Thứ Tư, 2 tháng 8, 2017

Youtube daily don Aug 2 2017

Right now, it is currently 3in the morning am o'clock

a-and I'm going to be eating three cough drops

and I've heard that if you do stuff at 3am it's very scary.

So I'm going to be testing that out.

Okay... here we go, I'm so scared.

(scary ghost noise)

What was that?

Oh my gosh, I think I heard something, it's...

It came from over there.

I don't know what it could be.

This is so scary.

I'm going to put the third one in my mouth

It represents three in the... 3am.

Three cough drops.

Oh gosh, I'm- I'm really scared, guys.

Oh my gosh, what was that?

I'm so scared.

Well,

if- if you

enjoyed the video then please

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amazing, scary videos. Peace out!

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Lauv - Don't Matter - Duration: 3:10.

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I don't take proper care of myself | VEDA DAY 1 - Duration: 2:36.

so this is probably a really unusual way to start channel but welcome to Veda! I'm

doing a video every day in August this month and I really wanted to start my channel

in a meaningful way, so I really thought YouTube right now could use some

self-care. Every day this month I am putting up a video and it's all going to be

about self-care, we can call it self-care month. I do struggle with self-care and

hopefully in coming along the journey of Veda with me, you will improve your

self-care as well. if I can help just one person improve even just one thing to do

with how they take care of themselves then it will be worth it so I think a

lot of youtubers especially right now might resonate with struggling with

their self-care I think when you're self-employed and everything you do is

down to your own willpower, you don't have a schedule, you have to get up at a

specific time. I think that opens a window in which it's just so easy to

neglect your self-care and just put other things before yourself so like

anything is admiting you have a problem is the first step so hello my name is Naomi

and I don't take proper care of myself, I spend way too much time in my pyjamas I

put games and work before actually feeding myself and I leave my eyebrows

way too long before I decide to deal with them. Please introduce yourself in

the comments I'd love it if we could get like a little support group going I'd

love to know who you are and what your relationships with your own self-care is

like. I'm a firm believer that admitting your hiccups and your little mistakes

and where you go wrong is the best way to improve upon those things so hopefully

we can get a little support group going and improve our self-care this month

if self-care interest to you or you like the idea of myself care month honestly I think

it's one of most original ideas and ever come up with I don't think I've ever

seen anyone do like a themed video every day in a month I know vlogmas and that's

very themed but like a theme that you come up with yourself ooh! and by the way

this video comes with a blog post which I'll link in the description oh, surprise!

I have a blog by the way I was originally thinking I'll do a blog post

every day too there will be a few I don't think I can

write a blog post every day that might be a bit too much so I've written a blog

post about the five first steps to self-care and obviously this video is

the first step admitting you have a problem if you're interested in self-care

or if you think this is a nice idea or if you just wanna see more of me, then

please subscribe and I'm looking forward to meeting you guys in the comments and

starting a little community of self-care I think so be really positive way to start a

channel. Remember to hit the notification bell so you don't miss a single day

of self care month and I will see you guys tomorrow, bye guys!

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I don't have a switch, so ... - Duration: 0:07.

Fuck you

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EZ Battery Reconditioning Review - DON'T BUY IT Until You See This! - Duration: 0:58.

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【XÔI MẬN tv】TẬP 2: VỊT HÓA THIÊN NGA - Wicked Wonderland | Đỉnh cao makeup | Don't Judge Challenge - Duration: 2:13.

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Wait how did I made this subtitles????

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AHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAH WHAT IS THIS I CANT EVEN USE SUBTITLES I MEAN WHAT- >:)

*sad face with tears*

Ok I'm done.... thanks for watching because I hate my life so lmao

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Vlog#10 - You Don't Really Need A Social Life - Duration: 8:40.

Hey there, lovelies! Time for some more meanderings, because of course it is. Um

I'm going to be a little random again today, and this is going to be slightly

writing-related, um but I think it's just general, because

I have thoughts on things, and you know, I like to share them with people,

especially when I haven't quite worked them out, so hey. I'd love to hear some

people's opinions on this one. I've noticed since I started uni, which is you

know, two and a half years ago, but especially this year since I've really

started committing to my writing and, and this channel and everything, I've noticed

a few people have expressed concern that I am working too hard and that I'm, you

know, I don't have a life and that I'm, that I should be getting out more and you

know being careful and that I don't get obsessive and whatever. And look I get

where that comes from, and that, that's a, the fear of burnout and

whatever is a genuine concern, because um in the past I have, and I know that this

isn't just me, and you know I haven't really done the self-care thing, and

I've bought into the - ooh I'm gonna sneeze. No I'm not - and I've bought into the whole

productivity narrative that goes with capitalism, like you have to be

productive to a certain point otherwise you're not valuable, which is bullshit, and

crappy, but you know these days I'm well, I'm, I am doing really well, and I'm

really happy ,and so I'm finally able to give the time and energy to these things

that I have been wanting to do for as long as I can remember, especially

writing but also uni, which, I love learning new things, and the writing and

the uni sort of tie in together, because you know, I can I learn things by doing

each that help help each other, which I love, and I'm having so much fun, but I am

working seven days a week, and I am, aside from you know the occasional day off,

because otherwise I will die, um but it's because I like it, you know, it's

because I'm doing things that I love. And and I think that it's really hard for

people to understand that, and especially when it comes to people saying "you need

to get out more you need to socialise" and whatever. I, that's really where I

just go, well no, I'm not, I'm not a spectacularly social person. I have some

really good friends and, and I talk to them a reasonable amount. I mean, I

haven't kept up with people as much as I would like to this year, I have to admit,

but um, but that doesn't mean that I'm sitting here going "I have to do work, I can't go

and see my friends you know I'm lonely". That is, that is not what's happening.

And I really hate this idea that you can't be happy as a human being if

you're not constantly going out and constantly having a particular kind of

fun. Like there's this idea that you know, if you're working as hard as I am, it

can't be fun. I think that's really sad. I wish, I know it's not possible, and I am

extremely fortunate, but I wish everyone could have fun doing what they love to

the point where they could you know, look forward to doing it. And that's not to

say that I never wake up in the morning and go "oh my god I have to get out of bed

why", and you know, it's not to say I never have challenges, I never end up cursing

my writing or you know a particular set of readings I'm struggling with or whatever,

because frustration and, and whatever, that's just going to come with whatever

you do, so it's not universally "this is all good and I love every second of it",

but overall this, this life is amazing. Being able to write,

being able to make these videos, being able to try new things like, um, like the

animating. I'm, I've taught myself to do basic animation, which I had hoped to

finish by no,w but you know, we all got flu at the end of last semester, so I'm

a little behind on my holiday projects, but that promised music video is still,

I'm still working on it, it's still going to happen. I've got a microphone arriving

next week, so I'll be able to record the music, I'm very excited about that, so...

