- Welcome back guys, I'm Chris Cucoch,
and I'm a realtor at Royal LePage Signature in the GTA.
Today, I'm gonna talk about the five things
that you need to know about the
new standard residential lease
that's coming out at the end of April.
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click that Subscribe button
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All right, point number one
is that the new residential lease
is absolutely mandatory no matter who you are.
So, whether you've got one unit,
or you're a REIT with 5,000 doors
it doesn't matter, you must use the residential lease.
It even applies to basement apartments.
Well that brings me into point number two,
there are a few exceptions that this does not apply to.
The new residential lease does not apply
to social or supportive homes,
does not apply to retirement or nursing homes,
does not apply to any mobile home parks,
does not apply to the land lease communities
and it does not apply to any commercial property whatsoever.
This is a residential lease only.
Point number three is there will be
no more no pet clauses.
Now, believe it or not, no pet clauses
are already not allowed in residential leases.
However, they're in pretty much every lease in the GTA
because the landlords put them in anyway,
and the tenants don't know they're not enforceable.
The new lease says right in it
that those no pet clause will not be enforceable.
The only way there can be a no pet clause in the lease
is if it's a condo, and the condo corporation
has rules against what pets are allowed in the building.
Otherwise there's nothing really
the landlord can do about it,
you're allowed to have your pet,
and they're not allowed to charge you an additional deposit.
And that's a perfect lead into point number four.
There are limits on the amount of deposits
the landlord can charge you.
You can have a last month rent deposit,
and you can have an additional key deposit.
The key deposit is limited
to the expected replacement cost of the keys and fobs only.
No $500 key deposits, no extra pet deposits,
no damage deposits, none of that's allowed,
and now that's going to be right in the lease.
And finally, point number five, rent control.
I'm sure you've heard about it in the news.
What's basically going on is they've capped
the amount that the landlords can raise the rent each year.
The maximum increase is going to be pegged to inflation.
Now there is an exception to the rent control rule.
If the landlord makes a substantial improvement
to the property, they're allowed to raise the rent
by a little bit more, however,
they must apply to the landlord and tenant board
and get special permission in order to do so,
and you'll get notice well in advance.
If you'd like a copy of the new standard lease
to review for yourself I've provided a link below.
Go ahead and check it out.
All right, that's all for today,
as always if you have any questions
don't hesitate to leave them in the comments
or reach out to me directly.
And please, go ahead and let me know in the comments
what you'd like to hear me talk about in my next video.
And if you like this video, hit that like button
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Thanks for watching, and we'll see you next time.
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Technique to EASILY Take More Action to Attract What You Want - Duration: 9:48.
and this video will show you the easiest way to take more action so that you can
attract what you want welcome back to another video my name is Erin and I help
people expand their consciousness now in this video I'm gonna be sharing with you
my perspective as to taking action how I'm able to easily take massive action
in the direction of attracting what I want with the law of attraction and
really of doing what I want and what I love to do now with action understand
that first off my perspective is it of it is that it's very powerful in the
process of the law of attraction there are a lot of times I'll post this on the
channel and sometimes every now and then someone will say you know the action
isn't that important they don't know why I talk about it so much but the only
reason I really talk about action so much is because it's made such a
dramatic change in my own life when I started taking massive action back in
February everything began to change I turned YouTube into my full-time
career I got rid of doing a job I didn't prefer so many opportunity to come into
my life like the opportunity here and I like one a month in order for me to go
to Costa Rica I've been offered to go to Costa Rica for a week all-inclusive
resort you know certain opportunities you have come from this and I believe
it's because I take so much action now I know that the energy part of it the
belief part of it I also focus a lot of my videos on those so this is more for
the people that want to easily take action and knowing that when you learn
how to do it and you do it consistently you will get massive results I wish that
I heard this earlier on with learning the law of attraction because if I did
I'd probably be at a totally different space than I'm right now but I'm
grateful for it I am and I'm grateful that I can be the kind of the one
chairing you that how this has changed my life
now with the law of attraction understand that what action does is
