19 things to avoid when you break up with someone so you've decided to dump
your boyfriend or girlfriend huh wow that's a really tough decision to
make but if it's gotten bad then I can't blame you that sucks it really does go
ahead let it all out breaking up with your partner is never easy and here are
certain things that you should or shouldn't do when breaking off a
relationship with your boyfriend or your girlfriend
if you're considering breaking up with your significant other watch this video
to see how you can avoid breaking someone's heart and leaving someone
absolutely devastated but sometimes certain couples just aren't meant to be
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when you're breaking up with your girlfriend or your boyfriend number 19
never forget about the practical stuff so you're probably going through some
complex emotions at the moment but for now we need to get serious does your
partner know any of your passwords do they have a key to your house do they
have those precious Avril Lavigne CDs you stole from your sister in 2001 make
a plan to recover those things and go through with it says expert Tony Coleman
how else are you supposed to listen to complicated once you're single number 18
don't try to punish your ex-partner putting your now ex-partner down will
just hurt you more and make you feel terrible so when you break up with your
boyfriend or your girlfriend don't make it even worse for them couples who break
up should always be respectful to one another do you know what to do with all
your ex's texts and messages after you break up stick around till the end and
you'll find out number 17 don't even think about getting
back together with them for several weeks remember the way they used to
tickle your ear the warmth of their body sleeping beside you at night you will
remember all the feelings you had when you were in love you need to get rid of
those thoughts according to your trusty expert Tony Coleman when folks bounce
back and forth in and out of relationships it's usually a sign that
they don't want to be in a relationship but have the wrong reasons for remaining
for instance they might have a fear of being alone or a fear of loneliness
number 16 don't justify your feelings when breaking up with your ex don't try
to justify your feelings sort through your feelings and understand that you're
going through the grieving process when you break up with someone you used to
love it's never easy so don't expect this process to be a simple one keep
watching as we continue to count down the top things you should avoid when you
break up with someone number 15 don't worry about mutual friends the
experts over at fashion beans comm tell us that friend should be a non-factor in
breakups your souring feelings are more important than who they choose in the
eventual split number 14 don't call or text your ex
according to Coleman if you try to call or text your ex boyfriend or girlfriend
your ex may see it as a sign that you're unsure and that you want to try again
you just need time and space but eventually you'll return thanks fulmen
now take it away do a Lipa don't pick up the phone you know he's only calling cuz
he's drunk and eat alone and if you're under him you ain't getting over number
13 don't lead them on just cut to the point when you break up with your
partner none of the I need some space or I just
need some time you have to accept that you two are no longer a couple and it's
unfair to the ex-partner if you lead them on to believing there's a chance of
you two becoming a couple again once more in the future if you are no longer
in love with them it is best to just cut it loose number 12 don't immediately
start a new long-term relationship relationship expert Tanisha Ranger says
the time after a breakup is a magical one you are able to take your own
inventory realize you were wrong and figure out how you intend to do things
differently in order to have a different outcome in the future while I'm sure
it's tempting to feel loved again try to avoid it play the field a little you're
newly single number 11 don't stalk them on social media in fact according to
Lisa Stedman another relationship expert you should completely purge them from
your social media circle Instagram Facebook snapchat Twitter everything no
matter how nice those pictures are from Cuba number 10 don't ask mutual friends
about them okay so you're decided on split custody for your friends just make
sure you don't ask them about your ex never obsess over what your ex-boyfriend
or girlfriend is doing focus on yourself you're beautiful smart talent
and well-loved self number-9 don't compare yourself to the new beau the
people at WWE diva mag calm tell us not to go comparing ourselves to whoever
your ex chooses after you number eight take care of yourself
alright so you're done with wallowing and now it's time to get your life back
on track the best thing we can do during breakup
depression is work out cook a healthy meal and stay positive the sense of
accomplishment will remind you that you're just fine on your own
so don't wallow in the fact that you two are no longer a couple or that you two
are no longer in love take care of yourself and stay positive number seven
let yourself feel yes I know I just said don't wallow in it but that doesn't mean
that you shouldn't feel pain you're going through Stedman tells us that you
can't shortcut the healing process you should maybe talk to a couple close
friends or family members about it let yourself feel all the emotions of no
longer being with someone you used to love so much number six don't
immediately try to be friends you both need to fully separate and move past the
pain of the split you should only reconnect with your ex partner when
you're both in a better place number five don't let it get in the way of your
work you're a career person you're the best at what you do don't let that
stinky ex of yours mess that up according to WWE at Birkbeck calm you
should talk to a trusted supervisor if it's affecting you that much if you're
comfortable with that at least number four don't ruin your social life
ww Redbook magazines presents they gave you for Christmas or on your birthday
get rid of everything according to Redbook mag
heaping that old piece of clothing just reminds you of them throw it on the lawn
and burn it in a fire or you know just put it in the garbage whatever works
number two don't go back to that spot you know that spot the place where you
had your first kiss the place where you two used to visit your ex's apartment
definitely don't go to that last one all couples have those spots they remember
fondly but it's never a good idea to revisit them so just don't now now
here's what to do with old messages and text after you break up with your ex
number one don't read old texts or listen to old messages this should be
included and don't wallow but the people at vie cool calm want this point
hammered in don't go on your phone and read all the really nice sweet things
your ex-partner sent you just delete the messages and tell those things to
yourself or if that's too hard then ask a friend or family member to do it just
get rid of all the evidence that you two were a couple this will make it easier
to move on from the rest of the relationship and will also save you a
lot of heartache and unwanted sadness give your heart a rest and just get rid
of all those text messages so now that you know what not to do when you break
up with your partner try to follow these tips mending a broken heart even if
you're the one who did the breaking isn't easy it's hard to move on after
being in love but if you follow some of the tips in this video we'll get over it
in time have you ever broken up with someone or been broken up with what
things did you do to get through it let us know in the comment section below
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