.

I think that is the best way.

You have to be nervous before going on stage.

I think that helps with the performance.

We have a minute left.

We worked really hard on this.

Please give it a lot of love and support. Thank you.

Make it a little longer.

We are going to show you great things

in the future as well.

We were NU'EST W! Thank you!

For more infomation >> [Engsub] 171010 NU'EST W COUNTDOWN LIVE "W HERE" - Duration: 29:33.

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Here's What Koreans Think About Girls Generation Members Leaving

Heres how netizens are reacting to news about Tiffany, Sooyoung, and Seohyun not renewing with SM Entertainment.

SM Entertainment confirmed that some members had decided not to renew their contracts.

But they also reassured fans that the legendary group wasnt disbanding.

After a 10 year run together, netizens were split between feeling devastated over the separation and feeling excited about their future.

Many were in tears after hearing that their girls will be separating for the time being.

SONEs reminisced over the past 10 years that theyve spent together. Some were left with questions about the future of Girls Generation.

But at the end of it all, netizens are thankful toward Girls Generation for all of their hard work.

While Tiffany, Sooyoung, and Seohyun will pursue their acting careers, the remaining 5 members will continue on with SM Entertainment.

For more infomation >> Here's What Koreans Think About Girls Generation Members Leaving - Duration: 1:26.

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[THAI/ENGSUB] NU'EST W NEW ALBUM 'W, HERE' COUNTDOWN V LIVE - Duration: 29:33.

Let's all say hello.

I'm going to start.

Hello, I am Aron from NU'EST W.

Hello, I'm Ren from NU'EST W.

Hello, I'm Baekho from NU'EST W.

Hello, I'm JR from NU'EST W.

This is our first time on V LIVE in a long time.

Our last time was three weeks ago.

I think our fans will all know

why we are doing this right now.

Finally, our first album

'W, HERE' is released today.

There were a few teasers here and there

Yes, our new album, 'W, HERE' will be released very soon!

We were all talking about how nervous we are.

As you can see in the teasers,

we have been working so hard towards this.

We have a lot of things prepared in front of us.

I like the Goods for this album as well.

These are our photo cards.

We took selfies this time for this album.

We took it like this.

It turned out really nice.

And, what else I like is...

If you look at the CD,

the picture is printed on it.

Can we show them this?

Are we not allowed to show them?

Ren's picture is on this.

This is Aron.

We saw Baekho's pictures a lot.

This is really great.

The pictures in this are different to the album pictures.

This is our first NU'EST W's 'W, HERE' album!

We have a lot of released a few pictures

along with the teasers.

Who liked their own pictures

and any other stories?

We tried a lot of different shooting techniques

for this album.

For my solo shoot,

I thought there was a ghost.

I didn't see a ghost

but I heard it.

You should have followed the sound.

No, you have to leave ghosts alone.

A lot of people thought

that we took these album pictures

overseas but it was actually in Korea.

It was in Danyang.

You took pictures at a cathedral.

A lot of people knew where this was.

Some people said that it is closer to their homes.

I went to a lot of different places.

I went to Jebu island

and I went into the water

and landed in Daejeon.

When I came back out of the water,

I was back on Jebu island.

What was I saying?

A lot of great pictures were taken

and I think the music video will have turned out well.

I told you that I got burned.

Yes, I got burned.

Anyway...

Let's talk about the title track.

I think you will be curious about it.

Before we actually talk about that...

Let's talk about the album.

Ren, please tell us.

NU'EST W

'W, HERE' is the first album for NU'EST W.

It is a story about us

and showing where everyone is at in their lives.

You can see the lives

of each member

throughout this album.

Ren, that was good.

I feel like he introduced it

as if it wasn't our album.

We wanted to be specific with our album introduction.

Let's go on to the next part.

Let's talk about the title track.

The title track...

We wanted to show the reality

and the dreams we have.

We wanted to compare the two

and we wanted to express the struggles between finding what's realistic

and what is not.

it is very dramatic.