action opens up opportunities for us the more action we take in the physical
aspect of it think of emotions as the energy aspect of it action as the
physical part of it the more likely we are to bring ourselves closer towards
accomplishing and viewing those opportunities that could be in
front of us right now now also at the same time we always get a reflection of
who we are being and if part of the beam isn't the action we're not taking action
we're not actually embodying the full aspect of who we are being think of who
we are being as how we are thinking how we are feeling and how we are acting and
the acting part of it is of course the action now the most powerful way to
increase your action and to easily take more action is to first off have a
stronger intention so what you can do every day is have a stronger intention
and be very clear about what your outcomes are also be clear about what
your vision is the reason it was so easy for me to create a video a day now part
of it wasn't always easy I got easy over time over consistency at
first it was a little bit harder actually because I was also working a
full-time job so here I am creating a video every single day which is
something not a lot of youtubers do and I'm doing that while working 40 hours a
week while going to the gym every day it was a lot of work I'm not gonna lie to
you but it became so much more easy as I went because I became so strong and for
the vision I put so much more energy on the vision for what I want to experience
so what I would do is I would have such a strong intention and I would make that
vision so clear to me I would imagine and a year from now this is back in
February and here from now where it could I be if I took action every day
I'm doing this and I had such a strong vision of I want to be traveling the
world I want to be sharing and talking in front of people I want to you know
grow this audience on YouTube so that I can add value to the most amount of
people and I have that vision and I was so determined I had so much intention
for it to happen and what I noticed is that because I made that vision much
more bright yes because I made that intention so much more strong it then
became something I was able to move closer and closer to and then it became
easier now the other side of this towards making action easy because at
times it might feel hard the way to make it easy is to associate an associate
pleasure with taking action you know so many times in our
it's simply that we are associating pain with taking action or associating
pleasure with maybe procrastination or not doing anything the part of action I
believe is that it is a part of the process and it is something that we can
really enjoy if we decide that we can enjoy it decide that you're going to
associate more pleasure with the process to do this all you have to do is imagine
taking action and imagine yourself taking action and enjoying the process
you know I imagine myself taking massive action and enjoying it I imagine taking
making videos and enjoying the process of making videos and now because I've
done it so consistently because I've created hundreds of videos over the last
life you know part of this year I love making videos like right now I'm in this
flow state because I simply have associated so much pleasure with taking
action the idea of action is a neutral idea and
if we associate pleasure with it we will enjoy it now the other side of this is
associate and have and integrate what your vision is for what you want to
experience with your passion make sure it's something you're passionate about
because when you do take action you will actually enjoy it now the funny thing is
is now I'm getting into creating a website creating the courses creating
products that could be very mutating to a lot of people but cuz it's like very
technical you got to learn it and guess what I associate so much pleasure with
it and I actually love to do it because I feel like I'm architecting my own
creativity I'm able to create something to add so much value to people so that's
the way I do it I simply associate pleasure with it and
I have a stronger intention for what I want to experience so the next thing I
thought I would do is give you guys a technique that you can use to make it so
that you feel more pleasure when you take action and that you associate
pleasure with taking action and also so that you have more of an intention for
what you want to experience you put that feeling within you and you increase it
to do this all you have to do is is first off let me explain that it's an
NLP technique which stands for a neuro linguistic programming and this is a way
that we can optimize a brain so that we're able to feel more into what
we want and to do this all you have to do is imagining yourself while you're in
meditation imagine yourself even right now visualize yourself sitting there and
what you can do is imagine a ball of energy like a ball like about this big
around your heart space now imagining yourself feeling passion for taking
action imagining yourself taking action and you enjoy taking action what you can
do is realize that the more action you take and the more aligned inspired
action you take so action that's backed up with the emotion in the direction of
doing your passion the more you take it the more you're gonna love it the more