That went off on a tangent. Um, but you know, being able to experiment with all this

stuff, this is such a, such a luxury, and it makes me really sad that people are

looking at at this and going "you should get out more".

Like, should I though? I really like where I am at the moment, I'm, I'm doing things I

love and I'm really proud of the work that I'm doing, I'm proud of seeing so

much progress in such a short amount of time,

you know, I'm improving my skills and I'm learning new things and I'm coming

across new authors and new concepts and and I really, I mean I don't know what

more I could ask for, this... So you know, when someone turns around and says "you

should go out to the pub on Friday night", I'm just like... Why? I didn't want to go to

the pub before, I don't really want to go now. And this isn't to say I don't have a

social life, I have friends that I see and I go out and meet them, and and you

know, chat to them online a lot, and that sort of leads into another misconception,

which is talking online isn't the same as having real life friends. And for some

people that can be true, I you know, I'm quite willing to admit that everyone has

their own way of forming friendships, that's fine, and some people really like

to go out, and some people need that, and some people need to be face-to-face, and I do

need that a little, just on not, not, not as much as a lot of people seem to think.

I, I think you can have a very close friendship with someone you see once a

month and talk to you online a lot, and I think that's, that's fine,

I don't see the problem with that. So I don't know if I made an actual point in

this video, but I just wanted to say mostly to people, and I suspect a lot of

us will be neurodivergent, I just want to say to people who don't want to

go out a lot and who are staying home working on things that you are

enthusiastic about and you love, firstly, appreciate how lucky we are to be able

to do that. I'm not going to say my life is easy, that these choices have have not

come with sacrifice or whatever, but there is still, ah, this is still a

massive privilege to be able to to work on these things, and I deeply appreciate

that, and I think we need to remember that. And also know what you need. Don't

forget to take care of yourself ,know when you are pushing too hard and take a

break, but nobody else can tell you what you need. You know if you don't want to

socialise, don't. It's fine. You don't need a social social life to be you know

healthy, it's, it's fine. So I think that was the point I wanted to make and I hope

it made sense. Um I keep promising that I'll come back tomorrow and make more

sense and not be so vague, but I think I'm lying. And so I'll be back tomorrow with

something just as random and nonsensical probably, and, and I hope you enjoy it.

So until then, stay awesome! Bye!

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The Real Reason You Don't Hear From Antonio Banderas Anymore - Duration: 7:18.

From the swashbuckling Zorro to the gunslinging mariachi, Antonio Banderas has been a household

name for decades.

He remained a constant on our screens over the years, reprising the role of Zorro and

joining big budget franchises in Shrek and Spy Kids.

But recently, his status as a genuine A-lister has come into question.

We don't really hear much from Banderas nowadays, and here's why.

Typecast

Although Banderas took on some pretty varied roles in his early acting days in Spain, his

transition to Hollywood almost immediately pigeonholed him as the Latin lover with the

sensual voice.

Even his actions scenes feel like he might just start getting sexy at any minute.

"Not bad."

"Not bad at all."

No matter how much makeup you put on his face or how many things are exploding, Antonio

Banderas is never more than one tango away from taking you to bed.

It's a tag that's followed him his entire career, even though he's often tried to shake

the typecasting with movies like Assassins, The 13th Warrior, and 2011's The Skin I Live

In, in which he played a deranged surgeon.

Unfortunately, critics haven't been particularly kind to Banderas' latest work.

Of the last ten Antonio Banderas movies reviewed on Rotten Tomatoes, eight of them have scores

of less than 50 percent.

In 2014, he turned up in The Expendables 3 looking to work on his action chops…

...but the film was bashed by critics, and the verdict was just as bad when Banderas

took on the lead role in Automata later that year.

In their review of the apocalyptic sci-fi film, The Wrap said that Banderas was "all

wrong" for the part, criticizing him for being "shouty where he should be stern, confused

where he should be clued in."

Franchise player

When Antonio Banderas signed on to play Puss in Boots in Shrek 2 in 2004, he probably had

no idea how popular the character would become.

He showed up again in two more Shrek sequels and no less than five animated specials, not

to mention his own spin-off prequel in 2011.

It grossed over half a billion dollars at the worldwide box office, but eventually the

franchise was bound to run out of steam.

Similarly, Spy Kids finally fizzled, and Robert Rodriguez's "Mexico Trilogy" reached its conclusion

with Once Upon a Time in Mexico.

Antonio Banderas has plenty of other solid film credits, but for nearly a decade, his

acting work rested heavily on franchises that ultimately reached their end.

But no matter what, Banderas always has a fallback:

"You can make anything sound sexy."

"Really?"

"Okay?

And seductive."

Side gigs

Since 1997, Antonio Banderas has been creating his own line of men's fragrances alongside

Spanish fashion and cosmetics giant Puig.

In 2015, Banderas also announced that he had signed up as a student at the famous London

fashion school Central St. Martins.

He told the school publication, "I'm going to continue doing movies and producing, and

I want to direct more – but there were other things in my life that I was interested in."

What were those things?

If you guessed 'capes,' you'd be… yeah, you'd be right.

Antonio Banderas wants to make capes.

"Zorro!

The legend has returned!"

On top of his fragrance and fashion side gigs, Banderas is also a United Nations Development

Program Goodwill Ambassador and he has his own foundation, Tears and Favors, which provides

support to cancer patients.

In other words, we don't see him so much any more because he's super busy with his commitments

away from Hollywood.

Family time

In 2014, Melanie Griffith and Antonio Banderas released a joint statement confirming that

they were bringing their near-two decades of marriage to a close.

Banderas saw this as an opportunity to turn over a new leaf and has been busy spending

more time with his family.

He told E! News:

"My life changed very much during the last two years, personal reasons.

The possibility of reinventing myself was there, and so I said 'Probably this is the

moment that I can do this.'"

Banderas also revealed that both his step-daughter Dakota Johnson and his biological daughter

Stella helped him get through the process.

"I told my kids sometimes, but in fact, the reality is I learned from them more.

They were not very obedient, but I learn from them."

Leaving Hollywood

In 2015, Banderas left the bright lights of Hollywood for the UK countryside.

He currently lives with his Dutch girlfriend Nicole Kempel in a tailor-made eco-mansion

that set him back more than $3 million.

Looking back, it's hardly a surprise that Banderas chose to leave the States, as a few

years earlier he and his then-wife Melanie Griffith tried to buy an apartment in world

famous New York apartment building "The Dakota" only to be turned away because Banderas was

Hispanic, according to a lawsuit.

The suit suggested that the board made cruel jokes about Banderas upon receiving his application,

claiming he wanted a first floor apartment so it would be easier to buy drugs off the

street.

Health concerns

In January 2017, Banderas was rushed to a hospital near his home in England after suffering

"agonizing" pain in his chest during a workout.

The Spanish star initially dismissed the incident as an "episode" and tweeted a photo of himself

and girlfriend Nicole Kempel with the caption "Enjoying nature after a little startle."