"Where You At"

is a future based song...

It is very dramatic

and the vocals and rap

have the best timing...

You should look forward to the performance as well.

That was the title track introduction.

You heard it...

Since we talked about the title track,

we need to talk about the solo singles as well.

Before we go into it...

We released a highlight medley. How did you feel?

Did you understand the question? I didn't really get it.

It was really impactful.

I thought it turned out really well

and made us more curious.

Some people might wonder

why the balloons are moving.

The AC is blowing right above this. That's why.

There are a lot of comments about Aron.

The lyrics were really popular these days!

Baekho helped me write this song. Baekho!

JR and Baekho, and Aron,

we all worked on the album. That's right.

We are explaining a lot right now.

Ren is really great at following directions.

He has to read it if it is written on the script.

Paradise.

That's not bad.

Paradise.

Okay, stop.

Paradise. That was good. Yes.

And...

I wrote this song

because I was thinking about the fans.

I will release the picture it was based on

and I hope you can listen to the song

while looking at the picture.

I think it will help you understand the song even better.

What about you?

For me, Seventeen's Woozi

helped me put it together.

I wanted to sing something like this

so I asked Woozi to help me.

Even though he was really busy,

he supported me straightaway.

And, helped me write this song.

I really like Baekho's single.

Personally I like mine as well. I like them all.

You are going to hear it soon....

I wrote the lyrics a lot of times.

I used the third round of lyrics,

If we get 10 million hearts,

we were going to do a promise,

If we get passed 11 million hearts,

we will do the medley for them.

We released our solo teasers

but we didn't release the group one.

Everyone wants to know about this.

I am in charge of vocals...

why do I have to do the dance?

Please show us.

They might not be able to see you. Wait a minute.

Start!

Thank you. That was enough.

That was 0,1 seconds.

At 6pm, you will see the music video.

We have passed 11 million hearts now!

Let's do the medley now.

What was the key!

Thank you!

That was it.

That was it.

That was great.

It's my turn now.

I am going to go now.

I'm going to stop right there.

That was great!

What time is it right now?

It is 5:49pm.

We have 11 minutes left.

We don't have much time left.

A few minutes left.

We are thankful to all the people who helped us make this album.

Please give us lots of love.

We worked really hard on this album

We have ten minutes left...

So, we will talk to our fans for the rest of the time.

"What was your motivation for producing and writing songs?"

Motivation...

I don't know really.

Ren and Aron worked on writing songs this time.

Let's stop playing around.

Let's start with Aron.

I didn't write too many parts,

just some of the parts.

I asked him...

What do you want to tell people?

I heard his answer

and we used the themes

and that's how the songs became possible.

I thought about fans

and we have received a lot of lovec.

to express in our songs.

That's where my motivation came in.

He worked really hard on

writing the lyrics.

he worked on this a lot

even late at night.

We have 8 minutes left.

After the press conference,

we were trending on the number 1 spot.

We are number 1 right now.

Thank you!

Why were you late on Instagram?

I uploaded a picture late...

He was busy.

I deleted the teaser picture three times

Number 1 promise?

I think we are going to change parts.

We will upload a video

to show you guys.

If we do this, what part will I do?

We are going to do a countdown

and as soon as it hits 0,

the V LIVE will finish.

We worked really hard on this album

5, 4, 3, 2, 1!

It will be over.

We have five minutes left.

We are really nervous right now.

Yes, fans are saying that they are nervous too.

Ren, you can do whatever you want.

The beginning was really difficult.

It was really dark underwater.

You have to breathe

through an equipment.

It was hard to sink.

If you want to go down,

you have to have weight tied to you.

So, in the beginning,

I signalled like this

but he said that he couldn't see it.

That was a little difficult.

You are very athletic

so I think it would have helped.

We have three minutes left.

Two more comments.

Everyone is saying that we did a good job.

Everyone worked really hard.

