well at this point it will be a great time to have a wonderful discourse
I would love to have a discourse with all of us especially a relationship discourse
and I believe that gathered right here in this place apparently is the married
and unmarried alike those that are unmarried it will be a learning moment
where they are acquiring knowledge so first and foremost
to be able to overcome certain challenges that comes with relationships
and of course there are different dimensions of relationships, a time of courtship
marriage which is the aftermath of saying I do
you know and obviously that is where most people love most
you know they love it and want to get married
and you know just for you to get married and you realize that actually the real
life and the real marriage was not the ceremony
the real marriage was the life after the ceremony
so therefore there are a lot of things to be learnt so we prepare ourselves
for that which stands ahead of us are you ready for this ride? Oh yeah
I want you to understand this apparently I want you to know that
the desire to want to have a happy home is not myth. You can have
a happy home it is so possible it is more of
a firm decision of the duo and I'm talking about the bride
and the groom the prospective husband and the prospective wife
now starting from the ladies I want you to understand that home is
highly achievable home is not a house home is not a structure
home is the happy environment that is created in the house
so what then is a home, what then is a home, like I said home is a joyful
happy, serene environment that is created
in the house to help lives individual lives
to thrive when I talk about individual lives I am talking about first and foremost
the life of the husband and the wife where they live healthily
oh my my, and the life of the offspring
children and siblings where the home becomes a place to live
not everybody that goes back to their house after work actually goes
back home most of them go back to a warzone
well guys I want you to get this
a happy man does not make a happy home, take this straight
a happy man does not make a happy home, no but on the contrary
a happy woman makes a happy home therefore guys if you want to have a home
you need, you need to make your wife
happy as long as she is happy your home will be happy
now I want you to understand that, and the ladies get to know this
a woman is a reflection of a home or the home
is a reflection of the woman so when you go to a house where you see
anarchy it's like a warzone everybody is blustering
shouting here and there, this person picks a broken bottle, the other one
picks a knife and then they want to slaughter themselves and then you know
and either they slaughter themselves... or they slaughter...
then everything seems to be in chaos, you know when such things happen
it is the reflection of the woman
guess what a man's priority a good man for that matter a good man's priority in
a marriage is the happiness of his wife, now
when a good man has a wife that is unhappy his whole world is crumbled
he feels unhappy the unhappiness of a woman is so contagious that
it affects the husband so much
that her husband loses control so therefore, a good man will always make sure
my wife is happy. Your smile is a radiant ray that
actually illuminates the man and the man feels so happy anytime
he sees your smile and every time he just wants to see you happy, it gives
joy and satisfaction, but for other matter ladies do not
take the guys for granted in as much as they have a commitment towards you
A commitment towards you to make you happy, don't see them as bunch of fools
No.. That's not weakness it's because they have become vulnerable to you, and ladies a man that loves you
will be vulnerable to you I want the ladies out here to get this thing straight men are very strong
no two ways about that they are strong physically yes
and the women are known as the weak vessels in that their makeup
is not meant to do certain things, but the man his makeup and
physique is made to do certain things the woman cannot do
but guys don't get so excited about that, don't get so excited the truth is
you are strong but women are powerful, you can't deny that
women are powerful guys as strong as you are a woman by her power
can navigate the direction you go, a man is like an ass woman is like the ass rider
if she has control ,if she is a wise woman would be able to direct the course
of her husband, oh yes this is wisdom
a good woman has the heart of her husband in her hand
and a wise woman has the heart of her husband in her hand
The husband will end up doing a lot of things unknown to him he is actually fulfilling her desires
Ladies now you see I just want you to understand that, ladies your beauty
your beauty, your beauty to a man is in your submission
how submissive you are is what makes a man loves you a man gets attracted to a woman that
is submissive a man actually repels, opposes, fights
a woman that is trying to oppose him
so you see your place your beautiful place. God knows what He
placed in all of us he knows our make-up so therefore He makes the description so clear
and tells the woman submit to your husband.
That is where your beauty is, because God knows what he placed
inside of you. Well submission does not mean slavery guys
A man with inferiority complex will think that submission
is slavery the woman isn't your slave she is your partner you know, you are all
heirs, co-heirs of the inheritance in Christ Jesus. God sees
sees all of you as one you are not better than her you are not greater than her she is only supposed
to submit to you. That is so true, supposed to submit
that doesn't make her your slave. Now when you abuse her then you are
violating God and I want the guys to understand that if you abuse a woman then the
the person that instituted the law of marriage, you have got Him to deal with.