He later confirmed that it was indeed a heart attack, and that he had to go under the knife

to fix the problem.

"It was a benign attack.

It hasn't caused a-ny permanent damage and now I'm in a recovery period.

It's something that happens every day to a lot of people.

I didn't hide it, but I didn't want it to receive more importance than those suffered

by other people."

While that's great news, studio execs may think twice before casting him in long-term

roles, which is a real shame for both the actor and his fans alike.

What's next?

One reason that Banderas chose to move out of the spotlight was to focus on his writing.

He told The Sunday Times,

"I am not a party person anymore so I have the space and peace to write and really get

inside my own head.

I'm working on several scripts."

Whether any of the screenplays he is currently writing will come to fruition is anyone's

guess, but what we do know is that Banderas hasn't given up the ghost on acting quite

yet.

He'll star alongside Adrien Brody and John Malkovich in a "Reservoir Dogs-style thriller"

called Unchained, play an aging rock star in the action comedy Salty, and headling the

upcoming revenge thriller Stoic.

He might have been out of the picture for a while, but Banderas looks like he has enough

left in the tank for a few more rolls of the dice.

And if that doesn't work, there's always capes!

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What to Do If Your Spouse Wants Amrit and You Don't - Duration: 9:48.

Vaheguru ji ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji ki Fateh

It is generally seen that out of a couple one wants to take Amrit and the other doesn't

If your life partner wants to move towards their religious roots

meaning wants to take Amrit and become a Gursikhs

But your heart is not ready then what should you do?

In this video we will discuss this topic

that if your life partner wants to take Amrit then what should you do?

In this video whenever Daas says life partner

it is for both husband and wife respectively

If you didn't have to do anything when they become a Gursikh then it wouldn't be that big of a deal

but according to Maryada a married person can't take Amrit by them selves

according to this Hukam the husband or wife will have to take Amrit as well

You can only become servants of Guru jee along with your spouse this is the Maryada since the beginning

Some times after giving very hard conditions a person can take Amrit by themselves

but with these conditions the household will be filled with disharmony

So husband wife should take Amrit together

If your husband or wife wants to take Amrit

So our advice is you should become a help in this and not be a hurdle

here is some more vichaar on this topic

A life partner is such who stays with you throughout your life

this can only be done if you love and care for your spouse

love is based on sacrifice

it is our duty to sacrifice of give yourself a little bit of hardship for the happiness of your spouse

Your spouse's want to take Amrit is totally justified

and for you to give support in this will be a great sign of love a sacrifice

by doing so your life will be filled with happiness

we can give you full faith that you will be happier than before

if you help your spouse take Amrit

If your spouse has surprised you with the want to take Amrit

then think it over, this isn't a bad surprise

In Kaljug nowadays people give each other very weird surprises

Such as they will say they want to be separated

or that they want a divorce or they are in an affair

or then they surprise you by telling you they have some grave illness

after hearing such things, what must people be going through? We can only wonder

On the other hand your partner has only said they want to become a Gursikh

There is nothing wrong in this

Do tell, with this what sky has fallen? Which earth has been torn apart

nothing bad has happened

So don't panic

and don't make a small thing into a bigger deal than it is

be a partner in such an auspicious moment and fill your house with happiness

Your life partner wants to take Amrit, not like they want to take poison or alcohol

So Guru jee does Hukam

By taking Amrit your life will be fulfilled

So think it over and being wise take Amrit with your spouse

According to Gurbani your lifes goal is to take Amrit

Guru jee says

it is for this reason we take Amrit

So if you take Amrit with your spouse your life's purpose will also be fulfilled

it's true that by taking Amrit there will be some changes in your eating habits

and waking up early you will have to join in praising Akal Purakh

But this isn't as hard as you think it is

There are many people in the world who are living such a Sikhi life and are doing so very happily

It's not like you have to go live in jungles if you take Amrit

or you have to become a recluse

you can live a house holder life

and living all of life's happinesses you can make Akal Purakh happy

Think what the founder of Buddhism , Gautam Siddharth did

One night he left his wife and kids and went to the jungles in search for truth

Some for attainment of the divine become recluse

some peirced their ears and become Jogi

and some religions even tell you to do violence and kill people

Our religion is a religion of peace

After taking Amrit your life will be filled with happiness and peace

Dear Brother, Dear Sister don't be stubborn

be shoulder to shoulder with your spouse and get ready to walk on Guru jee's path

A lot of the time we don't get in Sikhi Saroop because we are scared of what people will say

You must be thinking if I keep my beard and hair

or if I tie a Dastar what will my relatives say, what will my friends say

what will my colleagues say?

If I take Amrit and don't do makeup what will people say?

If I don't do fashions against Sikhi then I will look bad

These kind of questions stop us from taking Amrit

But think, those people who you are worried about what do you even want from those people?

What do those people give you?

Not like they can stop your pension

and you care for their opinion?

do those people ask you before doing anything? NO

Your life partner is the most important person for you

their happiness should be firstmost for you

those people who's opinion you care for aren't going to come of any use to you

so don't care for their opinion

don't ruin your house because of them

it is not wise to ruin your house's happiness over someone else

You are scared that by taking Amrit who knows what will happen

Nothing bad will happen, trust us, you will be very happy

We know many people who first were scared to take Amrit

but afterwords when they did take Amrit for the happiness of their spouse or children

then they can be heard saying

That we wasted so much time not taking Amrit

we wasted our previous life

So don't be scared and take Amrit

You will also be very happy, this is our guarantee

If you don't agree to take Amrit

and because of you, your spouse doesn't get Amrit

then you will see that your house will lose happiness

In whose ever mind the thirst for Amrit has arisen once

that thought can never leave their mind

it could be that for your case or fearing conflict they won't take Amrit

but there will always be a void within them

there will be something missing in your life

So support your spouse and take Amrit

There is no good deed as joining someone with Sikhi and no sin as breaking someone from Sikhi

If your spouse doesn't take Amrit because of you

and because of this cannot meet Akal Purakh

and they die

then you will be without a doubt responsible for this sin

So if your husband or wife wants to take Amrit

then support them rather than becoming a hurdle

If your spouse becomes adamant on taking Amrit

then they won't falter

and if because of this your house gets filled with conflict or divorce

then will this be okay?

