- Hey everyone this is Bridget
and today we're gonna be talking about lifestyle design
so creating the life of your dreams.
This can look like many different things for you
so take this information and sculpt it for yourself.
But as examples, it can look like traveling the world,
it can look like having more time for your passions,
just having more free time,
doing what you love and getting paid.
Those kinds of things.
So how do we sculpt our lives
so that we're not under the
you know, constrictions of others
or the system so that we can truly, fully express ourselves
and live our passion,
live our excitement.
So this idea came up from the event
I was just speaking at.
And quite a few people came up to me
and they said do you live at Sedona,
do you live in Hawaii?
And how did you live there?
Like how do you do this, how do you do this?
And I was like alright I'll do a video
and I will tell ya.
So, this is what we're gonna be going into.
Now first and foremost, this is in both categories
of energetic, law of attraction
so it's very much so connected to that.
And then its also this very practical left brain
kind of like logical, rational configuration
so we're gonna need both parts of ourselves,
the fullness of ourselves to be able to do this
because it's something rare.
You know, it's kinda like bri, it is that form of
okay once you've broken out of the matrix,
well then what do you want your life to look like.
So that's what we're gonna be going into.
So as your breaking out of the matrix,
that's one of the kind of keys to the lifestyle design
is in some way transitioning your life,
transitioning your time so that you can have
full sovereignty once again.
So this might not mean quitting your job right away
but the idea of getting really clear
on what you want, who you want to be,
what you want to be doing with your time,
with your life so that you can create it
appropriately, intentionally.
So we'll be going into all the different ways
that we can look at this.
how to go about it practically,
how to figure it out as we go on with this video
so stick around 'til the end.
But to begin, we must realize
that this is a whole different operating system.
It's a different energetic operating system
when you become self sovereign,
when you become your own designer of your life.
That means that there's a lot of creative life force
that it requires
but that comes back to you
because it's a self fulfilling fulfillment, if you will.
So as you're transitioning
and how to go about this,
first and foremost you need to understand your value,
understand your gifts,
understand your offerings, your service
that you can give to others.
Because this is your value.
This is your currency.
This is your form of exchange.
So as we're first going into this,
and transitioning into lifestyle design,
exchange actually becomes
really the easiest way as well as the best way
to learn about yourself and to learn about the world
and it's really amazing.
So money isn't actually,
money actually needs to be taken out
in the beginning as you transition your lifestyle design
so that you can understand what your value is to give
and what the world wants in exchange for that value.
Now you can just say, start your own business
or whatever you wanna do
that is very kind of mainstream
that supports and supplies you know,
the financial abundance to do whatever you're wanting to do.
So that's totally doable.
This is kinda like a next step upgrade
which is integrating your purpose
and integrating your essence with that
and how you live and who you are
so that then that and when you're in alignment with that,
people feel that wholeness and they're attracted to it
and then they want to exchange with you.
They want to participate with you
and then that's how this also,
this new economy is going to transition.
So it's really helpful to do it now
'cause we're gonna have to anyways.
So this is how it starts.
So as I get into some of the examples
and the first steps,
I want you to start considering,
get your wheels a spinning,
get your heart open,
get your creativity flowing, your imagination
and start thinking as your listening to this
what is my excitement?
Like if I could do anything in the world,
and I had enough money to do it,
you got millions of dollars in your bank account,
what would you do?
There's no possibility that you could fail
or get rejected, what would you do?
In a lot of different categories of life,
like who would you be?
What would that person do with your time everyday?
Because a lot of the reason why people don't do this
and it's also like they create excuses.
It's like, if I had the time, I would
you know, blank.
Ride horses everyday and paint
or whatever it looks like for you.
But when it comes down to it,
people don't actually end up doing it.
You know, they might get that break
you know off of work or something and then they just kinda,
they don't know what to do with this freedom.
So part of this is understanding and then acting upon
this freedom.
So first and foremost, what are you excited about.
What are you passionate about?
What would you wanna do?
What would you wanna have?
So start getting that going.