videos I make the more I love making videos so that's the idea now what you
do is imagine that ball around your heart space and what you do is you begin
to feel into it even put your hand over your heart if you need to and what you
can do is start to feel into that instead of just thinking about it start
to feel into it now what you do is after maybe a minute of doing that what you do
is you imagine that ball of energy spinning and whatever direction you want
and imagine it spinning faster and faster and as it spins faster and faster
you are increasing the emotion and you are increasing the feeling you have in
your heart space now what you do is you continue to spin it faster and faster
and then you become present to the moment and you feel the pleasure for
taking action you imagine yourself taking action and you do that two or
three times you imagine that ball spinning faster and faster and as it
spins faster and faster you imagine more and more of that feeling more and more
of that energy and more and more of that pleasure you will feel as you are taking
action now this is a simple NLP exercise that I use in order to increase the
feeling I have for loving to take action it's made it so much easier for me to
take action I it immediately will stop procrastinating and I'll start doing
things if I do this exercise so I just wanted to add value to your day maybe
allow you to start to take more action and understanding that if you take
inspired action not just action but inspired action by adding that to it
taking pleasure with the process you'll start to also get the results so
remember taking action something that's powerful because it
brings you closer and closer to the opportunities in your life and that when
you simply decide you are going to associate pleasure with the process when
you decide that you're gonna have a stronger intention for what you want to
experience and a stronger vision it will make it so much easier for you to
experience so with that being said I hope you guys enjoyed this video feel
free to like this video if you liked it subscribe if you haven't already also
hit that little notification gear next to the subscribe button so that you're
able to see the daily videos that I do also I put a free pdf inside the
description box on the top three Loa techniques that have changed my life
feel free to check that out if you want all you got to do is hit on that link
and other than that as always I will see you guys on the next day please
much love namaste
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Create The Life YOU WANT: EP 17 Soul Reflections: BK Shivani (English Subtitles) - Duration: 29:05.
Greetings and welcome to Awakening With Brahma Kumaris. Welcome, Sister.
Om Shanti.
Om Shanti and welcome to Soul Reflections.
Thank you.
We discussed a beautiful topic last time about thoughts and Re-creation of life every day. You mentioned that we should do it every moment, not just every day.
I found a beautiful line which connects to it.
Be mindful of your self-talk.
We tend to say - I am like, this I am weak. I have a problem in my genes because my parents also had it, it is written in my Horoscope too.
Be mindful of your self-talk. It is a conversation with the universe.
Be mindful of your self talk. We feel it is just going on here.
We say it is just my thought so it is going on here inside.
We also say - that thought came by itself, so we can't help it.
That past incident came back to memory so it is going on.
We feel it is just going on inside so what is the harm.
It says be mindful of your self-talk.
It means whatever we are speaking within, we need to pay attention to it.
It is a conversation with the universe.
Universe here can be destiny?
Destiny gets created only based on our conversation with it.
It is a conversation with the universe means
Universe will bring all those things in front of you.
It will bring them in front of us. But when they come we question - Why did this come to me? Why did that happen to me?
How did this destiny get created?
But it is a result of your conversation.
I was reading the line which said - life is a manifestation of your thoughts.
We keep reading such lines every day.
Most of us would ever read this several times.
Because it is a beautiful line.
Be mindful of your self-talk.
It is a conversation with the universe.
Universe means it is a conversation with your body, with your relationships, with every work you are doing.
It is a conversation with everyone.
When we say Universe it means everything outside.
So this is self-talk going on here and this is outside.
So whatever be our self-talk, it is a conversation with the universe.
It means whatever we are thinking, we are doing it inside and with our self.
We are not talking to anyone else.
But that self-talk will be a conversation with our body, a conversation with our relationships, a conversation with everything that is going on in our life today. And whatever we talk, it will do exactly so.
Like you shared last time, the power to choose the time when a person wants to leave the body
Or the power to change what is written in my horoscope.
Because the horoscope was prepared based on the reality as of that day.
And it was the reality as of that day, based on the thoughts as of that day.
And it was right.
If the thought does not change then the horoscope will turn out to be accurate.
