Youtube daily life style Oct 28 2018

So there comes a point in your life where you just say buckets I can't keep

living like this I can't keep working this shitty job

I can't keep playing so fucking small and you just start asking the questions

how can I change us what can I do different and you start to learn

different things and you start to put this new information in your brain and

you start to question reality and you know getting sick and tired of the

status quo and as you start to move down this path of learning and taking action

you discover certain things along the way and for me six or seven years ago

about seven years ago now I discovered this video by Brian Swann and it was

called create your perfect day and he said you know what would your perfect

average day in the life look like what would you do in the morning what would

you eat for breakfast who would you spend time with what would what would

you be passionate about what would you spend your time doing what do you love

to do what would your purposeful mission be oh and I started asking these

questions but in the exercise he said write down six pages or as many pages as

you can specifically what that perfect day would look like and then read this

every morning and every night to program yourself to become the person that you

need to become to get that type of life so I did this exercise and six years

later I'm living that exact life and it's unbelievable and I'm actually even

friends now with Brian Swan who shared this exercise with me and it's so

powerful knowing that if you get to that point your life where you just can't

stand being where you're at anymore that you can use your imagination and you can

write down exactly what you want your life to look like and you can create a

completely new life now that doesn't come with the challenges went through

five years of a lot of shit to get to here and a lot of things that I'm not

proud of doing a lot of a lot of fucked up stuff that I went through a lot of

fears to overcome a lot of killing that old version of myself to emerge a better

version but the point is you can use your imagination and you can create

exactly what you want in that vision and manifest it into reality so write down

your perfect day read it every morning and night and watch the magic happen

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Draw My YouTube Life - Vicky - Duration: 14:00.

In November 28th, 2016, I posted my very first video online.

"Why did you post that video?"

was the question that people who watched it, carefully asked me.

In all truthfulness, I don't have one defined reason or intention.

I left a job two weeks prior to making that video,

the job that paid well but I chose to leave because it wasn't fulfilling and rather disappointing,

and more than that, I wanted to do something else.

I wanted to write.

I honestly thought I could write a book.

I wasn't certain about all the details, but I had this vague but strong determination that I will write.

And a week prior to posting that video, the idea came pouring into my head

and even before giving second thoughts to it, I wrote them all down as it came.

All of them.

I was soo focused on it that I even forgot to eat.

It took me three entire days to finish an 8-page-long article.

And then I realized 8-page was too long,

and there were parts that I didn't feel so comfortable sharing.

The other things I was sharing were already very personal and took a lot of courage to share,

so I removed those parts and after reconstructing and size cutting,

the final draft became a 4-page article.

And then I was certain I need to make it into a video.

I felt scared, of course, but I just did it.

I don't know. It just happened.

And it was fun.

I used an old camera at home that I never used that much before,

and I could afford to buy a good microphone.

My friend helped me film a video at my house and

I hired a person to teach me how to use video editing program for one whole day.

And the video was ready.

It's funny because while I was making that video, I never second-guessed my decision,

but right before posting it, I was so nervous

and thought "Do I really need to share this?"

I even sent the video link to three of my friends and asked what they thought.

Anyways, it eventually happened.

The video was up. People watched it.

And… everything was fine.

I mean, it shocked and puzzled some people

but also some of my old friends and even complete strangers sent me kind, loving and encouraging messages

through Facebook, comments, Kakao Talk etc.

But the best part about sharing that video was the after effect,

and by after effect I mean all the video ideas that came after making that video.

Because sharing the first one was the hardest mountain to climb,

the mountains that came after it felt relatively easier

and I felt more comfortable putting myself out there than I would have otherwise.

And, I genuinely enjoyed it.

YouTube was my very first official and public creative outlet,

and what felt amazing to me was that I can share my thoughts and ideas to people

even without being an official writer or being a famous figure.

Adobe Premiere Pro, the video editing program, was like my sketchbook

and my raw footages and all the effects and functions Adobe has were my crayons.

With my crayons and sketchbook, I made my pieces of art.