A man that abuses a woman has got to deal with God and God won't let him go scot-free
because he put a legislation that governs the marriage
and put a legislation that governs the home it has nothing to do with you alone. It has
everything, a mutual agreement between the two of you. You cannot make
decisions independent of her, however ladies your beautiful place is being
submissive. I want to address the guys, I want to address you, I want to address you. You oh my God
guys are so consumed with a thought that women ought to be submissive and even those that are
consumed by that thought still began to think in their minds, and they think
they misconstrue submission to be slavery. And today I have
debunked that is not what God is saying
what God is saying! And believe you me hey hey hey guys listen! A woman that loves you will submit
to you I will say it again a woman that loves you will submit to you when a woman
cannot submit to you it means she does not love you it is fact, praise the Lord
it is biblical fact, praise the Lord. Now I need you to also get this guys get this
guys get this guys get this guys get this I want you to understand that
very important listen to me carefully this is more or less a relationship seminar. I need you to
get this straight now guys listen to me very carefully
a woman will only submit to a man that loves her
Oh my, you didn't hear that a woman will only submit
remember women don't submit to just any man on the street, no
no, no, no. A woman will only submit to a man that loves her, so guys
if you need your woman to submit to you, lavish a relishing love
on her. You know give her an extravaganza of love, love her with everything and
you will be shocked, she naturally submits to you because there is an
inclination in a woman that God has placed in her that makes her naturally submit
So therefore you see God has not called you guys to be in control of her you are not her ruler
get that straight God has not called you to be in control of her you are not her ruler
God has only commanded you to love her
as Christ loved the church. In other words you give your body to her, you sacrifice
to her if you cannot do any of these, you do not love her. You must love her the way
Christ loved the church and gave His life for the church you should be willing to give your life
for her oh my God you didn't hear this, you have to love her to that point that you are willing to
give up everything. Therefore shall a man leave his father's house
and be clung to a woman and the two of them shall be one it is not the woman
that leaves it is a man that leaves in other words he said goodbye with
everything I have always enjoyed, family privileges, parental privileges
goodbye to all that and cling to this woman why because it is so
important yeah that was what Jesus did, He left the glory of heaven, He left
everything, He abandoned everything that was in Heaven and came for his
bride here on earth the church. That is the same thing you have done, that you are committing
to love her. And then believe you me stop clamoring and asking
and demanding for submission from the woman. Until you learn, the act of loving her the way
God, Jesus loved you, until you do that, do not
expect submission. I guess guys ought to understand this. And as long as a woman
cannot submit to you she will be unhappy and as long as she is unhappy you
have an unhappy home and as long as she will be in an unhappy home, the
act and the life and the notion of happily ever after will be
an illusion
will only be an illusion. God wants us to live
happily ever after, but we must understand the legislations that God has
ordained in the marriage, if you don't. Get this guys I say it to you
again, Don't demand from the woman to submit to you. The
best way to demand submission is to love her, oh it is as simple as that. You don't even need to say it
when you love her she naturally. You know what, every woman can be made sober
no matter how hard she is, no matter how tough she is, no matter how difficult she is
Just be calm, all you have got to do is overlook her weaknesses and just love
just love her. And when you do that, love her
you love her like the way God wants you to love her and give yourself, sacrifice for her. When you do that I
tell you the truth she normally, naturally becomes sober
to you and then being sober she submits to you. She begins to call you
my lord, she begins to call you my darling she begins to call you
Daddy she just naturally submits to you. Why, because you have created a love environment. Well
in as much as the woman is creative to create a home, actually the person that
initiates the building of a home is the man
oh my God, yes because if I start to love the woman they home will be born
out of the woman. I want you to understand that this is just the inception of
our relationship seminar there is so much that is about to take place, there is so much
that I am about to tell you, there is so much I am about to release to you but this is just a teaser
just a teaser to let you know what God has for us come on
begin celebrate Jesus and have you, have a great ride
in this great seminar great. Wow!
For more infomation >> Family dog finds 88-pound snake - Duration: 0:31. 
For more infomation >> Multi-Family Home On Fire In Newark - Duration: 0:59. 
For more infomation >> Family Connection - Duration: 1:32. 
For more infomation >> Family of couple found dead inside burned mobile home issues $5K reward for information - Duration: 1:37. 
For more infomation >> Family IDs snowmobiler missing on Lincoln Lake - Duration: 2:02. 
For more infomation >> DIY Valentine's Day Treats for the Whole Family - Duration: 2:06. 
For more infomation >> Lincoln family hospitalized after carbon monoxide poisoning - Duration: 1:22. 
For more infomation >> FAMILY MAN ALA JOKO WIDODO - Duration: 6:16. 
For more infomation >> Hundreds attend funeral for WW2 vet with no living family - Duration: 2:08. 
For more infomation >> Brother Writes Tell-All Book about His Family with 21 Siblings - Duration: 3:32. 
For more infomation >> RI teachers head to Texas to call attention to family separations - Duration: 2:30. 
For more infomation >> UPDATE: Family identifies man beaten to death in Escambia County - Duration: 1:07. 
For more infomation >> Cohill Family Legacy -- Hidden History - Duration: 0:59. 
Không có nhận xét nào:
Đăng nhận xét