Some people are stubborn and others not'

If your spouse is adamant that they want to take Amrit than they will

but if due to this your house breaks up it will be very bad

you should use your wisdom and save your home

and make yourself ready to take Amrit

this is our advice to you

Maybe you aren't convinced but it is our belief

and our experience that by becoming a hurdle in religious work

and by refusing to follow Guru jee

Akal Purakh's rath is invited

regardless of whether something bad happens or not

but one thing is for sure that your mind will be filled with unrest

you wont stay happy

So it is our supplication

don't become a hurdle in your spouse's wish to take Amrit

rather join them in taking Amrit

if your mind is not convinced by hearing these points

It is very important to have Gyan before taking Amrit so start doing Sangat

Listen to Katha and Keertan and read books of Gurmukhs

increase your Sangat of Gursikhs

So by doing this you can make yourself ready

If you still have doubt in your mind

then take our advice and do Siri Japjee Sahib Paath with full concentration

or if you don't know how then do Mool Mantar for 5 to 10 mins

with full concentration pray to Vaheguru jee

that they show you the way

and put you on the right path

If you do this your doubts will be cleared

and Vaheguru jee is inside your heart. Vaheguru jee will show you the way

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What Most People Don't Know About Married At First Sight - Duration: 5:10.

Drop two strangers at the altar on their wedding day, mix in some reality TV magic — and

you've got Married at First Sight.

The show follows the newlyweds throughout the first few months of marriage — all while

they're just getting to know each other.

As the couples are expertly paired up for a reason, the show becomes an electrifying

social experiment.

But will it last?

And is it even real?

Here's what you don't know about Married at First Sight!

Vetting party

Just because Married at First Sight is a reality show, doesn't mean just anyone can be on it.

As show expert, Rachel DeAlto, described to ET Online:

"Each candidate goes through a very thorough background check to determine if they have

significant debts or any sort of criminal record."

And that's not all.

The experts also take into account the moral values and mental state of the participants.

Show counselor, Pastor Calvin Roberson, added,

"We're looking at things like their psychological testing, their core values.

These are legally binding marriages."

But just what kind of person would sign up for this?

Reality bride

As a few contestants described on The View, a bride can have many different reasons for

getting married on the show.

Monet Bell admitted:

"I wanted to get married.

I'm at that place in my life."

And fellow candidate Cortney Carrion, just knew she had to do it:

"Well the opportunity presented itself, and I thought, 'Why not?'

If I left the room and said no, I would always think, 'What if?' for the rest of my life,

and I don't want to have regrets."

First impressions

The first big moment on the show is when the bride and the groom see each other for the

first time.

But it's not quite as romantic as it might seem.

Monet Bell shared her pragmatic take:

"Please don't fall… don't faint, just let me get to the end of the aisle."

But it was bride Jamie Otis who revealed her initial hesitation:

"Everyone's smiling at me, and I just wasn't initially attracted to him, and I didn't know

anything about him other than the way he looked.

He was like rubbing my hands, I just felt so uncomfortable."

Expert advice

The experts are involved not only in pairing partners, but also in counselling couples

during the marriage itself.

But exactly how professional are these "reality experts"?

As Otis described to The Knot,

"Not only did the experts find someone who I could fall in love with, but they helped

guide me along the process."

Her husband, Doug Hehner, agreed, saying,

"For me, it was the experts that sold me on the idea.

I believed in them as professionals, and I trusted that they were taking this experiment

seriously and wanted to find a real scientific match, not just two people that were going

to make good TV."

Hehner said the experts have become almost like family, saying, "Even after the show,

they've all reached out to us and let us know that they hope to always stay in touch.

We have every intention on having them in our lives."

All the feels

Otis and Hehner talked with The Knot about the process of getting to know someone you

might not even be attracted to — and how their attitudes shifted over time.

Otis said,

"On our wedding day, I was certain I made the biggest mistake of my life.

I was trying my best to be pleasant and friendly, meanwhile I was wondering why on earth I ever

thought it'd be a good idea to marry a complete stranger."

Hehner shared similar thoughts on that first day, saying,

"I think there was a lot of doubt in the beginning, and whether or not we were right for each

other."

But then, things began to change.

Hehner continued,

"Over that time, we've both fallen in love with one another, and the thought process

changed from whether or not I could see myself spending the rest of my life with Jamie, to

not being able to imagine spending the rest of my life with anyone other than Jamie."

Total regret

Married life with a stranger, and the pressures of reality TV, create tough moments for the

couples throughout the show.

When season four's Nick Pendergrast yelled at his then-wife Sonia Granados, things got

dark, very fast:

"I don't think she's attractive, I'm not attracted to her, that's me opening up to the fullest

f---ing extent."

He later apologized, telling The Knot, "I could only imagine how [Sonia] must have felt.

The cameras always add to the stress when you're on day six or seven in a row and it's

1 a.m.

But [the cameras] also forced us to face a lot up front and not put it on the back burner."

But fans of the show didn't let Pendergrast off the hook, immediately siding with Granados

via social media.

He told The Knot, "It was a hard week for sure, and I tried to stay away from social

media and focus on other things to distract myself from being sucked into reading comment

after comment."

Big decisions

The big moment arrives on Decision Day, when the couple decides if they want to stay together

or divorce.

So what's going through their minds?

It turns out, a whole lot.

Neil Bowlus opened up to Us Magazine about his choice to divorce, saying,

"I felt I was missing the ability to create a deeper, more intimate relationship…

Nobody is at fault — it's just the way things happened.

We learn, grow and move on."

He continued to reflect on his decision, saying, "After six months of discussing the events

of Married at First Sight with professionals, I am in a comfortable place, and I appreciate

and value our friendship.

If I have learned one thing, it is yes, I will miss some things [from our time together]."

Wanna give it a shot?

Otis has some advice for anyone who wants to go on the show.

She told Upfront New York,

"You REALLY have to know exactly what you want.

You also have to know your own good and bad qualities — especially when talking with

the experts….

Also, you MUST be open."

"...patience is key.

You're not always going to be on the same page, especially for the first 6 months.

Be patient with your spouse."

Good advice, coming from an alum who's still happily hitched!

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REPORT: Trump Dictated Don Jr.'s Excuse For Russian Meeting - Duration: 9:51.

OF COURSE YOU REMEMBER DONALD TRUMP, JR.

MEETING WITH LAWYERS

CONNECTED TO THE RUSSIAN GOVERNMENT, THEY SENT EMAILS

SAYING HEY, THE RUSSIAN GOVERNMENT CAN HELP YOUR FATHER

WITH HIS CAMPAIGN, DONALD TRUMP, JR.

REPLIED "I LOVE IT."

WE

FOUND OUT ALL THAT INFORMATION LATER, BUT IN THE BEGINNING ALL

WE KNEW WAS THERE WAS A MEETING.

AT THAT POINT THE ADMINISTRATION

HAD A DECISION TO MAKE -- DO THEY COME CLEAN ABOUT THE

MEETING, BECAUSE NOT ONLY DID IT INVOLVE THE PRESIDENT'S SON BUT

HIS CAMPAIGN MANAGER AT THE TIME, PAUL MANAFORT, AND JARED

KUSHNER, ONE OF HIS TOP ADVISERS.

THERE THEY ARE MEETING

WITH A FOREIGN GOVERNMENT, TRYING TO GET INFORMATION OUT OF

THEM AGAINST THEIR OPPONENT, THAT'S ILLEGAL IN A COUPLE OF

DIFFERENT WAYS.

