In any type of conversation, in English and in your own language, you always need
to ask questions! if you don't ask questions this is what happens in a
conversation 99% of the time –
let's fix that! the first
type of questions you need to ask are for comprehension. things you didn't
understand. things you need to clarify! the other type is to react. these are
questions to continue the conversation. to build on it. to get to know someone or
something better, but before we look at either of these, you need to remember
it's always okay to ask a question! if you don't understand, or if you want to
know more, if you want to be in control, ask! ask a question and be the person who
decides how slow or how fast a conversation goes. someone is always in
control of a conversation, I want you to be that person! for your English is made
possible thanks to the coolest motherfackars! after you become a patron
you will also beginning this video published later today, just showing some
of my messy brainstorming, creating ideas and talking about that process! alright
and now before we really continue, put your hand up and repeat after me: I swear
that if I don't understand what people are saying or talking about, I will ask! I
will do my best to insert myself into any conversation. I swear to take risks
and chances when speaking and communicating in English, because not
doing so will result in failure! all right!
you swore the oath. we're ready to begin, let's do it! let's start with
comprehension questions, and the two easiest ways to ask them. first, switch or
invert the subject and auxiliary verb. here is the subject in these sentences,
and here is the auxiliary verb. it is raining. they can read Italian. she was
living abroad. you have been studying English. we will arrive late. to turn them
into questions, we invert the subject and the auxiliary verb. to invert, means we
change, we change the order. so it becomes, is it
raining? can they read Italian? was she living abroad? have you been studying
English? will we arrive late? but what if the sentence has no auxiliary verb? it's
simple, we add do for the present and did for the past. and we use the infinitive
of the main verb, that means we don't conjugate or change it after do and did.
you speak Hindi becomes do you speak Hindi? you studied business becomes did
you study business? they live in Basra becomes do they live
in Basra? she lived in Rio becomes did she live in
Rio? he has a brother becomes does he have a brother? to ask more specific
questions, we put super useful question words at the front. these question words
are: who, what, where, when, why, and how. let me give you some examples of when we can
use these question words for comprehension. "oh yeah he arrived by
?d/d/D?D?D?" "HOW did he arrive?" "oh I just spoke with Sh?D?D?D?"
"WHO did you just speak with?" "Oh him, he's from SH??D?D?D" "WHERE is he from?"
"hey! I wanted to tell you about SHD?D??D?" "WHAT did you say?"
"Yeah I'll be home at 7!??!?!" "WHEN will you be home?" "He didn't want to come
because of A!?!?!??!" "WHY didn't he want to come?" "oh, he did it by going BL!?!?" "HOW
did he do it?" alright so that's how we ask questions when we don't understand.
to get clarity, for comprehension. now let's look at how to ask questions to
continue, to make conversation. first of all, you need to do this– you need to be
inquisitive, you need to ask questions and be curious. that means asking a lot
of questions and you can do this very easily with the question words we just
learned, who what where when why how, these are ideal to make conversation
with people you just met, don't know very well, or don't know at all. so after basic
introductions, you know, like giving your name,
what you do, why you're there, where you're from, that kind of stuff – we can
immediately start to ask questions! but only if you actively listen, if you are
actually listening to what the other person is saying can we use this method!
so make sure that you are always listening, always paying attention and
asking questions if you don't understand! otherwise, we can't make conversation! let
me give you an example, "hi I'm Kallan. I'm from the US and I'm visiting
Ethiopia for two weeks" here, if you are actively listening to me,
you already have a lot of questions you can ask me. for example, WHERE are you
from in the US? WHY are you visiting Ethiopia?
Do you like Ethiopia? DO you speak Amharic? HAVE YOU traveled anywhere else
before? all I did was introduce myself, one quick sentence, and you already have
so many questions you can ask me! and if you didn't understand my introduction,
then we have to use those comprehension questions. and now every time a person
responds to you, you can continue to ask more questions. or give your own
information! for example, in the same situation that I introduced myself, you
can say "oh I haven't visited the US yet!" or "I have visited the US". or you can give
advice, "If you are in Addis Ababa, you should visit this great Sudanese
restaurant", "my favorite thing to do in Ethiopia is..." blah blah blah! there are
always so many great opportunities for you to speak if you're paying attention,
ask if you didn't understand, or give your own information. and if the person
you're talking to is also good at making conversation, they will ask questions or
make comments about what you are saying! but if they're not good at making
conversation, then continue to introduce new topics and keep on asking questions
about them! try using topics that you're interested in or that you think the
other person might be interested in. here there are so many topics that you can
use! Weather: WHAT do you like to do in the summer, the fall or the winter? Sports:
DO you play any sports? DO you watch any sports? Movies: HAVE YOU seen any good
movies lately? and if none of these work, if you can't find any good topics,
ask one of these, "WHAT are you interested in?" or "WHAT type of work do you do?"