Our fans waited so long for this

so we could be motivated by that.

Let's do one more comment.

"What do you do when you are nervous?"

When we are nervous?

When we are nervous... we just accept it.

I think that is the best way.

You have to be nervous before going on stage.

I think that helps with the performance.

We have a minute left.

We worked really hard on this.

Please give it a lot of love and support. Thank you.

Make it a little longer.

We are going to show you great things

in the future as well.

We were NU'EST W! Thank you!

For more infomation >> [THAI/ENGSUB] NU'EST W NEW ALBUM 'W, HERE' COUNTDOWN V LIVE - Duration: 29:33.

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Yes, Summer's Hanging Around But Flu Season Is Already Here - Duration: 2:18.

For more infomation >> Yes, Summer's Hanging Around But Flu Season Is Already Here - Duration: 2:18.

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'It's like Armageddon out here': Wildfire destroys Santa Rosa homes - Duration: 2:47.

For more infomation >> 'It's like Armageddon out here': Wildfire destroys Santa Rosa homes - Duration: 2:47.

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[ENG SUB] NU'EST W [W,HERE] Jacket Filming Behind The Scenes - Duration: 6:09.

SORRY ABOUT THE SHIT AUDIO QUALITY

I USED SCREEN RECORD RIP

This is the filming set of NU'EST W's jacket shoot

If you look at the concept, the atmosphere is more of a home than of a studio,

So we're doing this shoot with the comfortable feeling as if we are at home

I'm anticipating it a lot.

Aron hyung is sticking his tongue out behind the camera.

No? I'm just staying still.

We're doing a jacket shoot after a long time,

The last thing we shot was LOVE PAINT 1 year ago

So I'm really nervous.

He's like a pillow.

The set location today is really pretty

So I think the photos would come out well too.

Please anticipate it a lot.

I'm really happy that our album is going to be released

and I'm also happy that we get to shoot an album jacket

So I worked really hard to let the photos be taken prettily

I did a lot of self-grooming.

This is a concept where we show our natural appearances.

But of course, we don't look like this when we're at home.

I feel really good about this album.

And for many reasons, I'm in a really good mood.

As we worked on producing this,

We seem to have found a kind of assurance, and it was really fun.

In my opinion, my side profile is the prettiest.

Is that so? That's just hyung's opinion of course.

That's right, that's my opinion.

In order for LOVEs to know that too, please show your side profile.

Handsome.

Goodnight.

We are in Paju now.

Following from earlier on, we're doing the jacket shoot.

I feel really proud that the photos came out well.

Everyone please anticipate it too.

(so goodlooking.....stab my heart....)

I'm an autumn man.

(can't hear what he's saying....)

The members all came out well in the photos

The photos from today were good, so I'm really glad

We're preparing really hard for the album now

So we really hope you anticipate it lots.

And for this album, it contains our solo songs.

This is an album we worked really hard on.

It's an album where we put in effort to try and contain each of our individual appearances,

So we hope you give it lots of love.

The lyrics were written as I thought of the fans,

So I hope that LOVEs would like the album a lot.

Until now, it has been NU'EST W!

Thank you!

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Whiteboard Session: Clashing with a Coworker? Here's What to Do - Duration: 8:38.

AMY GALLO: It is a very positive thing

to have conflicts in work.

You get better work outcomes.

You get stronger relationships.

It's how we handle conflict that's often negative.

We don't think rationally.

We don't make good choices.

We say things we regret.

Before you have the conversation,

if you go through these four steps,

it's going to help you make a rational, smart choice.

Informed choice.

About what to do and how to do it.

It's important to note that the very first step is not

to focus on your feelings.

That's going to be our instinct, right?

We're all very narcissistic when we enter a conflict.

And that's a natural thing.

But you need to break out of that

and start to think about the other person.

This is not out of generosity.

This is not out of altruism.

This is a strategic move that's going

to help you solve the conflict.

So ask yourself questions like, is this person a conflict

seeker or an avoider?