The horoscope was prepared, but we changed our destiny with our thoughts.
It happened because our thoughts and Sanskars changed.
Last time you read - re-create yourself daily.
So every day a new horoscope can be created.
Every day we ourselves can write our own destiny.
We don't need to go and ask anybody about what is written in our destiny.
Let anything be written in your destiny.
I the soul, have the power to re-create it daily.
But if we repeatedly keep taking information already previously written in that horoscope
Then the moment the information present in the horoscope goes in
What happens?
That information starts becoming the reality because - the moment that information went in, that vibration got created.
The moment that vibration got created, that reality started getting created.
And when it became the reality we started saying that whatever was written in the horoscope was accurate.
What was written in the horoscope was certainly accurate.
But it was based on the reality at that moment.
Today at this moment we can create a completely different reality.
And that is why if you want to create anything new, do not use back references.
Why are we asking people repeatedly about what is written in a horoscope?
How will my present times be?
Today if everything in your life is absolutely perfect, but if things are not fine here
Then your time at present is not good. You are not happy right now.
But suppose everything in your life is chaotic outside.
Nothing is going right at all around you.
But if you are perfect within here, then your present time could not have been better than it is now.
There was a book where the author had cancer. He had written a beautiful line and it - when you yearn for anything
The universe listens to you.
Similarly in a Satsang we were told - nature is at our service
I started laughing at that statement.
Today I understood the meaning.
Nature is at your service means your energy is above it.
Your energy influences nature.
Nature could be your body or this environment.
Nature is at our service means we should know our power
We are not slaves to nature, we are masters
Soul energy is a higher energy.
A few days ago about 20 of us had to travel to another country.
The program was fixed 3 to 4 months earlier.
Just 5 days before we had to start, somebody informed us
That it has been raining very heavily there. We went to the internet to search.
So whatever was the dates of those 6 days program, the forecast for all those days was mentioned - thunderstorm, thunderstorm, thunderstorm, thunderstorm, heavy thunderstorm.
The 20 of us were on a WhatsApp group.
So the messages were about heavy rains. Then we created a thought.
Now all the 20 of us will create a single thought - The weather in this city will be beautiful during all these 6 days.
Somebody wrote in the group that we should carry umbrellas.
Another person replied that he will not even carry an umbrella.
You know - that level of working on yourself.
Some people in the group wondered how it can change things, especially when it is clearly mentioned on the website.
It is predicted that for all the 6 days. there will not just be a little rainfall, but there will be heavy thunderstorms.
We said let us do it, let us experiment. Anyway we need to go as everything is finalized.
All 20 of us created just that one thought. When we do this
And we were not doing that only in meditation or in the morning. That was a firm belief that the weather will be beautiful during those 6 days.
We went there. For 6 days there was not a drop of rain.
And the people we met there would tell us - you are so lucky, you are so fortunate. Till yesterday it was raining so heavily here.
Not a drop of rain for 6 days although it was predicted to be heavy thunderstorms.
So the two or three people who had a slight doubt if it will work.
They wondered how it could be possible, that we create a thought and nature works according to our thought.
Now their belief system is changed completely.
So now if somebody says something is not right in any particular place, they say - It does not matter, we will set things right through our thoughts.
My daughter's wedding happened at Rishikesh, on the banks of river Ganga.
The flower decorator argued with me so much because he said he has the experience of decorating flowers at marriages in that place. It would rain.
I said it will not rain.
Even when my son Vivek got married in Bangalore, somebody told me to do certain rituals and pray that it should not rain on the wedding day.
I said they can take it as a guarantee that it will not rain.
Even in Rishikesh, two days after we left the place after my daughter's wedding, there were severe thunderstorms.
In Bangalore it had rained just before the wedding. So people started to worry. But it did not rain during the wedding dates. After we left to Mumbai, it rained again in Bangalore.
So what does it mean when we say nature is at our service?
I have seen a similar thing happen with my Guru. His Ashram had a long corridor with an open roof at the centre.