everyone must have at least one interest, and everyone must be doing some type of
work in their life! so after they respond to one of those questions, you can
continue to ask or introduce your own interests or your own work. some people
are just terrible at making conversation. so if you have tried every
technique that we have talked about so far, make an excuse to leave! say you need
to use the bathroom, pretend you need to make a phone call, do
something to end the conversation and give you an opportunity to talk to other
people! don't blame it on you or your English skills. even in our own languages,
a lot of people are just bad at making conversation!
so say, "nice meeting you, but..." and then give your excuse. or say, "oh just one
second, I need to..." and then do what you need to do. you just learned a lot of
great conversation stuff. to make sure that you don't forget or that you're
using it properly, write your examples in the comments under this video. even
better practice, ask these questions out loud! that is the best way to improve
your English conversational skills by yourself. so come on, you can do it! get
started!
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VEGAN EGGNOG RECIPE & HOW TO MAKE YOUR HOUSE SMELL LIKE CHRISTMAS | VLOGMAS 2017 | - Duration: 4:45.
Hey guys, welcome back to my channel.
In today's video I am going to show you how to make your christmas awesome.
Happy December.
I am so excited as it's finally December and it is basically my favorite time of the year,
I always get so excited, and os enthusiastic about everything.
So in today's video, I have decided to show you how to make your home a better place for
christmas.
I will show you 2 things in this video.
The first one is a vegan eggnog recipe and the second thing that I will show you in this
video is a potpourri and this is really how to make your house smell like christmas.
I hope you gyus are excited because I am.
Let's get right into it.
So I have decided to make an eggnog because I feel that when Christmas comes you always
have to drink something like really christmassy, really cosy and like reuniting people together,
an eggnog is more than practical.
However, as I am now a vegetarian and a dairy free person I have decided to try a vegan
version of the recipe.
So for this veg nog, you're going to need 1L of almond milk, I have choosen almond milk
as it is really tasty and really thick, which is really good to get like texturei n your
vegnogg and you will also need one can of coconut milk that you will put ahead in the
fridge, so that the milk separates from the coconut water and you will only need to use
the coconut cream that's on the top to make your vegnogg and it will actually make it
creamier and it will not taste like coconut milk.
It just tastes really good and do not throw the coconut water, jsut use it to cook or
whatever you want.
And finally, to make it even more christmassy we're gonna use some cinnamon: so I have one
stick of fresh cinnamon that is going to simmer into my milk but of course you can use some
powdered cinnamon.
There's no problem with that.
And this is only optional, but like it's included in the original recipe and it's of course
for grown ups: you can add a splash of rum in your vegnogg before serving it.
And you can also drink it hot or cold, just as you like.
And let's get right into it!
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How To Make Colored Pasta Dough | Vegan Pasta Dough | Eggless - Duration: 9:06.
Parsley pasta dough : handful of fresh parsley leaves, 5 tablespoons water, 2 tablespoons vegetable oil, 125g (1 cup) flour, a pinch of salt.
Blend parsley, water and oil until smooth
Strain the parsley juice
If you want to use all the juice without straining, add more flour to adjust the dough
Pour parsley juice into the flour+salt
Stir until combined
Knead until smooth. Add water if too dry, add flour if too moist. The dough should be stiff.
Form a ball and rest for 30 minutes in plastic wrap
Turmeric dough : 1 tablespoon turmeric powder, 2 tablespoons vegetable oil, 5 tablespoons water, 125g (1 cup) flour, a pinch of salt.
Turmeric powder, oil and water in a bowl, mix well.
Pour turmeric mixture into flour+salt, stir.
Knead until smooth. Add flour if too moist, add water if too dry. The dough should be stiff.
Form a ball, rest for 30 minutes in plastic wrap
Red beet dough : 1 small or 1/2 large fresh red beet, cubes. 2 tablespoons oil, 5 tablespoons water, 125 grams (1 cup) flour, a pinch of salt.
Blend red beet, water and oil until smooth
Strain red beet juice, use the juice only.
If you want to use all the juice without straining, add more flour to adjust the dough
Pour red beet juice into flour
Stir
Add flour if too moist, add water if too dry. The dough should be stiff.
Knead until smooth
Form a ball and rest for 30 minutes in plastic wrap
Tomato paste dough : 2 tablespoons vegetable oil, 2 tablespoons tomato paste, 4 tablespoons water, a pinch of salt, 125 grams (1cup) flour.
Mix oil, tomato paste, water and salt in a bowl.
