Live Today Live Passion - Tyrese Gibson: "I love me so the day that you decide to stop loving me I'm not gonna love myself
any less I believe in me if you stop believing in me
I'm not going to believe in myself any less if you believe that I'm irrelevant
that no one is checking for me and that I don't mean anything to the world
because you think or believe that about me
it doesn't believe it doesn't mean that I'm going to believe it about myself see
the day that you start living your life according to everybody else's opinion is
the beginning of the end most of y'all I see it every day all day most of you
guys don't actually know your self-worth you don't know your self value so you're
like a vulnerable little child and you're shaking and it's like everybody
loves me this week so I love me this week next week it drops so now you're
running around and secure feeling self-conscious and not loving yourself
sad and depressed based on the feedback the responses and
the energy that the rest of the world is giving you I wrote about this in my new
book which is coming it's called black rose it hasn't been released yet but
it's coming I talked about the fact that Fame is an addiction fame is one of the
most unspoken addictions out there so many celebrities and entertainers
athletes and public figures they base their self-worth on their relevancy
based on everybody in the world checking for and as soon as people stop checking
for then they stop checking for they self y'all don't love me no more I'm not
selling records I'm not number one in the box office no more I'm not making as
much money as I used to make oh ain't nobody checking for me so guess what I'm
not checking for myself no and sees the value in me anymore so I
don't see the value of me anymore every time I go on Twitter Facebook they say
I'm irrelevant so I'm irrelevant to myself now I ain't
because you think that I ain't shit no one loves me because you said no one
loves me I don't love me the day that you allow the opinions of the outside
world to dictate the way you feel about yourself
it is the beginning of the end of you living a blessed and self loving secure
life I can tell y'all right now that it is not the car that I Drive or any of
the juries at our own or the size of my house that defines my self-worth I'm hot
I'm hot I'm hot when you don't think I'm hot I'm amazing when you don't think I'm
amazing I love me even if you stop loving me you can say the nastiest
meanest evil issues you could ever conjure up it will never change the way
I feel about myself I'm telling you that's the way I live my life that's how
I feel about me most of y'all are on Twitter you're desperate for likes
you're desperate for the the egotistical feeding frenzy feed my ego feed these
feed like me like me because I don't like me I'm telling y'all right now
the day that you allow the opinions of everybody on the outside world to define
your day to day month a month and year to year it's the beginning of the end
love yourself believe in yourself love yourself believe in yourself independent
of the validation of the world have opinions and feelings about yourself
independent of the feedback why you got to have somebody calling you beautiful
everyday in order for you to feel beautiful do you believe that you're
beautiful or do you only believe you're beautiful when other people say that
you're beautiful I'm just asking self love is to cure the
self hate if you make it to the end of this video I want you to write self love
is the cure to self hate these are the type of qualities that I'm going and
have been instilling in my daughter there is no man that you could ever meet
Shayla that can make you feel more amazing than what you're supposed to
feel about yourself nobody wants to be alone but if you show
up empty as an empty shell and you're expecting this man to fulfill you and
fill you up with all the love that doesn't exist you're gonna be fucked up
because as soon as he leaves you depleted you're empty and you have
nothing left for yourself again never rely or depend on anybody to fulfill
your heart and if you don't believe in the Lord Jesus Christ you better get to
know him because that's also a part of the process of self-love you are
supposed to love yourself independent of any feedback comments likes shares and
any of all of these other social media kids some of y'all are social media
whores what does that mean I I ain't shit until people on my timeline tell me
that I'm the shit I love me independent of anything that anybody could ever say
has nothing to do with being arrogant and egotistical it's just a matter of
knowing and being aware of self-worth I love you if you make it to the end of
this video I want you to write self love is the cure to self hate self-love is
the cure to self hate and I hope you share this video because I want this
video to spread all over the world send it to WorldStarHipHop send it to all of
the blogs and the websites self-love is the cure itself hate shame and tyrese
spreading love always share share share click that share button spread law
and in the process of working on your dreams you are going to incur and incur
a lot of disappointment a lot of failure a lot of pain a lot of setbacks a lot of
defeats but in the process of doing that you will discover some things about
yourself that you don't know right now what you will realize is that you have
greatness within you what you'll realize is that you're more powerful than you
can ever begin to imagine what you will realize is that you're greater than your
circumstances that you don't have to go through life being a victim if Jack
indicated I was born in Miami Florida the area called Liberty City in an
abandoned building on a hardened Olien floor with my twin brother we were six
weeks of age we were adopted when I was in 5th graders identified as EMR labeled
educable mentally retarded put back from the fifth grade into the fourth grade
and stayed in that category until I got out of high school I don't have any
college training but I met a high school teacher who one day changed my life I
was waiting on another student and when he came in he said to me young man go to
the board and write what I'm about to tell you and I said I can't do that sir