What is the goal they're trying to achieve here?

What is it that they want from this situation?

You might think that person is out to get you.

Or you might think that the person really

just wants the promotion that you're also aiming for.

But what else could be going on for that person?

Could it be that they had a long night?

You know, didn't get much sleep.

Could it be that they're under a lot of stress at home?

Could it be that they care about this project?

Or that one of the values that they care most about--

let's say fairness or honesty--

is being threatened.

So really try to get into the mind of the other person.

This includes, as I mentioned, understanding whether they're

an avoider or a seeker.

Avoiders value relationships and harmony.

That's what's most important to them.

They often will placate others because of these concerns

about having good relationships at work.

They'll try to change the topic.

They'll try to redirect people to something else.

It's a very good strategy if you're an avoider,

and you don't want to be in a conflict.

Now seekers, on the other hand, value directness and honesty.

Again, it's not that they don't care about relationships

and harmony, it's just for them, directness and honesty

is more important.

They will advocate for themselves

when they get into a conflict.

They're not afraid to say what they want and what they need.

That also means they're usually willing to advocate for others

as well.

They also can be impatient when it comes to conflict.

Now, I say this with absolute empathy

because I identify as a seeker.

There are lots of people who are both avoiders and seekers.

You might be an avoider with your boss,

but a seeker with your mother.

So we all sometimes use different roles

and different tactics.

But most of us have a general default approach.

So, like I said, you need to know what you yourself are.

You also need to know what the other person is.

For example, if you're a seeker and the other person's

and avoider, in this first step you're

going to notice, OK great.

I have to watch out for bullying.

Or I have to watch out that I don't talk over this person.

Or if they start to change the topic,

I need to understand that's part of their avoider-ness,

not because they're being disrespectful to me.

The second thing you need to know is, the type of conflict

you're having.

Most of us assume that we are in what

we call relationship conflict.

Which is also personal conflict.

Now, that's very common is that you'll feel disrespected.

Or you'll feel that your relationship is at stake.

This is particularly common for avoiders.

And the truth is, most conflicts-- especially

at work-- don't necessarily start as a relationship

conflict.

It's not that your interaction or your working relationship

is at stake.

More often, it starts as one of the others.

And the most common is task.

Task conflicts are conflicts when you disagree

over the goal or the objective.

So I might think the goal with our project

is to improve customer service.

While you think the goal is to increase revenue.

That's also related to the third type of conflict,

which is a process conflict.

So we might agree on the goal.

So we might agree that the goal is to increase revenue.

But we might disagree about the way to get there.

So I often think of this as the what, and this as the how.

That's linked to the last type of conflict,

which is status conflict.

And that's really about power.

So who has the power or authority

to make a decision to move something forward?

And you see this a lot on cross-functional task forces,

or cross-functional teams.

Where it's not exactly clear who's in charge.

And there's a lot of jockeying for position, or for authority,

or you might even see some turf wars.

No matter what type of conflict you're having--

whether it's one of these last three--

often it can then end up in a relationship conflict, right?

So you start to disagree over what the goal of the project

is.

But then I start to feel disrespected.

Perhaps you sent me a snarky email at 11:00 at night.

Or perhaps, your raised your voice at me during a meeting.

So I start to feel like our relationship is at stake.

And that's why this step is really helpful.

Because what you want to do is, think about what

was actually going on?

What actually started?

Was it that you disagreed over what

you were trying to achieve?

Did you disagree. how you were going to try to achieve it?

Did you disagree about who was in charge?

And then did it evolve into something that felt personal

and possibly disrespectful?

Analyzing that, and understanding

what exactly is going on, will help

you tease apart the different strings of your conflict.

Now, the third step is to understand your goal.

Most of us feel like when we enter a conflict,

I want to win.

If that's your goal, think of a different goal.

Is it that the project needs to get done on time?

Is it the product needs to come under budget?

Is it that you want to have a strong working

relationship with the person who you're having a conflict with?