Stir
Pour tomato mixture into flour. Stir
Add flour if too moist, add water if too dry. the dough should be stiff.
Knead until smooth
Form a ball and rest for 30 minutes in plastic wrap
Vegan colored pasta dough (without egg) can be store in refrigerator for 1 - 2 days
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[ENG CC] [RECIPE] 🐚 how to make Spicy Sea Snail Salad 이제이레시피/EJ recipe - Duration: 4:56.
First, separate the sea snails from the soup.
You should put the dried squid in the soup and make it tender.
Chop the carrot and cucumber.
I removed the cucumber seeds because they contain a lot of water and their texture is not great.
Cut the spring onions and julienne it.
Cut the pepper too.
Cut the big sea snails.
Mix all the seasoning ingredients except pepper powder in a big bowl.
When all the ingredients got mixed, add dried squid first and mix them together.
Add sea snails and vegetables and mix them.
Add 1~2 TS of pepper powder at the end.
Add sesame seeds and sesame oil and mix.
Cook the plain noodles.
When the water starts to boil, add cold water about 2 times and boil them again.
Rinse the noodles until all the starches are gone.
Put sea snails and noodles in a same dish.
Spicy sea snail salad is great as a side dish and snack!
You can also enjoy the sauce with the noodles~
Conches or cockles are also great substitutes for sea snails! You can use other kinds of seafood.
This spicy sea snail salad with plain noodles goes well with soju!
I'll see you in my next video! Bye!
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How To Hide A Lapel Mic To Make It Look Professional & Still Sound Great! Production Tips! - Duration: 1:52.
Taylor here with Financial Potion where video is your Financial Potion.
Even if you're just using your phone to record videos, you really should still use
a lapel mic in order to capture higher quality audio.
Now you also want this mic to look attractive, so rather than leaving it in front of your
shirt, you should weave the wire into your shirt and clip at the top.
Or if you have a collar shirt, come up the back, work around the collar and clip on the
collar.
Sometimes you have to use tape to hold the wire on your back.
This is where the buddy system can come handy.
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How to Make Organizer for Colored Pencils || DIY || Una Idea Más - Duration: 10:03.
Holas come hello go ... welcome to my channel
Today I am going to show you how to make a cardboard box to store our crayons ... I have
very much but very much
colored pencils and although they do not believe it in the box they saw, at the beginning, they are not all my colored pencils, I have
very much, I love to draw, I love it but I love it. I do not know if they have seen
Some of the videos that I upload to the channel? later I'm going to start climbing more, because I really love drawing
remember that if you want me to draw some they can leave me in the comments
remember that if you want me to draw some they can leave me in the comments
save it and make it look good, so, I had a super cardboard box
so put something together and the truth remained
much better than I expected but well let's put a little aside so many little words and let's see how it is done
We are going to use the cutting board, the ruler and the cutter to cut all the pieces of cardboard in the box
description have a link to download all the measurements
To make the lateral drawers we will need the following pieces
We will assemble the drawers exactly as shown in the video
With paper tape we will tighten the edges
There has to be one thing left, that little face I made is to be able to open and close the drawer easier
We will perform all the same with the second drawer.
To assemble the pencil drawers we will need the following pieces
Follow the steps that you see in the video for your armed
As with the other drawer we will make the edges with paper tape
We will do exactly the same to make the other drawers, the only difference is that the other two drawers
they have two more pieces, one each
one that has a piece of more or less than two centimeters in width, is to divide
colors and the other one that has a width of 7 centimeters
what is this that is seen on the screen, now it is for
put rubber, what we are going to do is put the rubber in the position that we want
we mark its outline with a pen and cut
we re-cover with paper tape and place it in the position that we like
We only have to put together the structure that is very simple, just do not worry if you do not understand very well how you are armed
in the video in the inscription box where they have the file with the measurements they also have a small
illustration to give an idea of where each piece goes
Once we have
all the armed structure, we will use strips of plus or minus one centimeter
to make the top for the drawers of the pencils
they are accommodating as you see that it looks good, they stick it, they were trying
so that the drawer is as straight as possible
With the third crate of pencils, which is the one that has the gums, that I prefer to put the top
let's put it the way it looks in the video
the assembly of the lid I do not show it because it is easy or it is the same as how we make the first drawers
let's join the lid to the rest of the structure with more paper tape
and so we have to stay
the next thing we're going to do is paint black
everything that is going to be seen and with the papers
stamping we will start to cover the entire box and at the end we give a layer of varnish to
protect the paper and not be ruined
and so we have finished our box to store pencils
I hope you liked it, the truth that I liked a lot, I did not think it would be so
but I really like how it was I hope you liked it too, you know that if you liked it, you can give me a like and
share that that helps me a lot
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we are very close to reaching 5 thousand subscribers and I would love to do a special and that you can participate
If you follow me on my social networks they will be aware of what I am going to do and be able to participate
so he waited for them, a huge greeting to all the
new people who enter the channel, all the people who are long time ago, thank you very much for all the support
a huge kiss and see you in a next video
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Can You Fake It Until You Make It? - Duration: 1:12.