When I was new to all this and I had just gone for a satsang, I had no belief in such things.
What I saw was that when he was walking along the open stretch off the roof, there was no rain.
And once he is through that space on the corridor, the rain resumed.
I said it must be a coincidence.
But it happened once twice and even 10 times.
I was surprised. But still I told myself at that age that it must be a coincidence even if it happened 100 times.
And when we see such things happening especially with great souls like the Saint you mentioned, we feel it is all because of their power.
We feel that thought has such power.
We would even say only he can do it. I am no say it to be able to do such things.
Anybody can do it.
Last year we were doing a programme at Mount Abu and there were 700 to 800 doctors at the event.
A session was going on in the hall but it was raining very heavily outside.
We could hear the noise of the rain hitting the roof of the hall, it was raining so heavily.
15 minutes from then, it was time for lunch.
Lunch needs a walk that we need to walk and go to the other end of the campus.
When there are 700 or 800 members there is no other means to take them to the dining area. How many people can fit in a car or even a bus?
So everyone was thinking about the rain.
All of us in the hall just created a thought - when we leave this hall and step out, the weather will be beautiful.
There could have been a few people who have doubted if it will work.
We did that time, the first time.
And we said let us all create this thought.
For them it was a new experience. Moreover they were doctors, so they tend to look for scientific and logical means.
So some of the match how is it possible, how will it help?
So they were told we will just meditate for 2 minutes, we anyway need to leave after that.
So we all did it and the moment they stepped out of the hall, like you said, the rain stopped.
Once all of them reach to the dining hall, it started raining again.
So when they came back for the evening session, they said it was very interesting.
You start feeling as if it is like a button.
When you turn it On, it rains. When you turn it Off, it doesn't.
After the next session it started raining again. So the doctors themselves said - Sister, let us do it again. There was so much enthusiasm.
Because once a soul experiences something, the belief system becomes stronger.
Like how a child gets excited when he gets a new toy.
And like you said, when it happens for the first time we say it must have been a coincidence. If it happens for the second time, then we will see.
It was a three-day conference in the month of August.
And all 3 days had the guests playing with this - when we leave from the hall, weather will be fine.
And while we are in the hall it is fine to rain because we are inside.
Collective consciousness.
Collective vibrations.
We need to think about it when we say nature it at our service. Nature means universe.
That is why that line is very beautiful - your self-talk is a conversation with the universe.
It means nature is waiting for your orders
It is an experience in all our lives
But we let ourselves down so much
We say about ourselves - I don't know anything, I am just a servant, I am equivalent of dust the feet
If we create that vibration, it will start becoming the reality.
So we have to take care.
Some people might still say - I created a thought that it should not rain, but it still rained.
So why did not work?
Let us understand one thing very clearly.
Once we create a thought, we cannot create a counter-thought about it.
We should not dilute it.
Secondly, for however long we are going through that feeling, whether it is in terms of days or hours
Like for example, it was December and I had to go for a programme.
In a different city.
I booked a flight for morning 11 a.m
And the programme was at 2 P.M
So the organiser of that programme asked me - what if there will be a fog and your flight gets delayed?
If you do not reach in time for the programme, it will be a problem for us.
Because there is only at two-hour margin in between.
I said I have another program in the morning, and I cannot take a flight earlier than this one.
Create a thought that the weather will be very fine that day.
There was a gap of 1 month between booking the flight and programme date.
There were a few days of fog during that period and at those times David again ask if we want to change the programme.
I said the weather will be fine that day.
The weather was fine, the flight was on time, programme went well and everything was over.
Important is - how did that one month go for me and for them?
During that one month I had no effect in terms of thoughts.
Like they say, the organizer might have been living on thorns.
This is what it means when we say - my time is good. Or when we say - my time is not good.
Can you please explain this?
We have the habit of having our horoscopes read. We seek predictions and ask - How is my present time?
It depends on your thoughts.
In this example, if during that one month the programme organizers created thoughts of worry, then their 'time' in that one month would not be very good.