And even like get a piece of paper
and start writing down some ideas.
Feel free to pause this.
This is an interactive
life engagement topic and video.
This is interactive.
This is kinda like a little workshop.
And it's very important to do this
because right now you're sitting
and you're digesting information right now.
You're watching my life or like me
or what I'm talking about.
And I'm actually turning the table
and making this very interactive to where
I'm like hey, what about you?
What are you excited about?
And making you engage and step up
and so that's one of the things
that this does too is you then become a creator
and then other people want to understand, digest,
be inspired by you.
Answer the question, what are you most excited about,
if you could do anything, what would that look like?
That can look like a job category,
that can look like just your passions,
interests, places you wanna go,
places you wanna live.
Start getting the juices of inspiration moving, okay?
So the next thing I'm gonna give you a few examples
of how to transition with no money required.
So, for the first, hm, maybe three, four years
of me really kind of like radically stepping in
to exactly what I wanted to experience as a lifestyle,
I really didn't have any money.
And so you can do this without money
and I actually encourage you to do it without money
because this is what created and fortified
my own self value and self confidence
which I'm gonna do a video about
in coming weeks.
So that when I wanted to say start charging
and working in the money aspect,
everything was set to go and I knew exactly who I was
and what I wanted to give.
So now for story time.
So one of the things I wanted to do
I think this was about seven years ago
was I wanted to go to Hawaii
because I knew that it was the heart chakra of earth
and I can feel the call.
I wanted to swim with dolphins, be with the whales,
experience the energy of the land
and I had, you know, no money at all
and so I was like what do I do, what do I do?
And there was this workshop of swimming with dolphins
and I was like, I wanna go to that
but I wanna stay longer
and I wanna be able to experience this.
And I wanna be experiencing it in a way
where I'm not just kinda like
hitch hiking around because that's really important.
I've done a lot of traveling through Europe
in my younger life and there's a different experience
to when you're hitchhiking
and kind of like survival travel mode
versus actually getting to sit back and enjoy.
So I thought, okay,
what can I do?
How can I make this possible?
And this is the first step.
So we're gonna break this down a little bit.
The first step is a very clear
and specific intention, right?
So I wanted to go to Hawaii,
specifically go to this workshop
and stay for longer for this three week duration.
Very specific.
And this isn't me moving there, right at first.
This is just me, going and dipping my toe in it
but this was a stretch for me.
So you have to start with something that's a stretch.
So I was like, what can I do?
So I had a baby following at that time
like a pretty baby following but I was like okay,
I'm gonna do a fundraiser campaign
to raise money to go on this.
Other people have done this from my adventures by the way
and they have succeeded their goals
and been able to go.
So this is a good way if you want to try this.
And I did a fundraiser and I, in exchange,
for everyone that donated various amounts,
I painted them paintings.
So, there we go.
Creative way of making it happen while giving value.
And so, I painted all these amazing like postcards
that I sent from Hawaii.
I painted bigger paintings of like
really realistic whales, like it was a really good value
for the people and it was a good value for me.
And so then I made enough money
to actually go to the workshop.
Now the other piece, I wanted to stay longer.
How can I do this?
Well, I need accommodation, you know.
At certain points, you can like stay on a tent
on the beach, you know.
That works too but I was like you know
and I really wanna do this.
And so I contacted every bed and breakfast
on the Big Island, yeah.
Because I'm like okay, corporate hotels,
they're harder to get into.
You still can but they're a little bit harder.
Who can I contact, who you know directly,
person to person.
Bed and breakfast.
So I contacted about 20 bed and breakfasts.
I sent 'em an email.
I was authentic and I said that I'm really wanting
to experience the energy of the islands,
I would love to come stay at your place for a week
and in exchange, I am happy to paint you
a big painting for your retreat center
or for your bed and breakfast.
Or I'm happy to do healing sessions for you.
So again, I knew what I had as a value exchange
so I was giving them something.
I wasn't just taking.
And something that they probably would like.
So two contacted me back out of the 20
and they were actually really nice.