- Can you fake it till you make it and is that realistic?
Yes and no. Here's the deal.
You can't totally fake it.
You have to have some level of skill,
passion, execution, result, service, pride--
You have to have something.
You can't start with zero, say you have everything, sell it,
and then expect something to happen.
That's called The Fyre Festival.
But, in reality,
you do need to stretch a little.
Get to that next wrung, get to that next level.
You can stretch a bit.
It's okay to stretch assuming that you can
then deliver on your promises.
Can you say, "Yes, we can do that, we can make it",
though you've never made it before.
You can say that.
As long as you then deliver and actually
make the product you just said you could.
That's it.
And so I think for you,
how much of a stretch is that?
Just depends on your level of execution, your expertise,
and how comfortable you are being uncomfortable.
That's all it is.
But, if you've got nothing,
and you're saying you have everything,
you're just a liar.
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When you try to make a joke but it doesn't work bc the other person has heard it before - Duration: 0:15.
*Awkward silence*
Hey, Ashley!
What do you want?
Have you heard the news about updog????
I low-key want to murder you/
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How To Make A Flat Sided Crankbait - Duration: 11:24.
Welcome to lure making 101
This is a simple tutorial series for beginners to lure making who have minimal tools and materials and little experience
Today we'll be making flat doc which is a 60 millimeter flat sided balsa crankbait
You may have seen this in fishing monthly magazine if not go visit them at
www.FishingMonthly.com.au and for templates and tips visit my web site makewoodenlures.com/Fishing-Monthly/
As with previous projects in this series
We'll start by printing the template and then laying it out onto the balsa plank. This is the 12 mm thick balsa
Now I'm just doing this with a pen to make it easier for you to see in the video
but a pencil is fine too.
Leave enough room between the lures so that you can easily cut them out
Which of course we're going to do with a sharp utility knife. Here that I'm paring away from the line
So there's a little bit of waste there to clean up and square up afterwards
I'll get this close to square with a knife and then I'll switch to a sanding block to clean it up
Here I'm sitting the lure on a piece of flat wood
And I'm using a square, flat sanding block to smooth off the surface
Trim it back down to the profile line and make sure that the blank is perfectly square
For the convex surface I'm using a square block. For the concave surface around the belly
I'll use a curved sanding block that you see the lower sitting on top of right now
Once the blank is squared up I'll go ahead and mark out
all the positions of the hardware such as the weights, hook hangers and tow points
For this lure there will be a diving lip as well, so we'll mark the location of the diving lip also
You'll notice I've marked the center line by eye. If you wish, you can use a marking gauge or some other jig to
mark that center line perfectly accurately
Now we're ready to prepare the lure for the hardware
We're using twist styles for this lure as we have with the previous lures in this series
So I'm going to drill out the holes that those twist eyes will go into
And then I'm gonna drill a hole for the single ball sinker weight that we're going to put in the belly of the lure
This is a two millimeter twist drill that I'm using for these holes and in a moment I'll switch to a five millimeter
brad point bit to drill out the weight holes
Now I'm using a fine-tooth saw make a perfectly straight square cut into the blank to take the diving lip
Okay, so we're ready to shape that top profile, so I've printed out the profile from the template
I'm laying it on top of the lure
I'm just going to mark out where the waste is on that blank so I can trim
It away and shape it down to the top profile dimensions
Once again I'm simply going to use a utility knife and work away
in small slices until I get that lower down to the approximate dimensions and
Then I'm going to use a sanding block to square it all up
Make sure when you look at the lure from above and below that it's perfectly symmetrical. A mirror image from side to side
Now we're ready to do the actual shaping of the lure body
So I'm going to mark out some carving lines. Being a flat sided crankbait this lure doesn't have central lines
We're going to just take the corners off the blank and leave the sides flat name would suggest
So I'm just marking out about a quarter of an inch, maybe a little less
around each of the sides of the lure from the edge of the wood
And I'm making a central line top and bottom
I'm simply going to go ahead to the utility knife and take off that waste between those carving lines