Some people tend to say - This programme nearly took my life out. I could not even sleep at nights.
So they start speaking negative about the programme.
Yes, exactly.
The organizer told me the same thing.
He said the one month was spent in tension - of whether the flight would arrive in time or not.
See what we do with our life.
And then we go and ask somebody how our time is going to be.
We ask - What is written in my horoscope? How is my future going to be?
And then we copy and paste posters like this one, which says - Re-create your life daily.
What does it mean then?
When we were horse-riding, I used to fear about any unpleasant incidents. Because of the fear within me, the horse would also fear and it would actually stop moving.
The teacher recited a very good poetry, the essence is that - One who fears, stays where he is. One who hits his heel of the foot hard on the ground, jumps higher and crosses any hurdle.
But before crossing the hurdle there, he crossed the hurdle here in the mind.
But how was the horse able to catch my thoughts?
Universe means that.
Universe is not this one.
It is a part of the universe.
Universe includes everything.
Everything is a part of the universe.
Where does self talk happen? Here.
So what all does universe comprise of? Our body, nature including birds and animals, family workplace - all this is a part of our universe.
Universe does not mean we create a thought here, and somebody is sitting out there to listen to it. And then he is converting our thought into reality.
No.
Universe means every thought we create is affecting everything. Based on the influence it creates on them, reality is created.
Like you said, if a thought of fear is created
What message was given to the horse?
No idea if this horse will cross the hurdle or not.
Not us but the horse has to cross it.
If the horse fails to cross the hurdle, it will collide against the hurdle.
Now this could be a hurdle in a race, or a hurdle in our life.
The same will then happen in hurdles of life also.
We will start creating thoughts like - Let me not hit hurdles. Let me not fall down.
The reason is fear.
Suppose at that time somebody studies the person's horoscope and says there is soon going to be a hurdle in life.
If they say it is a very big hurdle.
Even if we get the information that there will be a hurdle.
The next thought will be - Will I be able to cross this hurdle?
If we had not even got the information that there is going to be a hurdle.
The information which people give us about hurdles
If it is about 1 or 2 days, it is still fine.
But if they say the hurdle will remain for 7.5 years, then the person will be worried for that long.
Suppose the hurdle will be there for 7.5 years, but if you do not have that information with you at all.
Then nothing happens.
Even then whatever is written in the predictions still come in our life as small or big challenges.
But you don't have this knowledge or information.
That for the next 7 years, there will be a hurdle.
So what vibration will you create?
You will only think - This problem has come, I will cross this. That problem is here, I will cross that.
Instead, if somebody tells you before-hand - your life will be full of challenges for the next 7 years.
That is why information leads to thinking.
Thinking leads to doing.
So as far as possible we need to protect ourselves from this information.
The one giving this information should understand this.
The one receiving this information should understand it.
Not the one giving us information.
The one taking that information.
Who went to that person to take all the information?
Who went to inquire about his horoscope?
And then we asked, we heard and we filled ourselves with that information.
Now we are unable to change it.
And most important is that we need to remember
Not to keep using the horoscope all the time and create the present based on back-references.
There will not be a person for whom every single thing written in the horoscope becomes a reality.
For somebody, 90% of it would be accurate but there will be a variation in the remaining 10%.
For somebody else, only 10% of it would be accurate but there will be a variation in 90%.
The variation there depends on the variation we create here.
While shooting for movies, sometimes there would be a long gap. For example, 2 hours of shooting followed by 8 hours of gap.
And there a few people who could study horoscopes, would come to the sets sometimes.
So they would narrate about our past in detail.
But they would not predict about the future.
They were unable to predict the future.
Because they knew that a new future was getting created.
Beautiful.
I could see that 99.9% of them could tell us about our past accurately, but not predict our future.
It is not an activity went for time-pass.
We need to know its consequence.
If information got recorded in the subconscious mind.
Even if you ignored it from your conscious mind at that time saying it cannot happen that way, or that you will anyway cross it even if it happens.
