hello there I'm Natasha Koo, the founder of feminine space and welcome to day 15 of
this wonderful journey has really redefined womanhood for ourselves and
today we're going to be talking about how the very thing that you want the
most in your life could be the thing that you fear also the most so let's
call it the happiest paradox or the dream paradox so let's get to it
this is such a funny topic the happiness paradox because we should be striving
our whole lives trying to get closer and closer to having that one thing that
could be you know unconditional love for you or being very successful in your job
or just finding great peace within yourself
or just feeling so good about who you are and generating and nurturing that
self-love but at the same time what if we fear that ultimate thing that we are
looking for and trying to get in the first place then that makes people a
little bit hard of isn't it so I kind of want to break this down because there's
really type in the topic all redefining womanhood if we're on the pan to the
future and take a look at our lives right now what can I make in terms of
changes to make it more aware into myself how can I begin to start pursuing
my dreams and actually live a life without any regrets you might notice
that you're encouraged or the worth is within you might be bugging you to
doodle you know big courageous decisions it might be letting you to go for a
career that's completely different than what you have now
so newbies match and mesh to go outside of your comfort zone to get and begin to
speed all those things that you've always wanted
the same time you might have a big fear behind actually going for it right so
that we might begin that very beginning of that internal conflict but we want to
hold it down here to the moment you actually get it for example if you land
that dream job right or say an opportunity opens up and you have that
chance right in front of you to actually take that step to start a start a
business or you find that really beautiful person who you just helped
them in deep inside that's my partner so things are falling into place you
actually see it happening and it's what you've always looked for so it's right
there in front of you now well what do you do right because sometimes when it's
actually there we're in the moment and we're dreaming and wishing and we're
working so hard to get it and it's right there we can begin to completely freak
out because we keep dreaming of it we keep seeking it but we don't actually
affect deep within us that were deserving of this this unconditional
love the perfect child the drop that doesn't even feel like
work or beautiful partner or beautiful home whatever it may be an opportunity
to travel whatever it may be whatever lifestyle or feeling that you're looking
for method arrive is when it really comes and realizes in front of you and
it's there for you to receive and to just you know take and have and enjoy
and experience it money be difficult you might buy yourself she's fighting and
being afraid what's there because it always seems too good to be true
so I return response from the ego like to maybe to push it away to question it
down to even be afraid of it and now that's
really interesting isn't it because we've been looking for it our whole life
we've been working so hard to get it and the moment it shows up we might actually
eject it so this is a really really interesting topic because it actually
ties into whether we actually believe that we are worthy of our dreams all our
heart desires and that what we're actually here feeling within us that we
wish to express what you have or to come into form and you know manifestation and
into reality and as much as we work towards it and try to make it happen
we made it on a deeper level don't actually accept the fact that these wild
dreams are a part of us and that we are that and we are it so when it actually
happens there's almost like a disconnect between ourselves and the fact that is
here for us and that is the world you are asking yourself to embrace this new
new new beauty this new expansion in your life and this deep connection to
love so in order to fall into that path on your true selves of your dreams
sometimes when it does happen it required a level of courage and
vulnerability for you to actually affect appreciate and fully take in that it's
happening and it's for you to keep and it's completely yours and now is the
time to have it and just we know that so another example I can give you is about
love right we wish to feel love we want to happen conditional love we're
searching for that partner and when it when he or she does come into our life
and someone so open heartedly just gives us love acceptance as we are
takes us in just as we are is not needy it's not you know so the kind of
dependent upon us that is simply there enjoying the journey along side of it
and completely accepting and loving of who we are it might feel funny to be
loved in this way because it might not be something we've experienced before so
it might actually trigger something within yourself if you are still holding
on to those insecurities those doubts that you know the verified or you
shouldn't have that but like it can't be real or that that can't possibly happen
to you or stay for the long run so when that does happen and you notice that
okay I'm beginning to actually manifest it's actually happening what I want in
my life that redefinition of myself as a woman is actually happening in ways that
I made dreamt up but it's here now and if you feel the resistance in your heart
in yourself of fear of unworthiness that you should have that any resistance at
all and just take note of it as I mentioned in this video maybe remember
all the words I haven't shared this video and no not those are just thoughts
and has that's just another opportunity for you to strip away that last layer
that isn't to you right so the indication to have it all and to finally
let go that you are not deserving you're not worthy because it's here I aspire to
say yes to that so a really Marcus share this video with you because so important
for us not only to begin looking at our life seeing the options that we have
before us feeling that infinite beam which we are and that connection to love
for ourselves and for but when all of this really truly comes
to form you might feel that resistance so that's that lateral that's that last
hurdle we can pass through this video what's there and then it doesn't drop
away but if we fight that dream we've always have we fight that goodness up in
front of us it doesn't help to make it stay right then we're really pushing the
way and we're not allowing ourselves to bathe in the dream base in this life
full of abundance so allow yourself to have that take note when it's happening
you know that it's okay it's alright to truly want something but be afraid of it
at the very same time and know that you know when you when you begin to feel the
major peace within you to stillness that wholesomeness that is you no matter how
foreign or strangeness feel or how scary it must be to actually prepare to that
the beauty of being you and living a life that feels just so wonderful and
perfect for yourself know that that's okay we can feel that fear let it drop
away and completely settle into this new reality that is real as yours so I hope
that this video has helped you to kind of debunk the paradox of our happiness
and our dreams actually coming to form and this inner resistance and inner
fight that might be in place and how we can face it for that we can actually
gathered abundance around this and really enjoy ourselves really settle in
to the new definition of your life and whatever happiness and joy that comes
along with it with these changes and transformations so make sure to give me
a thumbs up for this video if you heard something new
new insight and since of course subscribe for new videos that are coming
along in this series and learn and share a lot in the comments out of all the
things that you're you know women looking for you're going towards moving
towards that you just want so much for yourself in your life do you feel like
perhaps when it does come how would you react to that how you ever experience
fear of having something that's just so amazing and good that is almost
overwhelming or do you think there's something with didn't mean there might
be some doubt or insecurity or worried that that you might not actually deserve
it all so share in the comments because you're not never ever alone and we're
going through this together so I really look forward to hearing from you I'll
reply to all your comments and yeah it for today but I hope that this video has
shown you perhaps a people layer to our journey and emotion and the process that
that might come up as we dive into even more beautiful and deeper part of
ourselves and allowing that to come to form in our life so let's keep on going
we're halfway through this 30-day journey and I'll see you tomorrow bye
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