And then I'm going to round it all off and smooth it
Very simple shaping this flat sided crankbait
Here using a piece of 240 grit sandpaper just doing the final shaping and smoothing off
When it comes to assembly we have three options for putting our tow points and hook hangers on the lure
screw eyes twist ties or a three wire
Now throughout this series we've used twist eyes and I'm going to continue to use twist eyes for this particular lure
The reason being is the twist eyes are quick and easy to make they don't require any special
materials that you'll find hard to get. And they're strong enough for our purposes
But if you are going to be fishing this lure on line classes of six kilos or higher, then I suggest switching to a through wire
Here's how I make most twist eyes using a three millimeter drill bit to make the initial loop
And a couple of pairs of pliers to twist it up, make it nice and strong and give the glue plenty to hold on to
And there it is. So now we're ready to glue the twist size into the crankbait body
Using a good quality 24-hour curing epoxy. I'm going to start by filling the weight hole
get as much glue in there as I can and then I'm going to insert a small ball sinker
and that's going to balance the lure and give it a good strong robust swimming action
A little bit more adhesive over the top of that sinker will help to fill up the hole
And when we smooth that off you won't even be able to tell that the sinkers been put in there
Then I'll paint some epoxy onto the threads of the twist eyes and
I'll work them into our flat sided crankbait body
Twist it around to make sure that the glue gets deep into the hole
Now push that in a little bit, and then I'll work a little bit more glue around the outside of the lure
Now as with all our projects
I'm now going to harden the balsa. I forgot to video that process for this lure
So I'm showing you on a different lure but the process is exactly the same
We're using epoxy resin to soak into the wood cure and make it waterproof and hard
Alright time to paint our flat sided crankbait now
Of course, you can go to the automotive shop pick up some auto touch up paint
or you can go to the art shop and pick up some acrylic artist paints
And they'll be just fine for lure painting
But if you want to do a really professional job the best thing is to get yourself an airbrush
And I'm going to use an airbrush to finish this lure off
So I'm starting by giving the
epoxy hardened lure a good coat of auto born white sealer. This is the coat of paint
hat's going to give the subsequent coats of paint really good adhesion to the lure so very important not to skip this step
Once the airbrush sealer is dry I'm going to go over the entire lure using an auto air pearl white paint
This will give the balsa crankbait a little bit of sparkle a little bit of shine
And it will give a good base for the subsequent colors to go over
I'm using a fluorescent raspberry color to give the lure a bit of pizzazz
I'm going to build this up in several coats until I get a good intense color as you'll see here
It's much better to do it in lots of light coats than one or two heavy coats
Once I'm happy with the intensity of that raspberry color
I'm going to go ahead and put some mesh around the lure, and I'm going to spray again
I've put a couple of drops of transparent black paint on top of the raspberry to darken it up
and give me a nice scale effect
You'll see the darker scales over the top of the light margins when I remove the mesh in just a moment
And there it is
For a little bit of extra color, I'm going to put some fluorescent orange on the belly
Just around the chin and the diving lip. This is optional
And
Because I'm using an airbrush
I can go ahead and paint a little bit more detail then you can manage with a spray can for example
You can do this by hand with a paintbrush if you wish
Or you can use marker pens
I'm gonna put some gills on this flat sided crankbait
Like so
And then I'm gonna paint some fins just because I can
This is completely optional. It doesn't affect how well the lure will catch fish
The final step of course is to glue in your diving lip
I've made the diving lip out of lip out of two millimeter polycarbonate which I cut on the scroll saw
But if you've got a coping saw you can do it just as easily or even a pair of kitchen shears will cut
polycarbonate sheeting. So making sure there's plenty of 24-hour curing epoxy on there
I'll slide that diving lip in place make sure it's perfectly aligned. Wipe off the excess glue and let it dry
That's it for this flat sided crankbait making tutorial
Look forward to seeing you in the next tutorial. Go and visit my website
www.makewoodenlures.com/fishing-monthly/
bye for now
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I Can't Make You Love Me - Duration: 9:13.