One of them is actually in the top 10 bed and breakfast
in the country and they were like yeah.
So I got to stay at one of the best bed and breakfast
like in the country and they chose healing sessions.
So I did like, you know,
three hours worth of healing sessions
and I got to stay in this amazing bed and breakfast
for a week.
I was able to go and experience all this in Hawaii
for the price of a plane ticket.
That's all I paid for.
And everyone else supported me
and I gave back in value.
So that was the first example.
Funny enough, a month later,
someone wanted to do an exchange
and my dad and I ended up moving to Maui a month after this.
So I got to move there for five months
which was incredible, on exchange again.
So this exchange principle is really powerful
in the beginning if it's something
that you don't have the money for
and also you can do like woofing trade.
You can do all kinds of things
to go live in these places or what not.
If you wanna go live in these places, for instance,
the price of living say in
in Mexico or in South America,
or in Bali or in Thailand,
some of these incredible places,
like the ones that you see on Instagram
they are like (gasps)
they are way less in living in the United States
so you could easily actually go there
as long as you just figure out an income source
but you can go there and start experiencing the energy
say for a year and in the meanwhile,
figure out what you wanna do online.
So this is the next thing that you can do
is you can leverage your own value
and trade and exchange.
You can also leverage assets and I see people
not doing this enough.
So for example, if you own a house,
you know or if you have some kind of like car
or like land space or something like that,
something like Airbnb, right?
You can leverage that so that when you move to Thailand
for a year, someone's paying that mortgage
and actually funds you to live there for a year.
So it really takes creativity
and it also takes writing down exactly what you want
and writing down the price or the cost of that
if you were gonna do it in a money way.
Or the price and value exchange of what that is.
And what you will find is it's actually
way less than you think.
And there are totally ways to make it possible and doable.
Now within the space, you don't have to be afraid of work.
I think work has gotten this like
really bad rap, rightfully so.
But the thing is, once you're like living your passion
and your true excitement, it's not work anymore.
It's play.
It's something that you already want to do.
And so for me, I actually work
I work incredibly hard.
I mean like I work a lot.
But it's stuff that I love
so it doesn't feel like it.
So we have to get into the space
where that's possible.
So going now into the actual designing,
the figuring out of what you want.
That's really where it starts
because figuring out what you want
is kind of in a way, the hardest part for most people.
And then the next hardest part
is actually just taking one action step.
So it's I've always just had it really clear to me
what I want because my imagination never got turned off
because I'm just so excited about life.
But then, and then I also have this part of my astrology,
this like Aries in this place of like starting new things
like bowls through it.
So I kinda have the guts and the gusto to do it.
So think of that and kind of tune into that energy
as you go into this next step.
Because if you can just come up with what it is,
and be clear about it and then take an action step
that's thoughtful, intelligent and creative,
it'll just manifest because whatever that excitement is,
whatever that thing is that you want
or want to experience or want to be,
it's aligned with who you are
and so that means it's already in existence.
It's already in a timeline for you to just synchronize with
and take in that action and moving in that direction
just syncs you with it.
So there is,
it exists.
It already is.
And that's one of the things that has been so helpful for me
is when I have this like inspiration,
this overwhelming inspiration of something
that I really want to experience or do,
it's already done.
Like you have to think of it from that angle
and put out that energy in that way.
And I guess, one of the things that maybe people think
you know, is that they're not deserving
of that kind of thing.
Or like that it's you know, kind of like opulent
of something, and in many cases, you know
maybe it is for you know those Instagram-ers
that are going from you know, Greece to Bali or something
and living in these high end resorts.
That's cool that's totally fine to do.
But it can also be
in that experience that something comes through
that's aligned with your purpose.
So for me, going and doing the experience with Hawaii,
seven years ago,
only a few years, well,
a month later landed me living there.
And a few years later, landed me completely in love
and it filling me up, just me being there in the place
but also then supporting other people
and getting to have that experience
and doing like say retreats there.
I never though when I showed up there
that I would be doing retreats.
So you can't know what's gonna come of it.