he said why not I said I'm not one of you students he said it doesn't matter
follow my direction style and say I can't do that sir he said why not I said
because I'm magical mentally retarded and he came from behind his desk and he
looked at me he said don't ever say that again
someone's opinion of you does not have to become your reality I do a lot of
training for many corporations and I conduct sales seminars and I've heard
all kind of guys doing techniques and training people techniques of how to
close sales and how to work within and begin to control the sale and how to ask
for the clothes let me share something with you you can learn all the
techniques of the world if you don't believe
even yourself it won't happen for you I learn all of it so that's why I do a
training called focus on the seller you've got to focus on you and as you
convince you as you sell yourself every day every day every day you will begin
to see a difference in the things that you're doing selling yourself on your
ability to perform a job to achieve a certain objective telling yourself every
day here go again and I've got what it takes this is my day and nothing out
here is going to stop me the other thing is take full
responsibility for your life except where you are and the responsibility
that you're going to take yourself where you want to go so once that we have two
primary choices in life we can either accept conditions as they exist or we
can take the responsibility to change them see a lot of people want to exempt
themselves from taking responsibility all they want to do is talk about the
problem every time you see them they'll tell you their story over and over and
over and over again no no you want to take responsibility for your life I got
me here I can get me out of this and I'm getting out I'm not going to be a
volunteer victim George Bernard Shaw said there are two kinds of people in
life you know he said those that make things happen those that watch things
happen and those that don't know what happened
and if they're the people to get alone in this life look around for the
circumstances that they want and if they can't find them they maker they creator
so part of beginning to get unstuck you've got to decide that the behavior
pattern that you have adopted doesn't work for you you've got to change your
strategies and changing your strategy means reinventing your life recreating
you and you have the power to do that you can decide that you're going to
change that you're not going to be a wimp
you can decide that you're going to stand up to light you can decide that
I'm going to live each day as if it were my last you can you have the power to
make that decision you can decide I'm going to work on
myself and develop myself I'm going to empower me and all of these things that
are happening to me right now they're just temporary inconveniences they're
not stronger than I am I'm in charge here
overcoming the negative conversation that inner dialogue is going on all the
time all the time even when you don't want it to be there you can't stop
yourself right now from thinking you can't do it it's going on and so
learning how to empower yourself part of doing that is standing up to yourself
you've got to stand up inside yourself sometimes and say shut up
you've got to do this I was going to give a presentation and this voice
inside of me saying you can't do this you don't have everything it takes us
shut up I'm behind on my bills are you telling me what I can't do I have got to
do it you get scared sometimes your mind will go blank on you
some people will you will allow to unnerve you and you wonder what's wrong
with me I'm not crazy that's why you've got to learn to make a conscious
deliberate determined effort to stand up inside yourself working on yourself
watching that inner dialogue it will determine the quality of your life next
thing is that you've got to activate the thinker in you don't allow your emotions
to control you we are emotional but you want to begin to discipline your emotion
if you don't discipline and contain your emotions they will use you your mind
goes on automatic just like a god you know I love reading the book call as a
man thinketh by James Allen he uses the analogy of the mind being like a garden
you know we don't have to have any encouragement to grow you don't have to
water them they don't have to get sunshine they don't have to have fur
ground they will grow through the cracks of a sidewalk am i right
but if you want to grow orchids or roses or any kind of exotic flowers there are
special processes and procedures you must go through we're by the same token
you don't have to force yourself or motivate yourself to think negatively to
be depressed to hate somebody to want revenge you want to get back at somebody
to beat yourself up over the head to feel loaded with guilt you don't have to
make any effort to do that your mind is on automatic it will do that by itself
but if you want to begin to move into your own personal greatness if you want
to begin to really enjoy a happy successful healthy life you've got to be
willing to go against the tide you've got to be willing to harness your will
and say in spite of this I'm in control here I'm not going to let this get me
down I'm not going to let this destroy me I'm coming back and I'll be stronger
and better because of it you have got to make a declaration that this is what you
stand for you're standing up for your dreams you're standing up for peace of
mind you're standing up for health you want
it and you're going to go all out to have it it's not going to be easy when
you want to change it's not easy if it were in fact easy everybody to do it but
if you're serious you'll go all out I don't care how good you are until I care
how talented you are I don't care how much you work on yourself there are some
times when things aren't going to go right they just I'm not going to go
right there are times with anything that can happen will happen
Murphy's Law will be knocking at your door well I don't know why that's called
life and you have to deal with it sometimes your life will be in a slump
just like sports some of the best shooters can't hit baskets different
times and games they get in a slump do they sit on the sidelines and say you