Okay... What's Good...? What's Good, Everybody? I apologize about how the beginning of the
video started. I was actually trying to make sure that we copied some people on
the video trying to get the word out. So, anyways... we flipped back. We'll go ahead
and get started. This is Pastor Devin Stephenson, Pastor of Servants of Christ,
where we are always "changing lives one mind at the time" and I just wanted to give you
this reminder... something that you can use something that I bless you for
our sunrise discussion this morning and it's very simple it's very simple it's
just that you have to remember that I can't make you love me right I can't
make you you can't force somebody to love you and when you get this in your
heart then you realize that a lot of the pain that you feel a lot of the
suffering a lot of the relationship stuff you're going through you'll be
able to get over it because you understand very quick quickly it's not
your job to try and force somebody to show an action of love right to try and
force somebody to show an action of kindness I can't force anybody to love
me I cannot force anybody to do what should be on their heart so brothers
don't feel a certain way if you're going out of your way you're providing you're
taking care of children you're taking care of children that aren't your own
whatever the case might be your loving with everything that you have and you
feel like it's not being reciprocated like don't try to force something that
can't be there not just as far as forth the relationship but don't try to force
the fact that you're trying to love somebody who doesn't love you
since it's the same thing if you're with somebody and you feel like you're doing
everything from cooking the cleaning to working to or maybe you're a
stay-at-home mom and you're giving your best you're sacrificing you've given
children and all that you can't force somebody to love you now as I always say
we have to get the definition of love right because some people think that
love is something that you make in a bedroom right which is fall short of
what love is some people think that love is just something as simple as an
emotion but love is not an emotion love is actually an a verb it's an action or
you can call it an adverb it's an action that describes so you can't love
somebody without actually showing an action your action is going to be what
dictates the level love that you give your actions gonna be
what actually shows the level of love that you give so get in a situation
where you understand that you it really what you're saying what I'm saying when
I say you can't force somebody to love you I'm really saying you cannot force
somebody to give an action right you can't force somebody to give an action
you know that that should describe how they feel about you you cannot force it
you have to worry about shoes and sometimes watch this even in our
relationships when we have somebody that loves us maybe they don't love us at the
level that we see or that we want to see or that we've seen in our vision right
but we can't give up and we can't lessen our love so what a lot of people do is
your relationship actually suffers because you lessen your love because
you're trying you're so mad that somebody's not forcing or somebody's not
loving you on the level that you saw when you were playing with your kin and
your Barbie doll Randor you were put or you saw in in whatever movie it is and
you figured hey you were getting the relationship and it would be the movie
but you would have to do one or two struggles that those people had in the
movie but you would come out and now in your relationship you've got real
problems you've got 30 struggles you've got children on top of that you got a
job but you got to take care you don't know if you like that job you don't know
if you you know you've gained weight or you've done this you've done that
whatever it is you've changed life has changed and now all of a sudden you're
not sure and so you're looking at the person and you're like man I saw in this
movie or I saw this couple or I saw my mother and father their love was like
this your love is not the same and since it's not the same I'm not gonna love you
in the same level and so now your relationship is suffering even more
because not only is your significant other not loving but you're not loving
and you made a decision to do so right for the other person it might be where
they are they might be immature in certain areas of their love but you
actually have the maturity level could teach the other person and show them
some things through your love that would help them to become better that means
that you would become happy in the long run but instead you decided to back off
to not love and to you know taper your love on purpose like get that your your
lessening your love you're finding loopholes for your love on /
and then getting mad about the fact that you don't have a relationship that she
wants so we got to get out of this thing that says that hey if they don't love me
then I'm not gonna love them the same way because I want to get past this
rumor and I want to get past this real quick I'm almost done especially with
all this noise around but you know I want to get past this rumor that says
that I have to love specifically or what let me put it like this let's get past
this thing that says that love is 50/50 or your marriage your relationship is
gonna be 50/50 that is a made-up thing that's something that we like to say I
don't even know where that came from but it's not true because there's gonna
be times where my marriage and my marriage sometimes like it's it feel
like it's 70/30 and sometimes they feel like it's thirty seventy in other words
it feels like sometimes my wife is doing way too much sometimes I feel like I'm
doing way too much but regardless we're in this together
and there might be times to where I need to carry the relationship in certain
areas in certain arenas and she might have to do the same so don't allow
excuses don't allow reasoning don't allow what a lot of people are doing
where they work they attempt to love or they say that they love but they don't
want to really give their all love is an action and it's a verb and it's an
adverb so it's an action and it's an action that's so powerful it brings
about description so if you say you love somebody to say it but have no action to
back it up it means that you're destitute of love either you love or you
don't even on a Christian level on a biblical level kingdom of heaven level
whatever even in there it says stuff like you know you it talks about loving