You also want to make sure that your goal is a shared goal.

So that work you did in step one,

to understand your counterpart and think about her goal.

If there's any overlap between how what you're

trying to achieve and what she's trying to achieve,

that's a great place to start when you actually

have the conversation.

Now the last step--

the fourth-- is to choose an option.

So the first option is to do absolutely nothing.

Now, I know that sounds a little bit like a funny option.

But we do this all day long.

This is a great option if you're very concerned

about the relationship.

If you are dealing with someone who tends to be unreasonable.

If you feel like they won't be open to having a conversation.

This is not a good option if you think

that you're going to stew about the situation.

The second is, directly address.

I think, especially in American work culture, US work culture,

this is what we think of most often when we

think of conflict management or conflict resolution.

This is where you and your counterpart

talk about options for how to resolve it.

And you'll hopefully come to a resolution.

The third option is to indirectly address.

Now, in many cultures--

or many contexts, many organizations--

indirectly addressing it feels like a little bit,

perhaps, passive aggressive.

But there's many contexts in which

this is a very useful option.

Now, the last option is to exit the relationship.

Now, this should be a last resort option.

It's often not possible in work culture or work environments.

You may not be able to quit your job.

You may not be able to get a new boss.

You may not be able to change who you share your office with,

right?

But if you've tried one or more of these options--

hopefully all of them--

and things are not getting better, then you

should definitely think about how can I lessen my interaction

with this person?

Can I get staffed to a new team?

Can I maybe, you know, switch departments and report

to a new boss?

You know, you don't need to stay in a situation

where you're having a lot of conflict,

and it really feels unresolvable.

There's very good reasons to have

healthy conflict on a team.

And it's actually a manager's responsibility

to create some of that conflict, as long as it's healthy.

As long as teams have the tools they

need to work through it in a productive way.

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Bigger'n Dallas: Elimination Tattoo - Sneak Peek | Ink Master: Angels (Season 1) - Duration: 10:21.

♪ ♪

- You girls ready to wrangle up some new artists?

- [chuckles]

♪ ♪

- Hey, guys, how are you? - Hey.

- It's finally nice to meet you guys.

- You must be Dominique. - Yes, I am.

- All right.

- My name's Dominique Ransom.

I've been tattooing for three years.

I feel like I have a different style

than most people in this industry.

I like the bright, sparkly, girly stuff.

And this is where I tattoo, right here.

This is where I make great stuff.

- It's like a princess went to a disco and then exploded.

- The more girly-er the better, that's how I like to do it.

- We're always pushing ourselves,

and we are here to see if you want to push yourself.

- Hell yeah. I haven't ever got the chance

to do a convention, 'cause I'm sort of new.

So this is the biggest thing for me, ever.

- Your first time competing?

- Yeah. - That's one way to start.

- Yeah.

- We have two other great artists who are coming in.

- I'm excited; I want to see who my competition is.

[rock music]

- My name is Deanna Smith,

and I have been tattooing

for three and a half years.

I'm usually known for my color portraits, flowers.

I do a lot of color realism.

I can hold my own against the best in Dallas.

Hey, guys. - How are you?

- Can I get a hug? - It's good to see you.

- Oh, my God, it's so good to see you.

- You guys know each other?

- Yeah, we met in Detroit,

and I saw a freaking awesome portrait

that she did on one of my friends.

- Oh, we got a portrait girl here.

- Portraits and flowers is sort of my deal.

- We have two completely different styles here.

How do you feel about realism?

- I have done it.

I'm not super comfortable with it.

- Yeah, I think you have to be pretty good to do realism.

- I'm not, like, worried about it.

I can beat you. - We'll find out.

- This is a spicy little clambake, isn't it?

- I'm ready. - There is one more competitor.

[rock music]

- My name is Ejay,

and I've been tattooing for eight years.

I love to do any kind of tattoo,

but the style of tattoos that I'm known for

right now is stippling and black and gray.