SO THE ADVISORS RIGHTLY SAID TO DONALD TRUMP,

SR., THE PRESIDENT, THEY WERE ON AIR FORCE ONE AND THEY SAID WE

SHOULD COME CLEAN WITH THE STORY BECAUSE IT'S LIKELY TO COME OUT

ANYWAY, THE NEW YORK TIMES IS ON TO IT, SEVERAL OTHER

PUBLICATIONS ARE, WE SHOULD LEAK IT TO A FRIENDLY PUBLICATION,

THE EVEN NAMED ONE, CIRCA, AND TRY TO DO DAMAGE CONTROL

AFTERWARDS.

THEY WERE OVERRULED BY THE PRESIDENT.

AND APPARENTLY

HE SAID NO, WE ARE GOING TO TELL THEM THAT THE MEETING WAS NOT

ABOUT THE CAMPAIGN -- WHICH IS NOT TRUE, IT WAS, AND NOW IT HAS

BEEN CONFIRMED THAT IT WAS.

THAT WAS THE STORY THE WASHINGTON

POST BROKE TODAY.

LET ME GIVE YOU THE DETAILS --

>>NOW, TRUMP

AT THAT POINT KNOWS THAT WAS NOT THE MAIN POINT OF

THE MEETING.

THE MAIN POINT OF THE MEETING, AS DONALD TRUMP,

JR.

LATER ADMITTED, WAS TO ACTUALLY GET CAMPAIGN DIRT ON

HILLARY CLINTON.

THAT IS LIE NUMBER ONE.

LET'S MOVE ON TO

LIE NUMBER TWO --

>>THE WASHINGTON POST EXPLAINS WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED OF COURSE

--

>>SO WHY IS THIS SO IMPORTANT?

WELL, LET'S GET INTO THAT --

>>NOW, IF YOU ARE A SAVVY

COMMANDER-IN-CHIEF -- AND BY THE

WAY, ANYONE WHO HAS MANAGED ANYTHING BEFORE, LET ALONE

SOMETHING OF THIS MAGNITUDE -- EVEN IF YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG,

AND IT APPEARS THEY CERTAINLY DID SOME THING WRONG, YOU WOULD

WANT YOUR HANDS CLEAN.

YOU WOULD ASSIGN THAT TO SOMEONE ELSE.

BUT

TRUMP IS NOT BRIGHT ENOUGH, AND HIS ADVISERS ARE TELLING HIM,

MISSED HER PRESIDENT, DON'T GET INVOLVED.

YOU ALREADY SAID YOU

FIRED COMEY OVER THE RUSSIA INVESTIGATION, THAT'S ALREADY AN

OBSTRUCTION OF JUSTICE POSSIBILITY RIGHT THERE -- HE'S

LIKE, I GOT THIS.

LET'S BE SURE WE SAY IT WASN'T ABOUT THE

CAMPAIGN.

BUT IT WAS, WE KNOW IT!

THERE ARE TWO THINGS HERE,

ONE IS THAT HE'S A PATHOLOGICAL LIAR, HE CAN'T HELP HIMSELF.

WHY

DON'T WE JUST LIE?

IT'S OKAY.

DONALD, YOU AREN'T A REALITY

SHOW HOST ANYMORE.

BACK THEN PEOPLE WERE INVESTIGATING YOU,

YOU COULD CLAIM YOU WERE WORTH $10 BILLION AND NO ONE WOULD

CLAIM OTHERWISE.

NOW, PEOPLE FIND OUT WHEN YOU LIE.

BUT HE

STILL DOESN'T GET IT. AND PEOPLE ARE STILL CONFUSED, WHY IS HE

NEEDLESSLY GETTING INVOLVED?

BECAUSE HE KNOW SOMETHING YOU

DON'T KNOW, WHICH IS THAT HE DID IT, HE DOES HAVE A DEAL WITH THE

RUSSIANS.

WHY DO YOU THINK HE'S DOING ALL OF THIS TO COVER IT

UP?

AND FIRING COMEY, AND I WANTS TO FIRE SESSIONS AND

MUELLER AND IS PERSONALLY WRITING RESPONSES TO THE PAPERS

-- THEY ARE CONSTANTLY CONFUSED, LIKE, I WONDER WHY HE'S DOING

THAT.

HE KNOWS SOMETHING YOU DON'T KNOW, HE DOES HAVE A DEAL

WITH THE RUSSIANS.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED.

BUT TO BE FAIR THEY

ARE SEEING IF HE HAD DIRECT INVOLVEMENT IN THIS, LET'S SEE

IF HE DID IN

THIS CASE --

>>THIS IS NOT CONJECTURE ON OUR PART, THESE ARE PEOPLE WHO WERE

ON THE PLANE, WHO WERE ADVISERS WHO SAW IT HAPPENING AND WHO

SAID YES, THE PRESIDENT WAS DICTATING THE RESPONSE TO THE

NEW YORK TIMES, WHICH WE NOW KNOW FOR A FACT IS FILLED WITH

LIES.

SOME PEOPLE ARE SAYING, WELL, THAT'S OKAY, THE PRESIDENT

CAN LIE TO THE PRESS.

THAT'S TRUE, THAT'S NOT ILLEGAL TO LIE

TO THE PRESS.

I DON'T THINK IT'S A GOOD IDEA, BUT IT'S NOT

ILLEGAL.

BUT IF YOU KNOW THERE IS AN ACTIVE INVESTIGATION, IT

COULD EASILY BE WITNESS TAMPERING.

IF DONALD TRUMP, JR.

TOOK A MEETING WITH THE RUSSIANS AND LIED ABOUT IT AND THEY ARE

INVESTIGATING A CONNECTION, AS MUELLER IS NOW, BETWEEN RUSSIA

AND THE TRUMP CAMPAIGN, IS DONALD TRUMP, JR.

A POTENTIAL

WITNESS?

ALMOST 100% CERTAINLY.

THAT COULD EASILY BE WITNESS

TAMPERING, AND IT SHOWS EVIDENCE OF A CONSCIOUSNESS OF GUILT.

BECAUSE NOT ONLY ARE YOU MESSING WITH WHAT A WITNESS IS SAYING IN

PUBLIC, AND THEN POTENTIALLY TO INVESTIGATORS, BUT YOU KNOW

EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE DOING.

YOU ARE DICTATING THE NOTE.

IF

ANYONE DIDN'T DO IT, THEY WOULD NOT GET THIS INVOLVED.

THAT'S

UNBELIEVABLE.

AND NUMBER TWO, EVEN IF YOU ARE TRYING TO COVER

IT UP, IF YOU HAD ANY INTELLIGENCE AT ALL THIS IS NOT

HOW YOU WOULD DO IT.

YOU WOULD GO ABOUT IT IN A MUCH MORE SAVVY

WAY.