outside of yourself one of the things I like is I think it's like first John
chapter 4 verse 20 and it says that you know you gotta love
or if you can how can you say that you love God who you've never seen but you
don't love your brother who you see every day right so even on that level
that you keep talking about you have this status lets you just keep saying
there's something that you see that you hit a vision you haven't seen it yet but
it's something you want to get to and you have this area you have this arena
you have this destiny then you love it so much but then everything around you
and everybody around you they don't get the same level of love they don't get
the same level of action how is it that you put so much action towards hopefully
getting the promotion which you're not even in yet but you can't love people
who are around you you see what I'm saying so so so you got to get out of
this thing that says that I gotta force somebody the love I've gotta first
people on level and you gotta start focusing on your love I can't force you
to love me but I can't force me to love me and I can't force me to love you so
with all that being said I want to let you know that if you haven't heard this
today if you're about to go to work if you bout to shell out today whatever
you're going to do I want you to know that you are loved I love you God loves
you and even some of the people that you think aren't showing love on the level
that you would like they probably love you a lot more than what you give them
credit for but stop trying to force them into your idea of love putting them in
your box of what you think love is start to value yourself for who you are where
you are and what you need to do to be able to progress for it all right so
that's all that I have I thank you guys so much for being on
I appreciate the king and queen in each and every one of you and even if you're
not living in a kingdom or queendom yet I appreciate the potential king and
queen and you remember we've got the book out we have the manual out if you
want the 10 days of motivation manual put hash tag I want one down and in the
description box below I will make sure that I have it posted for you guys at
the end so you'll be able to click on it'll be down in the bottom of the
screen I'm towards the end of the video and
just continue to make sure that you do everything you can focus on your love
focus on the level of love that you get you can always dictate that alright you
can always mandate the to love alright stop worrying about everybody else's
level I can't force you to love me right even God can't force people to love
that's one thing that blessed me and set me free a long time ago he can't force
anybody to bless me hurts anybody to love me then guess what I can't force
you to do the same so it made life a lot easier when I think about it that way
but hopefully you guys got something from it if you got any questions
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and queen and each and every one of you and thank you for being with us we're
gonna hash tag finish strong this year and our year of freedom which is where
we're gonna be free to be ourselves and equal to nobody else
and we're excelling up to 2018 witches are your vestments so as always this is
pastor Devin our service of Christ where we're always changing lives one month of
the time peace
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Falooda - Refreshing Cold Beverage - Sweet Dessert Recipe-How to make falooda drink at home - Duration: 2:54.
Today we are going to make falooda drink
Ingredients: Milk+sugar or flavoured milkshake,1 tbsp basil seeds,1 tbsp falooda noodels,1 tbsp rose syrup and 1 tbsp khus syrup,garnish with almonds and a scoop of ice creame
Place a layer of basil seeds soaked in milk for one hour
Add a layer of falooda
Add rose syrup
Add milk
Repeat process
Add khus syrup
Add a scoop of ice creame
Top up with rose syrup and almonds
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Fate We Make - EPISODE 4 - Iraqi refugee family in America - 2017 documentary web series - Duration: 12:10.
Thank God I found my first job after 4 months.
Solar panel installation.
Then after I finished my construction contract
I would help my manager with
painting, drywall, roofing sometimes.
Hi my friend, how are you?
Good, and you?
Everything is ok?
No. You need to fix my light, there.
Oh, light?
Yes.
Ok, let me check.
Can you do it?
Yeah yeah, sure.
Now I work at a bakery.
In the first few months I worked cleaning the machinery.
After that, the manager offered me:
"Since you show interest in this, we're going to train you here,"
"How to do maintenance, how to apply the lubricant."
So every day I arrive, for example, I have on my schedule, which machine today.
I check if any parts are bad or if there's a problem.
When you come to America, you don't know what the system is like.
It's not like a lot of people think;
You don't walk down the street and find money.
Work here is serious.
You do the work, they appreciate it.
You don't do the work, they don't help you.
They help you once or twice, but after that they say, "That's it."
I like this system because you know who works and who doesn't.
Who's fast and who's slow.
Who is self-motivated, I mean...
In Iraq it's not like that.
I'm replacing the car's spark plugs.
I have time, so I'm going to change
The plug.
The problem is not with the plugs.
I was up early this morning because
today Linda had
an exam.
So hopefully she'll take it
and get the score she wants.
Hello!
Hi Linda. How did you do?
Good.
Good.
Are you sure?
We didn't finish school
So we're hoping that something we couldn't do,
Our children can do.
When you have a degree, there are bigger and better opportunities.
Here, there are many specializations in school. Not like in Iraq.
The car is still bad.
Poor thing. She wants some antibiotics.
The lady said to meet her in the lobby.
Where's the lobby?
I don't know.
I want a house because the girls are big.
And in their teen years they need privacy.
When I see Linda sit down to draw or read
She can't relax.
Sometimes I also feel bad for Lubna
Because she always wants her friends to come over and play.
We don't have a place where she can play with her friends.
(Lubna singing)
And, I mean...
This apartment has exhausted me. It's old and things are always breaking.
Didn't I tell Laith the other day that we have bed bugs?
He told me, "No we don't."
Yesterday we threw out the bed because we found bed bugs in it.
We have to throw all this away.
We have to start from zero.
Wait. Everything?