[laughs] Oh, man.

It's the Angels, dude.

- Hey, man, how are you?

- I really cannot believe y'all are real, dude.

- Nice to meet you.

- I really got to hug you.

- Nice to meet you.

- Dear God, you come in hot.

- Hi! [chuckles]

Can I just stand over there?

'Cause, you know, if we know we're going to win...

- That's a lot of confidence coming in here

if you don't know the work of these two girls.

What if they blow you away?

- They won't. There's no way.

- Ooh.

- You know, we came here to go up against the best.

So that's what we're looking for today.

The three of you guys better bring it.

- I'm gonna bring. It's been brought.

It's here. Let's do it!

- So this is how it's gonna go.

You have two elimination tattoos,

and one artist is gonna be eliminated from each round.

The winner gets to face off against one of us Angels.

- It's gonna be great.

- Yes. - I'm gonna kill it.

- If you can beat one of us,

you earn your spot on "Ink Master" season ten.

- Hell yeah, that's awesome! - Whoo!

- Whoo! - That's me, baby!

- This is huge.

I have been wanting to be on "Ink Master" forever.

- You guys ready for your first elimination tattoo?

- Yes. - Yes.

- First you're going to have a two-hour tattoo.

The loser of this round immediately gets eliminated.

You can do any style, any subject matter,

but it has to be on the foot.

- Feet hurt like hell.

- Yes, they do. - Yes.

- So please, be gentle-yentle.

- We expect to see clean line work, clean shading,

overall flow, and design.

Two hours is not a lot of time, guys.

So you have a very short window

to show us everything you want to show us.

- Get set up, and we're gonna go bring your canvases.

- The three of you better bring it today.

[percussive rock music]

♪ ♪

- All right, you guys have two hours

to show us your best tattoos.

[dramatic music]

And your time starts now!

- Let's get to it, baby.

- The thing about getting a tattoo on your foot

is that the skin of the foot is constantly rubbing.

You're always in shoes.

You're always walking around.

Your feet get really beat up.

You can't just slap any design that you want on a foot.

I want to see strong, solid black.

Over time, that is what's going to hold.

- Ready? - Yep, let's do this.

♪ ♪

[tattoo machine buzzing]

- It's a bee! - Oh, it's a little bee.

- Oh, you know exactly what it is.

- This is a big, bold tattoo.

I want to show that I can do cool black and gray

but also do the real rough texture

of the pattern on the backgrounds.

I'm beekeeper.

I am not gonna butcher this tattoo.

Look at that. I'm a proud daddy.

Having a baby girl is what changed my life.

I need to be the best for her.

- [baby whining] - You've changed a lot.

You're a lot better. - I have a reason.

Right, momma? - Yeah, you're right.

- I'll do my best for you.

- [shrieks] [both laugh]

- So what's your plan?

You going for, like, mostly line work?

- Mostly line work, mostly black and gray.

- Yeah. - Keep it classy.

- Cool. - Not too much color.

I need to prove I'm one of the best in Dallas.

[dramatic music]

- This is something I wouldn't normally do.

It's like a test for myself to see, like,

"Can you do this?" - Yeah.

- I'm doing a rose.

Yeah, it sounds simple,

but I'm gonna make it the cleanest black and gray rose

that I can do.

No competition at all.

I was always into art.

My parents wanted me to go to art school

to be a traditional artist,

but then I received my first tattoos.

- Yes, a little shock wave went through me.

- You were so angry.

You didn't talk to me for a week.

My Jewish mother wasn't the happiest.

- Every time you post another tattoo, I'm just in awe

that each one gets better and better.

- Eventually she came around, and now she's my biggest fan.

- We're so excited! - Thank you.

I'm so excited.

[heavy rock music]

It's risky to not do color

because I specialize in color,

but in two hours, I need to show the Angels

the best that I can do.

- All right, you have one hour left.

One hour.

- Oh, man.