WHAT DID I TELL YOU FROM DAY ONE?

HE IS NOT THAT BRIGHT.

BECAUSE OF ALL THE CONNECTIONS WE ALREADY KNOW THAT OUR PUBLIC,

IT'S LIKELY HE HAD A DEAL WITH THE RUSSIANS.

AND PART TWO IS

EQUALLY IMPORTANT, I'VE BEEN SAYING FROM DAY ONE THAT HE'S

TOO STUPID TO COVER IT UP.

HE'S DOING THE POTENTIAL CRIMES OUT

IN THE OPEN WHERE WE CAN ALL SEE HIM.

IN SOME WAYS MUELLER'S

INVESTIGATION IS DIFFICULT BECAUSE YOU ARE INVESTIGATING

THE PRESIDENT, YOU HAVE TO BE 100% SURE AND HAVE THE BEST

EVIDENCE IN THE WORLD.

THIS IS NOT A NORMAL PERSON,

CIRCUMSTANTIAL EVIDENCE ALTHOUGH IT IS PLENTIFUL BE ENOUGH TO

CHARGE A SITTING PRESIDENT.

BUT GOD, THE PRESIDENT IS MAKING IT

EASY FOR HIM.

MAYBE NOT ON THE CORE CHARGE, BUT NOW ON

OBSTRUCTION OF JUSTICE, WITNESS TAMPERING, IT'S A LAYUP.

WE GO

TO THE WHITE HOUSE ADVISOR, WHO IS ONE OF THE SOURCES HERE, THEY

CONTINUE TO BE PERPLEXED ABOUT WHAT TRUMP DID THERE --

>>YEAH, THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT THEY COULD SAY, AND LIKELY WILL SAY,

BECAUSE THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED, EVEN ACCORDING TO YOU,

THE PERSON WHO IS SELLING THIS TO THE WASHINGTON POST.

BUT EVEN

THOSE GUYS, THEY STILL DON'T GET IT.

THEY ARE LIKE, IT'S SO

UNNECESSARY, WHY IS HE DOING THIS COVER-UP?

HMM, WHY IS HE

DOING A COVER-UP?

THAT'S A COMPLICATED QUESTION.

ONE LAST

ONE, THIS IS A LAWYER WHO WORKED IN PREVIOUS ADMINISTRATIONS, HE

SAID --

>>WELL, HOLD ON ONE SECOND, LET ME GET YOU THE GUY'S -- YEAH,

ZEIDENBERG WAS A SPECIAL PROSECUTOR UNDER GEORGE W. BUSH.

BUT LIKE THE OTHER REPUBLICANS, HE KEEPS WONDERING WHY DON'T

THEY UNDERSTAND THIS IS A CRIMINAL INVESTIGATION?

NO, YOU

DON'T UNDERSTAND -- TRUMP KNOWS THIS IS A CRIMINAL

INVESTIGATION, AND HE KNOWS THAT UNLESS HE OBSTRUCTS IT IN EVERY

WAY POSSIBLE THEY WILL FIND OUT WHAT HE ACTUALLY DID, WHICH IS

POTENTIALLY WAY WORSE THAN WHAT WE ALREADY KNOW ABOUT

OBSTRUCTION OF JUSTICE OR WITNESS TAMPERING.

HE IS LIKE,

WITNESS TAMPERING?

WITH UNTIL THEY FIND OUT WHAT WE ARE

COVERING UP.

OFTENTIMES PEOPLE SAY THE COVER-UP IS WORSE THAN

THE CRIME, MY GUESS IS THAT GIVEN HOW FURIOUSLY HE'S TRYING

TO COVER IT UP AND GIVEN HIS BUSINESS DEALINGS IN THE PAST,

NO.

THE COVER-UP IS TERRIBLE, AND NOW OUT IN THE OPEN, BUT

WHAT THEY ARE COVERING UP IS LIKELY TO BE FAR, FAR WORSE.

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Don't Cower. Preach the Good News. - Duration: 2:21.

"Go on up to a high mountain, O Zion, herald of good news."

Do you know what heralds do?

They herald.

It's a trick question.

Heralds herald.

And you get up there and you herald good news.

"Lift up your voice with strength, O Jerusalem, herald of good news; lift it up, fear not;

say to the cities of Judah, 'Behold your God!

Behold, the Lord God comes with might, and his arm rules for him; behold, his reward

is with him, and his recompense before him.

He will tend his flock like a shepherd; he will gather the lambs in his arms; he will

carry them in his bosom, and gently lead those that are with young.'"

And so this is what our task is: we need to get ourselves up on a high mountain, and we

need to boldly herald the good news.

We don't simply say 'Behold your God,' but now we can say 'Behold the Lamb of God,' the

Lamb who is slain.'

This is the good news.

This is the gospel.

Someone took the time to preach that to us and someone recognized their obligation and

recognized the power that is in that gospel.

They preached the good news to us, and we heard it, and the Spirit opened our blind

eyes, and we became God's child.

Now it is our task not to cower, not to fear, not to think maybe that person—so hostile—maybe

they're just beyond the pale of the gospel.

No, put your confidence in the gospel and preach the good news.

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Don't fuck up the party!! - Duration: 3:43.

No matter my low neckline

No matter if I'm high

You're not realizing

I'm not asking for it

So step aside

The dance floor is waiting for me

Go your way

And don't fuck up the party

No, don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up the party, no!

No, don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up the party!

Thanks a lot, darling

It's a nice detail

But even if you give me a line or a shot it is not exchangeable

What made you think...

... that something else was going to happen?

No, don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up the party!

No, don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up the party!

Look at me, I'm more than a piece of meat and skin

I'm not a decoration

More than just a body

Leave me alone, I just wanna work

Bills won't pay themselves

No, don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up the party!

No, don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up the party!

What an annoying guy

Really, I'm getting tired

Your brain isn't working properly

Look around

Everyone is dancing

I'm your friend

But what's happening to you?

No, don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up, no!

Don't fuck up the party!

Don't fuck up! Don't fuck up!

Don't fuck up! Don't fuck up!

Don't fuck up! Don't fuck up!

Don't fuck up! Don't fuck up!

I won't fuck it up!

I won't fuck it up!

I won't fuck it up!

I won't fuck it up!

Don't fuck up the party! Respect and enjoy yourself

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BREAKING Senate Republicans are turning their backs on Trump: 'We don't work for the president. - Duration: 7:02.

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"I Don't Care, She Dying" Comedian On Trans Women - Duration: 11:01.

THE BREAKFAST CLUB, A

RADIO SHOW IN NEW YORK, IS KNOWN FOR BEING PROVOCATIVE AND EDGY.

RECENTLY THE SHOW GOT A LOT OF CRITICISM AFTER THEY INVITED

LIL DUVOL ONTO THEIR PROGRAM.

HE IS A COMEDIAN.