digest it hit a basket today no they continue to execute I suggest to
you that if you were facing a challenge don't stop stay busy work your plan
continue to do those things that you know that work for you after you have
evaluated yourself in the situation continue to move stay busy stay busy
stay busy I was working on a job and I came home one day I was married at the
time not to my former wife I said that guy Burt I work for if stupid
she said if he's so stupid why does he sign your paycheck
now you see why the Worcester right I
couldn't stand her that night I could not sleep well here was a guy that was
controlling my life I was going through all kind of changes because this man
controlled my paycheck and it was Carlyle who said she was crushed to
earth shall rise again Winston Churchill said the truth is incontrovertible
malice man tacit ignorance may divide it but at the end there is and we know
scripture that says ye shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free
and the truth that I had to come to grips with that I wasn't in charge of my
destiny the truth was that I wasn't giving all that I had the truth was that
there are some things that I wanted to do but I didn't have the courage to act
on those things and the truth was that Birchall's was a blessing to me he made
life so miserable for me I had to start looking at my life differently I started
going to work earlier I started being the last one to leave it I started
working harder than anybody else the other guys could not why would you work
so hard less I said I'm not working for them I have been cheating Burt I thought
I've been cheating myself and my family wherever you are whatever you're doing
do it with everything that you have develop the habit of giving more than
what you're paid for develop the habit of setting standards that others will be
measured by someone said do not go where the path may lead but go where there is
no path and leave a trail I'm saying this is the time more than ever that you
want to begin to inoculate yourself with positive words coming to conventions
showing up on meetings being on the calls to make yourself unstoppable to
get out of your mind the polluting negative thoughts that's causing most
people to go through life being stuck because their volunteer victims somebody
said that many people died 25 and don't get buried until they're 65
because they got so much garbage in their minds you are here because you've
got a clear vision of what you want and where you're going give yourselves a
round of applause come on bring it and you level up yes yes you want more you
want more you're different you're different than everybody else don't
worry if they don't get it don't try and convince people to do this business a
person convinced against their will is of the same opinion still you are not
like everybody else you can walk outside and find pigeons but if you're looking
for Eagles this don't take you a minute you are different it's lonely at the top
how many of you know is lonely at the top raise your head is lonely at the top
but you eat better that's what I'm talking about
you're different one great entrepreneur said I choose not to be a common man
it's my right to be uncommon if I can I'll seek opportunity not security I do
not wish to be a kept citizen humbled and build by having the state look after
me I want to take the calculated risk to dreamin to bill
the fail and to succeed I refuse to live from hand to mouth I prefer the
challenges of life to the guaranteed existence the thrill of fulfillment to
the still calm of utopia I will never call before in master you know then to
any threat it's my heritage to stand erect proud and I'm afraid the face the
world bolian say this I have done you showed up because you're building a
business that you can stand and say I did this I did this this is my dream
give yourselves a round of applause yeah yes yes yes
Todd changing your life it was hard when just over three years ago in the
Penobscot building in Detroit Michigan where I was operating my business and I
fell on some hard times and I was sleeping in my office
it was hard coming into the lobby and the security said scuse me mr. Brown can
we see you for a moment and I said yes and I walked up to the counter and he
gave me an envelope and he said would you mind reading it here and I opened
the envelope and the envelope was from management that says this is an office
power it's not a hotel please do not sleep in your office and I say
excuse me sir I said I just worked long hours in creating my business I'm an
entrepreneur and right now things are bad for me but they're not going to be
this way always and I just asked for the opportunity to continue to operate like
I'm doing I'm not trying to make this my home and it was hard coming through the
lobby and sometimes they would laugh there's a guy talking about becoming
successful and look at him he's bathing in the bathroom upstairs on the 21st
floor he sleeps on the floor him and two other dreamers up there look at him
it was hard ladies and gentlemen coming to speak to people and I was facing
financial difficulties in my own life I was behind on my bills and my dreams and
I'm saying to them you can live your dream it was hard ladies and gentlemen
it was very difficult to pick myself up each day believing that I can do it
there were times that I doubted myself I say God why why is this happening to me
I'm just trying to take care of my children and my mother I'm not trying to
steal a Rob from anybody how did it have to happen to me it was very hard and
here's what I want to say to you for those of you that have experienced some
hardships don't give up on your dream no one could
have convinced me by holding on by continuing to push forward by continuing
to run toward my dream at one day I would have my own talk show it's a long
shot ladies and gentlemen from Liberty City an abandoned building order floor
never knowing my mother or father it's a long shot being here with you today in
this dome in Atlanta it's a long shot no college training labeled educable
mentally retarded but I kept running toward my dream
goes down
don't doubt
don't stop running to watch your dream
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