For many people, it might be just a YouTube video, but for me it was my art

that I put so much work and love into.

And then… there was a problem.

Somewhere along the line,

I became too focused on creating "important" contents, whatever that means,

and that prevented me from being open to creating "not-important" contents.

How I defined important back then was putting a lot of work,

sharing the message that has some kind of values in it,

and I couldn't dare think about doing vlogs, inviting a friend to my video etc.

In hindsight, I think I wanted to make my YouTube channel a sacred place,

like this is not where the fun stuff happen but only the serious stuff,

which is totally the opposite to the first message that I started my YouTube channel off with.

I mean I still liked doing it,

but it slowly killed the initial joy,

and it was sometimes discouraging because of some side effects that my YouTube videos brought me with.

And I want you to know that I'm not saying this as a bitter regret.

This is just an honest contemplation about my past and

all I'm saying is it could have been better if I did things differently,

not that it was a complete misery.

So 2017 went like that,

nothing too special, just constantly making contents, me constantly working many different jobs to stay afloat,

trying to deal with life issues and all that.

And then 2018 came and I made a decision to go to China.

There was one determining factor that led me to make that decision at that point in my life.

But I don't want to share that openly.

A part of me used to think being honest is sharing every single detail about my life to everyone.

But now I know that's not really necessary.

. I have my own privacy, other people in my life have privacy too, so I won't share that.

Anyways, I decided to go to China,

and that was I guess a big turning point in terms of how I think about my YouTube channel.

While I was in China, I felt less pressured to make "important" contents,

because I simply didn't and couldn't care about what was going on in the online world.

I mostly cared about what I'm gonna do today here in this foreign land

that I was so unaccustomed to and where everything was uncertain.

Survival in the real world was my main concern.

Not to mention, YouTube doesn't work in China and even with VPN there's limit.

So that was the first time in almost a year

when I had little to no attachment to "YouTube" and "important contents,"

and I shared whatever I could and naturally felt like sharing.

So sharing my experience as a KTV girl took some guts because

because I knew that was going to shatter the "good girl" image I seemed to have established on YouTube unintentionally.

But it was also freeing

and made me realize many new things that I hadn't been open-minded enough to learn before.

So my trip to China has been quite a big shift in the way I see things and see myself

and reminded me of a lot of things that I have forgotten.

It's true that YouTube took a large part of my life,

my attention and energy all these years although number and money wise it has never been big.

It was always small.

The most viewed video on my channel doesn't amount to 300,000 yet,

and I know that's considered nothing in this game.

But regardless, it did have a huge impact on my life and that's an undeniable fact.

I was able to express myself like nowhere else, and I never regret starting it.

However, I have to be brutally honest that it did mess up my head sometimes.

And I want to talk about that more .

I recently read the book "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck" and it could not have come at a better time.

We live in a society where we think we need to be important, happy, and successful,

and I am definitely guilty of promoting those things.

In my earlier videos, I use a lot of those words.

And don't get me wrong.

My intention was pure. I really did want to spread out the message that

we are all equally great in different ways

and I wanted to share what I learned through my experience that I believe to be truthful.

However, words, as positively influential as they can be,

can also have side-affects

in that it makes us get attached to those words

rather than letting it serve as a signpost to guide us to a certain concept and perception.

And my own words messed me up in that way.

I got attached to the word "happy" "extraordinary" "enlightened" and "important"

without me even realizing.

I think it's good to promote something positive and we need more of that,

but I think it's equally good to not get attached to that positive.

Back to the book, the subtle art of not giving a Fuck,

although every single part of it was amazing and truthful, the part that struck me the most was this one:

"The desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience.

And paradoxically, the acceptance of one's negative experience is itself a positive experience."

It means wanting positive experience is a negative experience

and accepting negative experience is a positive experience.

If you're angry, you're angry, if you're happy you're happy,

if you're lazy, you're lazy,

if you like to do something, you like to do it,

if you don't like it, you don't like it,

if you enjoy your time, you enjoy your time,

if you don't enjoy your time, you don't enjoy your time.