All you can know is that that's the next step
of the inspiration to pursue.
So now going into figuring it out, right?
So, I really like,
this just kind of all came intuitively and naturally to me
because I like challenge
and I also like new experiences.
So those two things mixed together made me able
to come up with these things and do this.
But more of a formalized format
that I've really liked is in the Four Hour Work Week book,
and again, I'm not into necessarily just like cutting down
to like no work,
it's again, it's going into what is play,
what is fulfilling,
what is passionate that you want to experience and do.
But nonetheless, there are amazing kind of tips
and they call it dream living
and a bit of lifestyle design
that you can find in listening to that book
and he has a lot of other strategies of what to do
so that you don't have to like
sit there and grind but you can leverage
your time and abilities in an appropriate way.
So I recommend going and checking out that book.
So that you can really like dive in
and fully like sculpt this out, this design.
But this is just like the beginning
of how you can start.
So these are a few of the ideas that he put in the book
that I already was implementing too.
So starting out, what would you do?
Again, if you had all the money in the world
to support whatever that is,
and what would you do if you couldn't fail at it,
write those things down.
And write the things down that you want to do
in the categories of doing,
like so the things like, it could be traveling,
or it could be whatever you wanna be doing in your life
and what you want to be.
So you might want to be a great musician.
You might want to be like a public speaker.
You might want to be whatever these things are.
And then also having.
So material things that you might want to have.
So in those categories, write down five things
and this is from his book.
Write down five things in each of those categories
that you want to experience and do.
Like that you're committed to to get really clear on it
and actually, we're gonna set up like a six month plan
and a one year plan 'cause it has to take action right now.
Because that fuel of excitement and that fire
is lit, but that thing is going to be burnt out
by programming of the world and just everyday life,
that shiz gets like drained out of you.
And so it's when that fire comes up,
you have to act immediately.
So once clarified, then come up with one action step
to get there.
And these things can be very specific
so it's like, oh I wanna become a better musician.
Okay, that's very vague.
So it's like, I want to play a concert
for more than 10 people within the next six months.
Okay that's more specific.
And with what instrument and how do you want it to look.
So you really have to envision
exactly what it is.
Or like a material thing.
I want a new Tesla model by, and within the next year.
Okay, great.
So then figure out also how much those things would cost.
Like actually look it up,
break it down and then once that number is in you,
like right, for the dolphin thing right?
It's like $2000 or something.
Okay, $2000 you know how much it is.
Then you can actually manifest it.
If it's this elusive thing that you just don't even know,
then it's elusive and you can't grab onto it.
You can't then let your subconscious
and your imagination and your creativity
come up with the solutions.
This is a very solution based
idea of making.
As you're doing this, don't judge what comes up.
Okay, especially because many of you are very spiritual
and very conscious and it's like,
uh be offensive to say that I want a mansion on the beach
or whatever that thing is that you might want.
Write it down.
It's really important to acknowledge
these like burning desires in you
and put them on paper and then actually experience them.
Because even if you know, you're like eh,
I think that this, this is kind of egoic
or I don't know where this is coming from,
it doesn't matter because it needs to be experienced.
It might be kind of lower chakra, desire experience
that you need to have and then once you have it
you kinda get it out of your system
and then you don't need to do it anymore
and you can get more on say your purpose to then serve.
But it's really important to experience it.
So I really recommend going and watching
my matrix deprogramming playlist
which I'll have in the link below,
in the comment pin below,
because it talks about that.
It talks about honoring those lower desires
and honestly, in a way, playing them out safely
so that you can kinda get through
those like lower programs or lower densities
for whatever reason 'cause there's a reason
that you have them so that you can go
into more of your purpose and be more aligned
with your passion.
And it might be totally synchronized with it.
Maybe buying that like expensive sports cars
or something or the mansion on the beach,
gives you an inspiration of like working with billionaires
to them like save the world, right?
So we can't judge where these things are coming from.
So, however big, however small, go for it.
And really start with something that's going to make you
a bit uncomfortable and take action on it immediately.