THEY HAD A

CONVERSATION ABOUT TRUMP'S TRANSGENDER BAN IN THE MILITARY.

THAT TOPIC SNOWBALLED INTO SOMETHING THAT WAS IRRESPONSIBLE

AND OFFENSIVE TO SAY THE LEAST.

LIL DUVOL WAS ASKED WHAT HE

THOUGHT AND HE DIDN'T SEEM TO CARE MUCH.

IT WAS A LENGTHY

CONVERSATION, I AM PICKING THE MOST RELEVANT PARTS.

YOU SHOULD

LISTEN TO THE WHOLE THING.

HE CONTINUES TO SAY ñ SO HE WAS

RESPONDING TO BEING LIED TO BY A TRANSGENDER INDIVIDUAL AND SAYS

HE WOULD WANT TO KILL THAT PERSON.

SO ESSENTIALLY HE IS

SAYING IT IS UNLIKELY THIS WILL EVER HAPPEN, SO DON'T WORRY.

BUT

HE DID GET PUSHBACK FROM THE HOST OF THE SHOW.

THEY SAID YOU

CAN'T KILL HER, THAT IS A HATE CRIME.

BUT I DO WANT TO NOTE THAT EVERYONE WAS LAUGHING AND

MAKING LIGHT OF THESE COMMENTS.

>> I GET THIS IS A COMMON THING THAT USED TO HAPPEN ALL THE

TIME.

THAT IS EXACTLY WHY TRANSGENDER INDIVIDUALS ARE

ATTACKED ROUTINELY AND MURDERED.

IT'S NOT FUNNY.

>>LAST YEAR 22 TRANSGENDER INDIVIDUALS WERE MURDERED.

THIS

YEAR, ACCORDING TO THE HUMAN RIGHTS CAMPAIGN THERE HAVE BEEN

AT LEAST 15 TRANSGENDERED INDIVIDUALS THAT HAVE BEEN

MURDERED.

THE DEATH IS ONE THING, BUT THERE IS ALSO EXTREME

ABUSE AND VIOLENCE TOWARD THEM.

I FEEL LIKE WE HAVE TO BE

CAREFUL WITH THIS KIND OF CONVERSATION AND RHETORIC

BECAUSE THIS IS A COMMUNITY THAT HAS BEEN TARGETED, ABUSED,

TARGETED FOR MURDER.

SAYING SHE IS DYING IS JUST NOT THE RIGHT

WAY TO RESPOND.

>>IN THE OLD DAYS IT WOULD'VE BEEN CONSIDERED A TOTALLY NORMAL

THING TO FREAK OUT IF YOU ACCIDENTALLY HOOKED UP WITH

SOMEONE WHO WAS TRANSGENDER.

IT WOULD NOT OF BEEN NORMAL TO

MURDER THEM.

THESE KIND OF COMMENTS WOULD'VE SEEMED

COMMONPLACE.

I KNOW SOME PERCENTAGE OF THE POPULATION

STILL BELIEVES THAT, AND PEOPLE LAUGH.

BUT THAT IS EXACTLY THE

MINDSET THAT DID ACTUALLY LEAD TO THEM GETTING MURDERED.

THAT

USED TO HAPPEN IN BIGGER NUMBERS, BUT IT'S NOT LIKE IT IS

IN THE PAST.

IT STILL HAPPENS TODAY.

IF HE MADE A REALLY

STUPID JOKE AND TODAY WAS LIKE, I DIDN'T MEAN THAT, THAT WAS

STUPID, THEN YOU SAY ONE THING.

BUT DID HE RETRACT IT?

>>NO.

HE DID DOUBLE DOWN ON WHAT HE SAID DURING AN INTERVIEW

WITH TMZ.

I WANT TO SHOW YOU WHAT HE FEELS IS HIS JUSTIFICATION.

LET'S TAKE A LOOK.

>> I'M TRYING TO FIGURE OUT FOR YOU TO FIGURE OUT WHAT I SAID

WHAT I SAID.

WHY DID I SAY THAT?

I SAID THAT BECAUSE ñ WHEN YOU

TAKE AWAY SOME OF THE POWER OF CHOICE IT SHOULD BE CRIMINAL.

AND YOU DON'T KNOW WHETHER TO DO TO SOMEBODY IT'S LIKE A LOGICAL.

I DON'T GOT NO PROBLEM WITH TRANSGENDER.

I DON'T GOT NO

PROBLEM WITH GAY PEOPLE.

I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH PEOPLE TRYING TO

TAKE SOMETHING FOR ME.

I'M IN MY OWN MIND.

I SAY WHAT I FEEL.

I

SAY WHAT IS ON MY MIND AND HOW THEY TAKE IT BECAUSE IF THEY

TAKE IT WHERE NOTHING IS GOING ON, THAT IS ON THEM.

THIS IS

ABOUT ONE SITUATION, WHICH THE SITUATION WAS WHAT WOULD I DO IF

I FOUND OUT SOMEBODY WAS A MAN, THAT I THOUGHT WAS A WOMAN AND

DIDN'T TELL ME.

THAT IS ALL THAT IS.

ALL THAT OTHER STUFF THEY

PUT ON THIS THAT IS ON THEIR OWN.

>>

I'M TRYING TO HELP YOU SEE THAT NO ONE IN THE SOCIETY IS GOING

TO TOLERATE YOU SAYING THAT YOU WOULD RETALIATE WITH MURDER.

>> THAT IS PSYCHOLOGICAL DAMAGE.

I WENT CRAZY RIGHT THERE BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT IT MADE ME DO.

>> LOOK, FOR SOME PEOPLE WHO READ ABOUT THIS YOU PROBABLY

THINK YEAH, ISN'T IT TERRIBLE IF SOMEONE LIES TO YOU.

I WOULDN'T

WANT TO BE LIED TO.

BUT UNDERSTAND WHY MEMBERS OF THE

TRANSGENDER COMMUNITY WOULD WITHHOLD THAT INFORMATION UNTIL

THEY FELT COMFORTABLE DISCLOSING IT.

IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE MET

WITH VIOLENCE.

IT'S BECAUSE ONCE THEY OPEN UP ABOUT THEIR

IDENTITY THEY ARE MET WITH BRUTAL VIOLENCE, SOMETIMES

MURDER.

THEY FEEL UNSAFE.

IT'S NOT LIKE THEY ARE DOING IT TO

MISLEAD YOU OR BE SHADY OR PSYCHOLOGICALLY MESS YOU UP.

I THINK WE HAVE TO HAVE A CONVERSATION ABOUT CREATING

AN ENVIRONMENT WHERE PEOPLE FEEL SAFE COMING OUT AND

DISCLOSING WHO THEY ARE.

>>LET'S BE CLEAR, THIS IS NOT AN EPIDEMIC OF TRANSGENDER PEOPLE

LYING.