The information is recorded and present in the subconscious mind. We really need to take care.
Even if the information is settled and recorded, either we need to learn to process that information.
Or despite having that information, we should learn to create another thought.
And if we do not have the power to do either of these, let us not even consume that information.
Every day create a destiny of your choice.
And it is getting created here.
What does it mean that nature is at our service?
Even planets will have the influence of Soul power on them.
Either we are influenced by something or something is influenced by us.
We can either get disturbed looking at the weather, or we can influence the weather.
Both options are there.
Only when we use our power, we will re-create our life daily.
We need to experiment this today with everything.
A few days ago I went for a programme.
And in my schedule I did not give subsequent lectures to other people.
I suddenly realized in the evening that I had fixed 4 back-to-back sessions for next morning.
Sometimes you meet different people especially when you are in another city. And then you oblige one person's request, and other and another too.
And that day I had a very severe viral cough. It was so bad that even if I spoke for 5 minutes I would cough twice. It was really bad.
Suddenly at night I was thinking about 4 back-to-back sessions starting from 6:30 a.m. until up to 3:30 p.m.
Continuous. Being unaware I had accepted the programme.
And I started creating this thought - how is it going to happen? Tomorrow it will just not be possible.
Then I said - I have accepted the programme, so let me change the thought.
So I created a thought - tomorrow all the four programmes will go on very beautifully. Health will be perfectly fine. Nothing will happen until 3:30 p.m.
I kept creating this thought just before sleeping, and I kept repeating it until I fell asleep.
I needed that thought to work on my body the whole night.
As soon as I woke up next morning, that was my first thought.
It was a beautiful experience for me that exactly at 3:30 p.m. I started coughing.
It was my programming that I should not cough until 3:30 p.m.
Because my programme was up to 3:30 p.m.
And because of a slight delay the last programme went on up to 3:45 p.m.
But in-between the programme, I started coughing exactly at 3:30 P.M
And later on when I realized and I saw the time
I knew that the whole of previous night and that morning I had been repeating the time as 3:30 P.M
And I got exactly at that time.
When we have such experiences we will keep getting a better realization of the power of our thoughts.
That is why God tells us - Think carefully. Think before you think.
Because whatever you are thinking is becoming your reality.
It was written in an article - Think before you think.
Think before you think because it is a conversation with the universe.
Thank you so much.
Om Shanti.
Om Shanti.
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EGYPT 2018: HUSBAND LEFT. COOKING WHAT I WANT. RAMADAN IS COMING SOON (English subtitles) - Duration: 10:37.
It's just wonderful on the street. Cool breeze. It's already quite hot. Very good, even cool. And warm.
And now with Dany we will go to Carrefour. It is next to our house. I wanted to show you.
Now before Ramadan in the shops have already appeared all sorts .... Dany: things. Yes, things for Ramadan. Now we will look.
Good day to all. It's morning here now. At us now morning 6 o'clock in the morning. Today is the first day for girls to take an exam.
Now I will raise them. Coffee only I will drink and I will lift them. So we have exams today.
Previously, a teacher came to Malak. Was engaged with her in addition. A man comes to the teacher.
What did I want to show you? I wanted to show you what I did. And what are you meowing? (the cat meows). Your food is lying down.
I wanted to show you. I was leavening cabbage. I have it today for 3 days. And I want to see her.
I pierced it with a wooden stick so that the gases do not accumulate. Did a little to sample.
But this is the first time, honestly for .... 3 or 4 years.
I somehow did a long time ago cabbage, fermented. I found a recipe on the Internet. But when I made it, Muhammad said: What is it?
It smells of rotten stuff. What are you here for the rotten stuff? We certainly ate with the mother of this cabbage, but of course I did not do it after that.
And now I can cook what I want, it's our food. We cook our food. My mom made cutlets yesterday.
Made the soup stunned. There is no barley here. But my mother made soup with pickled cucumbers. Potatoes added the meat balls.