If you want to sing, to dance, read that book, to go for a run, spend time with that friend, go somewhere, you do it.

If you don't, you don't.

That acceptance is far more important and should come before everything else.

The message that I was trying to share in my first video was

I became happier after I realized I'm none of the labels.

I'm not a something, something person, because I am just what I am in my present moment.

That's who I am.

I am not a smart person, I am not a tall person, beautiful, ugly person, person who achieved/failed this or that.

I'm just a nothing but how I am right now.

And I slowly forgot this while being on YouTube and trying to "matter."

One of the reasons I love watching videos on YouTube is,

it's inspiring to see people's natural growth and fun.

And some of the people I follow are wildly successful and talented,

but it's not just their success or talent that inspires me;

it's people's natural growth, natural struggles and pain it took them to get there

and more than that, their current natural self, whoever that is, I find charming and beautiful and inspiring.

You see, it's good to have a dream,

but I think it's also good to be not attached to your dream.

Just like what I said about words.

Let it be a guide, but not the ultimate, one and ONLY destination.

You shouldn't be a slave to your dream because

although your dream can be a good driver, it's a bad master.

Just like money.

If you have a dream, have it. If you want something, want it.

Just let it be.

Let yourself be before judging.

That's the art that we can first master. Being ourselves. Not trying.

As this book puts it, not giving a fuck so that you can give a fuck in better things.

We're almost nearing the end guys. Just one more thing before I wrap up.

Let's talk about death.

We live in a society where it's all about the result.

We focus so much on the result.

But what is the result really?

There's no result other than death.

Death is the final result of our whole life, thus of everything.

Therefore, every result that's not death is a process.

Your highs will turn into lows,

once the problems solved another problem will begin,

you earn money and then you spend it,

it's all life's cycle and then at the end of it, there's death.

So nothing is a result.

And being mindful of this changes the way you see yourself, what you do,

and what you consider worthy of your attention.

And I should admit I forgot about my own mortality as I was focused on the vague "results,"

and that fed my fear to grow bigger blocking me from taking healthy actions that I could've taken.

I was talking about adventures in my videos, but I don't think I was being adventurous enough,

at least not in the way I meant it.

Although my fear had legitimate reasons and cause just like any fear,

I should not have let that rule over me. But I did.

So that's it! Draw My YouTube Life video.

It's not a happy or unhappy ending, because there's no ending, really,

unless YouTube breaks down and shuts down all channels,

but even if that happens,

what I experienced and learned being on YouTube will carry over to whatever I do next.

It always works that way, whether we realize it or not.

Thank you so much for watching.

And I'm sorry again I haven't uploaded Q&A video yet,

but I think this video covers some of the questions that you guys sent me.

I'll see you on the next video.

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[Preview] How to commit to lifestyle changes with Dr. Jen Unwin - Duration: 1:43.

There are some times when people will be following a low-carb diet

and they might stray from the path and they really might have a big binge

and eat lots of carbohydrates and sugar.

And I wanted your advice on if that happens to somebody

what are your top tips for them

for how do they get back onto the right track as quickly and easily as possible?

It's almost inevitable, the environment we live in,

and also as you say, some people don't struggle with it now

so they don't understand it,

and in the nicest possible way at work or at a family party

or any kind of situation

people will often say, "Just one won't hurt" or...

Or somebody has made you something personally

and it's quite hard to have the...

it's quite difficult socially to then say,

"Thank you for that lovely cake, but I'll have to..."

You'd have to be quite confident to do that

so yeah, people are going to fall off the wagon.

And the hardest time for people in our low-carb group has often been Christmas.

And they were sometimes spectacularly... we had one or two people

who kind of disappear for six months or so,

but usually will come back.

So we definitely have a no-fault culture,

so as I say you don't learn to ride a bike without falling off.

So you will fail and that's absolutely fine

that the thing is, "How am I feeling right now?",

noticing and trying to remember that I'm guessing that when they were sugar free

they would have been, everybody says that, the mental clarity and the sense of control,

you feel so much better.

And just trying to get right back on the horses as soon as you can.

