Each of us is a part of a family.
But are we happy with this family?
Is this family a place of peace for us?
Whether the answer is a 'yes' or a 'no', that depends on our attitudes.
(Dr. Jannatul Bushra, Lecturer, Udayan Dental College and Hospital, Rajshahi, Graduate of the 359th batch of Quantum Method Course):
The very last meditation we did today was about the union of our family.
I was very emotional when I felt the bond I have with my parents.
Today I have realized how deeply I love my family.
(Abdullah Al Rakib, Student of 11th Grade, Dhaka College, Graduate of 362nd batch of Quantum Method Course):
When I recalled my parents through the meditation, I realized that I love them immensely no matter what happens!
(Rokeya Parvin, Housewife, Graduate of 378th batch of Quantum Method Course):
I really love my father!
Now that I am a mother, I can understand how much my parents loved me.
(Engineer Kazi Nazrul Islam, Publication and Publicity Sector, IDEB Committee):
I could not tell my wife that I loved her, out of hesitation.
But I have been practicing that since the last three days of this course!
(Professor Shamesshwar Chakrabarty, Social Worker and Rtd. Professor of Physics Department, Cox's Bazar Public College and Chittagong Public College):
Gurujee taught us yesterday to say 'I love you' to our beloved life partners!
So I told my wife that I love her!
This made her really very happy!
~Happy Family- Millions of Lives Have Changed!~
~Every parent wants to see the child to change for the best.~
~The ones who are lucky can cherish their child.~
(Salma Begum, Housewife, Graduate of 348th batch of Quantum Method Course):
My son was very mischievous and handful.
One of my aunts advised me to pray for him through meditation, rather than worry about my son.
I was surprised to see the change which meditation brought!
Within few days I saw that my son has stopped drinking cold drinks!
He used to drool over junk foods but now he has given up on those completely!
But now he does not even touch a fizzy drink or any junk foods even if we have them available at home!
Instead he tells me to prepare lemonade for him to drink after school.
(Al Ashraful Kabir, Businessman, Graduate of 367th batch of Quantum Method Course):
My son is 13/14 years old.
He attended this course last month.
I have seen that he is changing for the best.
Where he was aggressive a month ago, he is now much more obedient.
He is more attentive towards his studies now.
(Sultana Begum, Housewife, Graduate of 331st batch of Quantum Method Course):
My son did the course last month.
He was in Korea for 7 years.
He had a business there but his colleague betrayed him and took away all the money.
My son came back with a heavy heart.
He could not concentrate onto anything.
One day he was determined to commit suicide.
But after doing the Quantum Method Course, he has changed completely.
His face is more radiant than ever! He is living a very healthy lifestyle now!
(Professor Dr. Nur Jahan Sarkar, Zoology, Dhaka University, Graduate of 350th batch of Quantum Method Course):
I decided to come here all of a sudden.
My daughter did this course in 2001 after her S.S.C examination.
I do not know what made her do this course but maybe her friends did that is why.
But I have seen a positive change after the course.
She has become more responsible than me now.
She has a very stable attitude and she is always very mature.
She has a very stable attitude and she is always very mature.
These changes in her inspired me to come to this course as well.
(Professor Dr. Md. Shahidul Islam, Geography and Environment, Dhaka University, Graduate of 341st batch of Quantum Method Course):
I got some autosuggestions' stickers from here and posted them in my home.
One of those stickers says, 'Change Your Attitude and Your Life would Change!'
My daughter studies in Dhaka University. She is a brilliant student.
She is studying in a good course too.
But one of her drawbacks is that she studies till late at night and wakes up quite late in the day!
Whenever I proceed to have a discussion about this with her, she presents her own set of unbeatable logic!
So when we go to sleep, she goes to study!
I took that sticker to her and requested her to recite that 5 times!
She did obediently!
Then I told her very politely, to go to bed and wake up 2 hours earlier than her usual routine.
Trust me, my daughter slept at 11 pm yesterday!
I woke up at 5 am and heard noises from my daughter's room.
I saw that she was studying after Fajr prayer!
This was a remarkable change!
~This is because their attitudes have changed.~
(Farah Binte basher, Student, S.S.C, Graduate of 357th batch of Quantum Method Course):
We did a family meditation today in the morning.
We are guilty of such negative attitudes towards our parents.
It is true that I am a bit distant towards my father.
But during the meditation I have clearly seen my father.
All the misbehavior I did with him, I have asked for his forgiveness through the meditation.
I am feeling very lucky to realize the importance of my family with the help of our beloved Gurujee.
(Md. Mozammel Hossain, BBA Student, Dhaka City College, Graduate of 359th batch of Quantum Method Course):
I was always in a conflict with my mother.
We were always reactive towards each other.
Whenever I tried to make her understand she got even more furious.