Be careful. This may have bed bugs.
We have to wash it.
One day it's cockroaches. One day it's bed bugs. One day the ceiling falls on our heads.
We just want to move somewhere else. Not this building!
Definitely a bigger space than our apartment.
You know, a lot of stuff in Silver Spring, it's like $2,000 and more.
That't the thing. It's a decent price.
And it's by the park. You know the neighborhood already.
We can't buy a house because we need a down payment and we don't have one.
This is the problem Laith and I always fight about.
I have a house over there.
About a year ago
I could have sold the house but, hmm, I mean...
From the beginning I told him we should sell the house. The price was good.
He told me no. So later, when we decided to sell
The situation in Iraq had gotten extremely bad.
So tonight, with a new Iraqi government in place,
And following consultations with allies abroad, and Congress at home,
I can announce that America will lead a broad coalition to roll back this terrorist threat.
Our objective is clear.
We will degrade and ultimately destroy ISIL.
Home values dropped almost to nothing.
And we can't sell the house.
This is the thing that caused a huge problem between Laith and me.
It will take time to eradicate a cancer like ISIL.
And any time we take military action, there are risks involved.
Especially to the servicemen and servicewomen who carry out these missions.
He's always afraid of trying something new and failing.
My fight with him is always that, for example, a good opportunity comes,
I tell him, "Laith, this is a good opportunity."
(phone rings)
And he doesn't listen to me. Yes, Linda?
Yes, put it in.
Put everything in together.
Onions, tomatoes, squash, eggplant and peppers...
Put them all in together.
I can't by right now.
The school year isn't over yet. How will we transport the girls?
She doesn't think about those things. She wants...
When she says something, we have to want it right now.
She doesn't have patience.
I feel for her, but
the solution she wants, of doing something fast,
She can't do things that way.
We're so exhausted. We can't buy or even rent a house because
There isn't enough money.
The situation is really bad between Laith and me.
Hello!
Oh my god, I'm so sorry. I was just biking and
No, it's alright.
It was my fault because
What did you get?! What did you get?!
I hate olives.
The Spanish guy...he was talking in Spanish to me and I was like, "What?"
He was like "blah-blah-blah-blah," And I was like, "What?"
And he was like, "Oh, I thought you were Dominican."
It's funny. When you're brown people think you're a lot of things.
Ok. So before I read this...because I haven't even read it,
what is your main point?
Don't look.
Just tell me how you're going to make history.
Um...
Alright. You have four different ideas. You have...
"What is history?" What does this say about you?
What I'm not getting is like one story that I can leave with and say
Linda, this girl, she is gonna do "this."
My passion is moving towards nursing, and
I feel like I can use that to help people, even like
I feel like I couldn't do anything in my country. I couldn't do anything in Iraq.
And I felt really helpless.
I feel like here I can
Finally express my feeling.
I can finally like, fight for people's right.
(Door opening)
Hey I haven't seen you in a while. You doing alright?
Hey Ben.
Sup girl?
I brought...
Nothing. Not even the sauce or the jalapeno.
White people's houses are so cold.
White people's houses?
That's so racist. You are so racist Linda!
It's not racist. It's stereotyping.
You know what she told me? We were trying to choose a GW essay, ok?
There were three essays. One of them was like, what was it?
I don't remember what it said. I'm going to look it up.
She goes: "That's a white girl essay!"
I'm not trying to be racist. It's like...
That's the sentence of a racist.
(Laughter)
"Hey, I'm not trying to be a racist, but..."
I just share my thoughts. I'm not trying to be a racist. (Laughs)
I want you to read it to us.
Oh, ok.
Rushing into the surgery room to help a shotted soldier coming from the battle.
This is what I imagine myself doing ten years from now.
Finishing my path in the Army medical field, by graduating after finishing my medical studies.
Coming from an Iraqi background inspires me to take
any chance to stop the violent and make changes in people's lives.
I was too young at the time of the war to make any difference in the past.
But as I grew up, I grew a feeling of changing history and making a new one.
This is who I am. This is who I will be. This is my future and my history.
Woo-hoo!
It kinda rhymes: "This is who I am, this is who I will be..."
"This is my future and history. Uh..uh..uh..."
You're like a rapper.
Boom.
Yeah girl, I see you coming from the sun...
I said, "Wassup? Holla at me, gun."
(Laughs)
I wish your college applications could see you.
You are a rockstar.
We'll see you on Monday.
I love you.
I love you more.
Hi sweetie, how are you? How did it go?
Good.
I'm helping Linda because
She was my mom thirty years ago.
She's so smart.
I don't want her to regret not doing things just because she didn't know how.
And I feel like she has a lot to offer the world.
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