For more infomation >> [Preview] How to commit to lifestyle changes with Dr. Jen Unwin - Duration: 1:43.

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A Good Life With Happy Food Is Great For Your Appetite | Table Tales: AKERSHUS COUNTY - Duration: 2:06.

I have a good day when I'm with my guests.

I have a passion for food, a passion for drinks and a passion for people.

Hello, I am Helene Jahren....

Restaurant manager and owner at Gamle Tårnhus Restaurant in Kolbotn.

We need to relax sometimes, and the restaurant is a place where you can relax.

A place where you can come and feel a bit like home.

Vebjørn and I started this place 8 years ago.

He's a very good colleague of me, and a partner at this restaurant.

I live in Oslo. But it's just ten minutes by train to get to work.

It's such a great way to start my day.

Leaving the city and coming out here to the country side.

But I don't come here just for work.

When I really want to relax, I visit "The Well".

An amazing SPA.

It's the perfect place to just treat yourself, and forget about everything.

I tend to choose a dip in the fjord at on of our many beautiful beaches.

Not as relaxing as at "The Well". But really refreshing.

I'm not the kind of person who can lie still at a beach all day.

In the short distance between the restaurant and my home...

I can have the full spectrum of activities, in beautiful surroundings.

Ten minutes from our restaurant is a very beautiful farm, Svartskog gård,

who deliver all our quality meat products.

A happy pig, gives happy food.

It's a beautiful area.

You can see all the animals, and you can really breathe out here.

Take a walk. Feel relaxed. It feels good.

Feels good in the stomach, feels good in the heart,

and good in the brain.

It's good to be here at Kolbotn.

For more infomation >> A Good Life With Happy Food Is Great For Your Appetite | Table Tales: AKERSHUS COUNTY - Duration: 2:06.

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Don't Break Live: Using a Staging Site Can Make Your Life a Lot Easier - Duration: 16:03.

Hello, my name is Jamie Schmid, I am a community evangelist at SiteLock. We are

a website security company based out of Scottsdale Arizona I'm also a freelance

designer and developer, content enthusiast

and a proud camp mama in Portland Oregon

and this talk is Don't break Live: why using a

staging site for updates and it's actually kind of cool like some of the

talks that came before me because they explain things that like I don't really

have to explain anymore so um good job in building this session okay so first

what is a staging site? We kind of talked about it throughout the day

people referring to saving sites but officially it's a copy of your site that

you use for testing updates new features changing QA checks etc and then I say

there that it's a private copy because it's not a site that is publicly

viewable by you know with a search engine, your customers aren't going to be

able to find it it's only for your own personal use, and copy is underlined

because as much as you possibly can get it to be it should be a direct duplicate

of your existing live site. this is because if we're gonna be doing things

like making updates, testing new features doing anything like that you want to

make sure that you're actually doing it on a version of the site that represents

what your live site is so if you do an update that comes out and you think it

might break the site (em, Gutenberg), you would want to do this on a staging site because you

probably don't want to do it on live I highly recommend for major versions

which 5.0 is a very major version coming out here definitely make that upgrade on

a staging site don't do it on live but that goes for pretty much doing any

features or any kind of updates you shouldn't be doing those on your live site.

so you know that you need to keep your site updated because WordPress is

constantly pushing out security updates and plugins and themes are following

suit and those updates there's new features that come out with updates so

you know you want to keep it up-to-date you don't want to get hacked but making

updates on your live site is very scary. How many people have ever pushed update

on a live site and literally held your breath

because if it breaks on you once you'll never ever forget that that

happened, so you know that that happened. So how does this dating site work?