♪ ♪

- I'll be done with this line work soon,

and then I'll start coloring.

- Full color? - Mm-hmm.

Tattooing super-girly crystals

and some flower work.

I like to do a lot of different line weights

so my outline is taking longer than I need it to.

I have to rush through this.

I wish I could see you more, but I know you understand

the hours that I have to contribute.

- It's just something that comes with the territory.

- My career has to come before everything.

Every day I want to progress

and get better than I was the previous day.

- Yeah, you don't want to be content.

- Being in this competition

is going to make me a better tattooer.

- It's big.

Very proud of you.

- I have so much to prove.

- You feeling good? - Mm-hmm.

I'm not worried about the time.

I'm pretty quick tattooer.

[dramatic music]

♪ ♪

- All right, first thoughts.

- I'm really concerned about Deanna going realistic

because that's a pretty big flower,

and you kind of got to take your time with realism.

- I'm most excited about Ejay's design.

- I'm not really stoked on his design.

- Really? I think it's cool.

- I can't see what the [bleep] is going on.

- Yeah, that might be a problem.

- I don't understand what's happening.

Then we look at Dominique's work--

because hers is more simple

and there's not so many things distracting it,

we're gonna see mistakes with a much bigger microscope.

[hard rock music]

♪ ♪

- Five,

four,

three,

two,

one.

Time's up. Stop tattooing!

- Does it look like a keeper?

- I like it. - Good.

- My return policies really suck.

- You like it?

- That is so cool.

- I'm super excited about it.

- Deanna's rose is pretty sharp and clean.

But I just don't really get

what's going on with that swoosh

going right down the middle.

- [chuckles]

- I feel way more confident right now.

You're super awesome.

- That did not go as I expected it to go.

- Doing a foot tattoo is unlike doing a tattoo

anywhere else on the body.

You have to actually take the anatomy into account.

- It's also the longevity of your tattoo

because the feet heal unlike any other part of the body.

- Compositionally, Deanna's tattoo is lovely.

I love the space in between the leaves.

I love the painterly line work that she put in

to break it up against the realism of the rose.

Her main problem is the line work.

- Yeah. - There's not enough of it.

- That whole center of that flower is gonna be gone

within under a year.

- But the few lines that Deanna did put in

are so much better than any of the lines

that Ejay or Dominique put in their tattoo.

- Looking at Ejay's tattoo, it's almost impossible

to judge his ability to do any shading or line work.

There's no solid blacks. There's no contrast.

- And he made the cockamamie decision

to let white hold the thing together

when it's on a foot.

And it's all gonna be gone.

- But you can't deny his creativity.

His problem is that he bit off more than could chew.

- I would make the same argument about Dominique.

Everything about hers looked rushed,

but she had a good plan.

She went in there with bold lines.

- But the bold lines aren't great.

That pink is put in super splotchy and unevenly.

If she's a color artist,

she should know what colors are easier to put in than others.

- This is not easy.

We have to make a choice.

- I tried to push the envelope.

And I feel like y'all should have done the same.

Y'all did extremely small, safe tattoos.

- I did not do a small tattoo.

- You barely applied anything. You didn't even finish.

- I applied the crap out of that tattoo.

- What's up, guys?

- Having a little debate amongst yourselves?

- Something like that.

- It was an intense deliberation,

but the winner for today's elimination tattoo is...

[dramatic music]

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SUBMIT YOUR PRAYER REQUEST HERE!!! | TB Joshua Prayer - Duration: 3:41.

Where can we go from His presence?

Where can we go from His presence? Nowhere!

It is time now for His blessing to locate you.

[Amen!]

Listen, you have been positioned already.

You have been positioned. - [Amen]

You must believe what I am saying because this is not my word - not mine! Not mine!

You have been positioned! - [Amen]

For healing! - [Amen]

For blessing! - [Amen]

For deliverance! - [Amen]

For salvation! - [Amen]

Right now, begin to receive it!

Viewers all over the world, begin to receive it!