That lead me to a habit of breaking whatever objects were available infront of me.
But after that everything seemed like a mess.
I used to feel guilty but I could not help much.
I was an associate for a long time.
The counselors here are very helpful.
They actually helped me to come out of that reactive state of mind.
(Nilufa Yasmin, Job Holder at UNDP, Graduate of 318th batch of Quantum Method Course):
After this course I feel that I have been reborn.
(Sumaiya Zafar Suzana, Actress, Graduate of 366th batch of Quantum Method Course):
No one should misbehave with their parents.
You will regret misbehaving with your parents when they will no longer be here on earth anymore.
(Dr. Dewan Mohammed Rubel, Doctor, Public Health University, Graduate of 327th batch of Quantum Method Course):
I wake my father up few minutes before the time for Fajr prayers.
When I see my mother cooking, I go and ask her if I could also help her.
We all could ask to help according to what Gurujee has taught us.
~The change has been seen in the parents' attitude as well.~
(Savita Rani Sarkar, Lawyer, Graduate of 359th batch of Quantum Method Course):
On the second day of the course, I felt that I have been a terrible mother towards my child.
As I reached home late from this course last day,
my child fell asleep.
But still I took him in my lap and cried for his forgiveness.
I swore upon my child that I would never misbehave and beat with my child again.
(Runa Nazmun Nahar, Housewife, Graduate of 358th batch of Quantum Method Course):
I have a child.
Whenever he calls me, I always scold him even before listening to what he has to say.
At times I wander, why am I like that?
But even then I cannot control myself.
My husband recommended me to do this course.
I thought that no one could straighten my attitude ever.
But when I went to Quantum Foundation at Mirpur-1 for few days,
I liked attending the Prottaion and Sadakaion.
Those made me think that maybe I could change too.
I am grateful that now I can be presented as a good mother infront of my son.
(Schanda Kundu, Housewife, Graduate of 369th batch of Quantum Method Course):
I was surprised when Gurujee's words touched me so deeply that I did not misbehave with a single person upon returning home from this course.
I have received a new life for myself.
~They are more loving and compassionate towards their family now.~
(Dr. Rahnuma Anjum Kabir, Doctor, Graduate of 378th batch of Quantum Method Course):
I count myself very lucky because of the kinds of parents I have.
I have 3 amazing siblings.
I was secluding myself from them all of a sudden.
I had this strange hatred towards myself.
I thought I deserved to punish myself.
But I have been joining them for every single meal with them for the last three days.
I am not isolating myself with the excuse of work.
I have found my family in a new way.
I do not think I can ever have such a precious gift in my life.
(Kazi Abdur Rahim, Computer Operator, Secondary and Higher Secondary Education Board, Graduate of 364th batch of Quantum Method Course):
The biggest problem in my family was that I got married before my elder sister was married.
I was constantly under stress thinking, what could be done in order to get my sister get married now.
But if my wife gets to know the reason behind my tension, she would add to that by accusing me even more!
In between all these I decided that I would send my elder sister to do the Quantum Method Course first!
Then I could go after that!
After doing the course she might be able to solve this problem herself.
By the grace of God, both my elder sister and the younger sister did the course together last month and they gave me an amazing feedback.
My sister became so positive that she told us not to worry about her marriage as God would take care of it instead.
~So how does this take place?~
~Why do they have such significant change in their attitudes?~
~Quantum Method Meditation Course.~
~Realizing the importance of the family is a vital part of this 4 days' long course.~
~How should our family life be?~
~How can we be happier in our relationships?~
~All these questions are answered in details during this course.~
(Gurujee):
Happiness in our family is the foundation of happiness in our society!
A society will be peaceful when the families in it will live happily and peacefully.
When there is an argument between husband and wife, never involve any third person, not even your own mother!
Because the world's most intimate connection is between a husband and his wife!
If you cannot explain your own spouse, no one else can do that ever!
So you should always communicate clearly with each other.
Never argue but always discuss.
Be proactive, never be reactive.
Always remember that if you cannot break free from a connection, never build an invisible wall in between the people involved in that connection.
We always make this common mistake.
We cannot make each other understand our point of views. So we create distance between us!
Why do we fall for such foolishness?
Never create distance between the connections which cannot be ended so easily.
Be it in a friendship, marriage or any type of relationships between you and your relatives.
Male and female complete the family.
Male and female complete the society.
To maintain this balance harmoniously we need respect for each other.
The wife has to believe that my husband's respect is my respect.
The husband would have to believe that my wife's respect is my respect as well.
A husband and his wife are each other's respect.
This respect is vital for peace and happiness in the family.
~Quantum family is happy family.~
~May your family be your haven.~
~Shokor Alhamdulillah. We all are fine.~
~Join us and you will be fine too.~
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