How it works is basically easy, you make an exact duplicate of your

live site you you run your updates you do any kind of the testing you want go

through and like yes this is it's perfect

all good okay, so push those changes to your live site not having to touch live

obviously but it's not really that easy for a number of reasons, one of the

reasons was we just talked right before this talking about the URLs if you're

gonna be pushing a site that's on a staging site maybe it's got a different

URL and if you're gonna be overriding your live site there's a lot of complex

mechanics that go into changing even just the URL and then updates can

include physical files and database changes on top of that it's not

depending on how technical you are it's not always evident to you if it is just

a file change or if it is database and file changes - databases themselves are

hard to sync, that's just a known fact

just so there's a lot of it that's that is not that easy and I'm gonna kind of

go over a little bit what you need to be aware of when you're evaluating your own

staging site solution because there's not one

one-size-fits-all solution there's a lot of different ways to do it and none of

those ways are exactly perfect for every situation most are not perfect for you

know any situation honestly if you ask developers you know what is your dev

workflow look like how you syncing databases how does your staging you know

go they're probably just gonna say "not well", so so expect that okay it's not

gonna be easy it's not gonna be perfect but get it to be as close as what works

for you because ultimately we're trying to not do things that are gonna break

your live site. Okay just getting down to literally what is required to

happen, you need to make a replica of your existing live site, you need it put

it someplace so you can run it as a website right and then you need to get

those changes that you've made onto your live site somehow so each of these three

things kind of represent its own unique problem and each of these three kind of

have multiple solutions that you can take to achieve it. Doing the things

first of all the very first step if you are going to be doing a staging site

audit your site - you need to know what's going on on your website if you don't

this is a perfect time to figure that out you need to know what plugins are

happening on your site what size your site is if it's gargantuan do you have

any automations that are happening on the site for example maybe a plugin that

does an automated email alert and that email alert includes a link to your

website well if you send it out from the staging site it could potentially have

your staging URL in it you don't want to do that so knowing what's what's going

to be happening on your site you know when you're in the staging environment

how busy is your live site if you have a you know an e-commerce site that is

getting you know one order a minute

congratulations that's amazing but you're not going to necessarily be able

to copy over your site work on it on staging for three days and then throw

the whole thing back up there and overwrite your live site because you're

gonna lose out on orders you're gonna lose out on potentially comments

if you have any A/B testing like all those kinds of things like you might not

necessarily get those sort of results there. Are you using version control? if you

don't know the answer to that, ask your developer. if you don't have a

developer then you're probably not using it because you would know and then get

familiar with your hosting what company is what service level you have and what

level of access you have to be able to manipulate your files and your file

settings and your your website settings so knowing all those things is very

important and you know if you're a site owner you should you know at least be

familiar with these things if you're a developer inheriting a site in your like

oh my goodness no you shouldn't be making all these updates on live oh I

get that you like to try out new themes but like don't just like try them out in

the middle of the day for a couple minutes and then change it back right

because you know what your potential customers to be seeing all this crazy

stuff bouncing around so regardless you want to get familiar with what your site

is and knowing these things are going to directly inform you as to you know what

your decisions for the staging site are gonna be so quickly what are your

options these are five like pretty basic solution there's probably more if there

are please feel free to tell me what you're using because I'm always

interested to see what other people are doing but so going from easiest to not

easiest would be the hosting one-click staging that is where you have a host

that already has a managed WordPress environment they've already created an

automated system for creating a a staging site for you they probably

have some sort of system where you can push a button to deploy like all that is

amazing and if you're you know a person that does not have an advanced developer

workflow and you know that if you do have this you know it this is an ideal

solution finding a host with one-click staging that can do it is the easiest

way but it's not always the most economical it's a lot of times it's

expensive a lot of times you can't just up and move to a new host just because

you want to maybe your client doesn't you know so if you can do it good

another solution is to use a plugin that you can install on WordPress that will

sort of manage it for you building your site into a subdomain or

subfolder you can develop it locally on your local computer and then push it out

to staging push it out to life and I'm not going to talk about advanced

developer workflows really at all because I think I've only got about time

myself so first I'm just gonna a little bit more with the hosting one-click

staging the most expensive obviously your host needs to offer it but I didn't

know how well you can see this but this is just an example of WP Engine's

one-click staging so you can see there at the bottom it's got a button that

says copy from live to staging and this will replicate your site and and create

a staging site for you like just pushing that button and then the red button it's