Receive them right now, in the name of Jesus!

Begin to receive them!

His mercy - you have been positioned!

You have been positioned for His mercy!

His favour - you have been positioned for His favour! - [Amen]

Receive it right now.

I have been positioned for His favour.

I have been positioned for His mercy!

His favour, His mercy - Lord Jesus, in Jesus Christ's name! - [Amen]

I command healing on you! - [Amen!]

Wherever affliction, disease or sickness located - be healed! - [Amen]

Be removed! - [Amen]

Where can affliction go? Where can disease go?

In your organ - there is no hiding place.

In your blood - be healed! - [Amen]

In your bone - be healed! - [Amen]

I can see you being healed! - [Amen!]

I can see you being delivered! - [Amen!]

I can see you being healed! - [Amen!]

I can see!

Remember, physical eyes can see the present darkness but the eyes of faith can see the light.

I can see! - [Amen!]

Physical eyes can see the present darkness, your situation, the sickness, disease

but the eyes of faith can see the light. - [Amen]

Be free, in Jesus' name! - [Amen!]

Be free! - [Amen!]

You are free. - [Amen]

Pray Along With Prophet T.B. Joshua Touch The Screen By Faith In Jesus's Name

Listen, the devil must remove his hand. - [Amen!]

Listen, Jesus is involved; devil you must remove your hand! - [Amen!]

When Jesus is involved, devil, remove your hand!

Remove your hand!

[Amen!]

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The shame of addiction turned my life into a lie. Here's what saved my family - Duration: 3:01.

JUDY WOODRUFF: As part of our series America Addicted, tonight, we look at the role shame

sometimes plays in families coping with a loved one's addiction.

Anita Devlin speaks to groups all over the country about addiction, but, as you will

hear in tonight's In My Humble Opinion, it was a dangerously long time before she spoke

up at all.

ANITA DEVLIN, Author: If you looked at our family photos seven years ago, you wouldn't

have seen the darkness, because that's exactly what I wanted.

I cared about keeping up appearances.

I couldn't imagine what would happen to my world if people found out.

If I said it aloud, if I asked for help, that would make it real.

My son Michael was 17.

He had been taking painkillers after having back-to-back surgeries for lacrosse injuries.

They were prescribed by a doctor, so I never thought twice about giving them to him.

I even picked them up at the pharmacy and doled them out like vitamins.

Giving them to my son was my choice.

Taking them was his choice.

Becoming addicted to them was never a choice.

Little by little, Mike started to change right in front of me.

He lost weight.

He began to lie.

In the place of my son stood a complete stranger.

This wasn't in our life plans.

My husband and I had a loving marriage, strong careers, a beautiful home and two wonderful

children.

Then the voices started creeping into my head, first, the denial of, not my child, then the

shaming of, don't tell anyone.

People will think I'm a terrible parent.

Everyone will think I have failed my child.

I thought it was his choice to be taking those pills.

And when his roommates called to say he was missing, a friend was at my house and heard

what was going on.

I had kept it a secret.

I hadn't told her anything.

Once I did tell her the story, she reached out to treatment centers, because I didn't

even know who to call.

Shame is powerful.

Shame makes us quiet.

And being quiet means being alone.

No one can do this alone.

And we will never solve the opioid epidemic if we continue to let judgment fester.

No one should be afraid to ask for help, for fear of being blamed or shamed.

No one is immune to this insidious disease.

I'm one of the lucky moms.

It took time, but I realized I was living a lie.

Keeping up appearances no longer mattered.

Helping my only son was the only thing that mattered.

Fortunately, Michael accepted help.

He went to a residential treatment program, where our family received counseling.

He's been in recovery for nearly seven years, and our lives are filled with gratitude.

Today, I'm an advocate, not only for long-term addiction treatment, but also for living authentically.

Only when we take steps to eradicate shame can we truly help heal broken families.

JUDY WOODRUFF: Anita Devlin, we thank you.