I INTERVIEWED A TRANSGENDER WOMAN IN MIAMI ABOUT

20 YEARS AGO.

THING THEY ALL SAID WAS BEFORE WE HOOK UP WITH

ANYONE WE MAKE VERY CLEAR WHO WE ARE BECAUSE THEY KNOW EXACTLY

WHAT THE DANGERS ARE AND THEY KNOW THERE ARE PEOPLE LIKE THIS

OUT THERE.

AND A LOT OF THEM ARE NOT JOKING.

THAT IS WHY THOSE

TRANSGENDER WOMEN END UP DYING AT THE HANDS OF PEOPLE LIKE

THIS.

HIM CALLING THEM TRANNY'S IS CONSIDERED OFFENSIVE.

I KNOW

A LOT OF RIGHT-WINGERS WILL SAY NO BIG DEAL, HE'S JOKING.

THAT

IS ONE CATEGORY.

THESE ISSUES SOMETIMES WE ARE NEW AND

GRAPPLING WITH THEM.

WE GOT CRITICIZED FOR A RECENT GAME OF

THRONES REVIEW WE DID BECAUSE WE WERE CURIOUS ABOUT A CHARACTER

AMONG THE UNSULLIED.

YOU COULD SAY WE WERE INSENSITIVE ABOUT

THAT AND MAYBE THAT IS FAIR, BUT THIS IS A TOTALLY DIFFERENT

CATEGORY.

THIS IS A GUY DOUBLING DOWN SAYING IN MY OPINION YOU

DID PSYCHOLOGICAL DAMAGE TO ME, I GET TO EXECUTE YOU.

THAT IS A

VERY DANGEROUS MINDSET AND I HOPE THAT IS SOMETHING WE CAN

ALL AGREE ON REALLY EASILY.

THAT WAS A PART THAT I THINK GOT THE

CRITICISM AND IS JUSTIFIED.

THERE IS ANOTHER PART I DON'T

THINK IS GETTING TALKED ABOUT ENOUGH.

JANET MOCK IS AN AMAZING

WOMAN, AN OUTSPOKEN LEADER IN THE TRANSGENDER COMMUNITY.

SHE

HAD JUST BEEN ON THE BREAKFAST CLUB.

AT ONE POINT IN THE

CONVERSATION WHEN THE HOST PICKED UP HER BOOK, AND

BASICALLY MADE A POINT OF SAYING SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL.

AND THEN

DUVAL JUMPS IN AND TALKS ABOUT ñ CALLS HER A MAN.

IT'S JUST

UNNECESSARY, IT CAME ACROSS AS MALICIOUS AND UNINFORMED

GRATUITOUS.

I DON'T KNOW WHY THEY HAD TO THROW HER IN THERE

LIKE THAT.

SHE HAD A RESPONSE AND WROTE A GREAT PIECE IN

RESPONSE TO IT.

I JUST WANT US TO BE NICE TO EACH OTHER.

>>CAN WE AT LEAST BE DECENT?

THE DEGREE TO WHICH HE IS ATTACKING

TRANSGENDER PEOPLE INDICATES SOME SORT OF INSECURITY.

THE GUY

IS CERTAINLY HAS ISSUES WITH HIS SEXUALITY WHERE HE IS TOUCHY

ABOUT THIS SUBJECT.

IT IS ONE THING TO SAY THAT IS TERRIBLE,

IT'S ANOTHER THING TO SAY THAT AS A MAN AND OH MY GOD THAT

WOULD CAUSE ME PSYCHOLOGICAL DAMAGE SO I WOULD MURDER THEM.

THERE IS SOMETHING GOING ON THERE.

>>YEAH, IT IS STRANGE.

>> TRANSGENDER PEOPLE, IF THE RIGHT WING THINKS THEY ARE TOO

SENSITIVE ON THESE ISSUES, THEY HAD TO GO THROUGH A LOT.

I'M

TRYING TO GET EVERYONE TO SEE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE MIGHT FEEL

THAT IT TAKES TREMENDOUS COURAGE TO CHANGE YOUR SEX.

YOU DON'T JUST WAKE UP ONE MORNING AND DECIDE TO BE

GENDER REASSIGNMENT SURGERY.

>>PUT YOURSELF IN A SITUATION WHERE YOU ARE MORE LIKELY TO BE

MET WITH VIOLENCE, DISCRIMINATION, MURDER, LOWER

JOB PROSPECTS.

THINK ABOUT ALL THE TERRIBLE THINGS THAT THIS

COMMUNITY HAS TO GO THROUGH BECAUSE OF THEIR IDENTITY?

THEY

USE THAT SAME ARGUMENT WHEN IT CAME TO GAYS, AND NOW IT'S GAY

PEOPLE ARE GOOD FOR BUSINESS THEY ARE IN FAVOR.

>> YOU MIGHT BE SENSITIVE TO IT AS WELL IF YOU SUFFERED NONSTOP

ATTACKS ON YOUR CORE IDENTITY, PEOPLE DIDN'T BELIEVE YOU, MOCK

YOU, AND THREATENED TO KILL YOU.

THOSE WOULD BE A VERY GOOD

REASONS TO BE SENSITIVE ON THIS ISSUE.

THIS ONE IS NOT REMOTELY

CLOSE.

WHAT HE SAID WAS ATROCIOUS.

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'Don't stab us in the back' China blasts US as world on verge of NUCLEAR WAR - Duration: 2:31.

'Don't stab us in the back' China blasts US as world on verge of NUCLEAR WAR

The Asian powerhouse's state media warned the US not to "stab China in the back" after Trump lashed out against Beijing on Twitter, last week.

In a brace of tweets the Donald said he was "disappointed" with Beijing and said the country did "nothing" to reign in Pyongyang. He said: "I am very disappointed in China.

CLASH: Trump has butted heads with Chinese President Xi Jinping over North Korea. "Our foolish past leaders have allowed them to make hundreds of billions of dollars a year in trade, yet they do nothing for us with North Korea, just talk.

"China could easily solve this problem." The US supremo has accused China of doing little to convince Kim Jong-un to give up his nuclear weapons programme, despite its position as the Hermit Kingdom's only major ally.

GETTY DANGEROUS: Tubster Kim has threatened wipe out several US cities. Donald Trump But Beijing's United Nations ambassador said the US is responsible for keeping "things moving in the right direction".

During a news conference, Liu Jieyi said: "No matter how capable China is, China's efforts will not yield practical results because it depends on the two principal parties.

"The United States and North Korea hold the primary responsibility to keep things moving, to start moving in the right direction, not China.".

FURIOUS: The Donald slammed China in a brace of tweets. Tensions between Washington and Pyongyang reached an all-time high after Kim fired an ICBM, which is capable of striking the American heartland when fully operational.

It is the second successful launch carried out by the rogue communist state in just over one month – provoking the US to fly bombers over the Korean Peninsula in a warning to the despot nation.

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