red for a reason it says deploy site from staging to live so when you've made

the changes like this is perfect it's great you push the red button and then

it it over writes your site it's red because you want to you know make sure

that you're ready to overwrite so this is one example and all the different

hosts they kind of have different ways of doing it and they vary and the the

level of plan that you need with them varies a lot too so if you're if you're

evaluating hosts right now and you think you might want to do this

solution look at all the different hosting kind of you know see see how

they do it because everyone kind of does a little bit differently so some pulse

it do it the engine, flywheel, pressable will call a site district map from site

district is in here I believe if you want to see an example demo of push to

live go find Matt I'm sure you would love to show you sound ii use a plugin

there is a plug-in called WP staging and what it does is you enable it in your

live site it creates a a wordpress staging instance inside of your live site

in a subdomain and it duplicates it and you can do everything you want right

there in the exact live environment and then it also has like a push to migrate

so you can migrate it straight from there and it shows you as it's copying

the tables over copying the files over it even shows you as its replacing the

links doing that URL replacement it kind of shows it going through there and then

it gives you a little bit of command line if you want to watch that it's it's

a lot of lines of stuff that it's doing so in a standalone site which would be a

subdomain or subfolder this would be you can make changes locally and pushed to

your remote staging you can just create a subdomain on your life hosting and

make the changes there ensure it's all working and then make those changes

again online or you can do some kind of a push to life so when you're doing it

this way a manual sub-domain or subfolder you are going to create this

sub domain at the hosting level you're going to use something that will

duplicate your live site and will package it up and then will migrate it

into your staging site and then that's pretty much the same thing you have to

do when you push from staging to live so it's more manual but it it's a it's a

common solution that a lot of people do use

and there's a lot of solutions for doing that migration which I'll get to in a

second so another way that you can do it which I do actually with like some of my

clients is just having a local WordPress site if you're running wordpress locally

which would you know on your computer you can make the changes to the local

site ensure it's all working and then you can push those changes up to the

staging site and like okay yes it's working on staging because you know you

want that same environment and then as soon as you're like okay that's cool

then you can push again to the live site so like I say push

again like it's just like simple to do it's actually not simple to do but

depending on what you're using for your WordPress local site you might be able

to deal with that so far as well as a local site it's running on your own

computer it's using software that allows your computer to run as a server and

there's a couple of solutions in place for dedicated WordPress local

development desktop servers one as far as I know it was the first one to offer

some kind of a setup like this and eases an instance of XAMPP lite but it's

specifically set up to create a wordpress site so you go in there you

you start it up on your computer you say create a new WordPress site it's like

okay it spins up a wordpress site you can do your local development there it's

pretty cool - local by flywheel is very similar if you have a more advanced sort

of development workflow flywheel does a does more that advanced kind of stuff

okay so replacing migrating and syncing the changes replicate perform the same

change as you did to live migrate an automated process that over writes

database files or content and then thinking more advanced it needs to check

for changes on both sides and then resolves them together how am i doing

for time am I okay so so there's plugins for migrating

there's plugins for syncing I'm sorry I have to go a little bit quickly here but

I'm recipe for success is make a schedule for doing updates use a service

to track updates like manage WP make all your updates on staging first and then

never break live again this is a very involved topic please find me after this

or at the after party or tweet me out Twitter out to me at Jamie Schmidt and I

also have a blog post that I've written that go far more in-depth and you can

find my slides online and I'm also going to tweet links out to those slides also

so check me out on Twitter if you want to see them thank you

For more infomation >> Don't Break Live: Using a Staging Site Can Make Your Life a Lot Easier - Duration: 16:03.

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Mirror | Finger puppet life - Duration: 0:27.

I really need to look at myself.

Wack.

AHHH AHH

What do I do to get rid of this ugly face?

*opens door*

Alright *sigh* what do I do?

*screams*

*soaks himself with water*

For more infomation >> Mirror | Finger puppet life - Duration: 0:27.

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EuroDisney got flooded!! | Marie's Life in UK | Travel Vlog #3 - Duration: 14:42.

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