And this is so important,
taking action immediately, right,
while the fire still burning really bright.
An example of that, what I've done recent,
a few days ago, I just was so again,
like passionate and it was so burning in me
to work on this project that's been coming up
for quite a few years which is to create
some online platform so that people can log
their fruit trees in their respective area
so that other people can go and harvest and collect.
Because I see from Hawaii to California
to Arizona that there's so much abundance of food
but people don't pick it up.
Like it's just falling and there's thousand apples
on the ground and no one ate them
but they're importing them from Washington.
So, this hm, irked me.
And those things that irk you are the things
that you were meant to help in solutions for the world with.
And so, I was like okay,
it became very evident 'cause I was in Utah
and again, fruit falling all over the ground
and no one knew that lived in the house
that it could be eaten.
What a concept, people are scared of this.
So what did I do?
I immediately, in that inspiration,
contacted David Wolf and his tree planting foundation
because they have, I'm like well,
they may already know something
or they already have the fruit trees
so let's say what they say.
And they wrote me back and they said,
you know, we don't have the bandwidth right now
to focus on that but there's another site
that is already doing something like that.
Yes, perfect.
So part of this is also path of least resistance.
It doesn't mean that we need to create
the whole thing ourselves,
but we need to take the action steps to find
a way that we can do it.
So now I'm gonna work on working with them
to create this to bring this to fruition.
So that's the idea.
So whatever it is, specifically,
if you're like the musician idea,
okay, maybe you don't play an instrument.
Alright then find a music teacher like tonight,
like right now as your watching this video
and get your first, you know, session going.
Or whatever it is.
You want that trip to wherever that is,
you know find out what that looks like
and how much that would be.
So take the action steps immediately
so that you can work towards that
and set those goals.
And as you do this,
and as you get more used to it,
it becomes easier and easier.
And you see it working
because it's in alignment with who you are.
It's in alignment with your spirit.
And so it works and then you go,
okay well I can do this again.
And it just becomes this innate operating system
of how you live your life.
And this conscious creating design aspect
which ends up building so much self confidence
and knowing exactly what you have to give
and how you can serve.
The one thing I wanna say before I close out
is the idea that some things don't work out.
Some things don't go as planned.
Things come up.
Maybe that thing doesn't manifest.
That's okay too.
The idea is is when you're creating,
there's movement.
You're alive.
You're either kinda like alive or your dying.
So this movement, this momentum,
makes it so that the challenges aren't as hard.
You're like in movement
so you can move and you can shift
and you can adapt and you can come up with new ideas.
But if you're stopped and you're like solid.
You're like I'm gonna do this thing
and then it doesn't work, it's like oh,
and you're kinda like, get hit
and you can't quite then like get back up
to keep going.
So building the momentum and moving with this
gives you that capacity to be really adaptable.
That's like the biggest thing they'll say.
And also to have enough fulfillment from your life
that when things come up, it's not that big of a deal.
'Cause you're like yeah whatever,
it's been a great year.
That thing happened but okay,
I can handle it.
So it creates a fortification
so that you can handle the things that come up
because you have a reserve of juice and joy
in your life.
So just so that you know that.
That's another part.
I hope you've enjoyed this video.
And I would love for you to comment below
of what your actionable excitements are
in your life that you are going to do
like right now.
Okay, within the next six months to the year.
But taking action steps now.
What are those things, comment below.
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How freaking epic.
I didn't even know that any of this was happening.
Again, this was like an impulse,
an inspiration to make my first YouTube video,
to disclose myself which I'll post that video soon
for my event talk, and then it manifested in this.
We don't know where these things are gonna lead.
We just have to follow the trail.
We have to follow the breadcrumbs of synchronicity
and then everything will work out.
So I really appreciate you watching
and I will consistently be back
every week now.
And I'm posting on Sundays so come back every Sunday.
And I just wish you all the best
and I really want you to create a life
that totally invigorates you and inspires you
because that inspiration inspires others
and then we can create a better, happier
more fulfilling world and it'll be great.
So thanks , see you soon.
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