So tasty it turned out. Here it is direct on ours. We were very pleased yesterday.
And I wanted to show you cabbage now. Now I'll get it.
I did not buy the dishes yet. I have such a large bowl. Below the cabbage. And here in my package is my weight,
Which I work out 8 kilogram. That's what I'm getting. I have everything here.
Maybe she should have followed. I do not know. I found the recipe on the Internet. What an old recipe.
Where cabbage is made without boiled water. Where cabbage is kneaded and salt is added. What else? And all in my opinion.
Here such here. I'll show you now. Here such cabbage turns out. I do not know whether it is visible or not visible?
Now I will try. When it is under the press, it is covered with juice. I'm going to try now.
I think cabbage is ready. I mean, you can clean it in the refrigerator.
Those. it gets drowned in water. But when there is a press, it is flooded.
Here she is this cabbage. Those. when you cant, there is juice.
As far as I understand, cabbage is ready. Today is 3 day. And so in it you can add onions and sunflower oil.
I'll see what you can add to the recipe when you do it. Well, in principle, not bad enough.
This I wanted to say that now I can cook our food without reservations. That something is not right. Salads are not the same.
So here it is. I went to drink coffee. Now it will be necessary to raise the girls. And getting ready to go to school.
It's just wonderful on the street. Cool breeze. It's already quite hot. Very good, even cool.
And warm. And now with Dany we will go to Carrefour. It is next to our house. I wanted to show you.
Now before Ramadan in the shops have already appeared all sorts .... Dany: Things. Yes, things for Ramadan. Now we will look.
It's all sold to Ramadan. Bread, take it.
Ready-made food is sold here. And here sausages, cheeses. Come on, Dany, take 250 grams of cheese.
Dany: What? Cheese, take it. Dany: Gouda? Well, everything is fresh here. Here, any salinity is sold.
Now take 250 grams of salami. Salami is sold here. In principle, the most normal of all sausages that can be bought here.
There the man costs to us cuts. Also you can buy long French baguettes.
Apples are hung. And where were the green apples? Dany: Green? Golden. 27 pounds a kilogram
Very good. Just 6 apples. Also sell raisins. Raisins cost 41 pounds of for kilo. This is what is sold before Ramadan. Dany: FINICIES
Cabbage is sold here. Milk we need to buy. Apply kiwi. Kiwi costs 18 pounds a kilogram.
Dany: Which ones to take? Take that were more or less soft. Like a potato. He lies like a potato in boxes.
Now let's go hang kiwi. This is spice. The choice of spices is very large. Department with powder.
Dany: Here comes the toilet paper. Female gasket department. There are not any tampons.
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Smiling Trick To Make A Woman Want You - Duration: 6:11.
Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. There's something
really special that I wanted to share with you today. I don't know how much
you've ever studied or looked up the research on smiling but it is crazy
powerful. They've written books on this. I mean there's tons of studies of how
smiling can massively impact a person's life. So on today's video what I want
to do is I want to give you a little trick, a little hack, something really
simple and easy to use when you're talking with a woman that actually gets
her more attracted to you when you're in conversation and again of course it
has to do with smiling.
We're gonna do things a little bit differently on this episode. What I'm gonna do is I'm gonna
be giving you the trick right now and then afterwards I'll tell you why it's
so powerful because I know that a lot of you are always complaining that I take
so long to get to the point like I'm doing right now. Alright let's get into it.
When you are with the girl what I want you to do is this. I want you to
look at her as if you're about to crack up.
Now bear with me. Don't leave just yet. This is gonna make sense in just a
second. You're probably thinking Tripp if I do that she's going to think
I'm laughing at her. We're gonna take it down a notch. Just imagine your
face looking like you're about to crack up. What would that look like?
Probably something like this, like you're holding it in. We're just
gonna take that like that. We're gonna take that and drop that about
75%. That's what this is gonna look like. As you can tell it's like this
smile that you're kind of holding back as if you're holding back excitement.
So that look of holding back that excitement and looking at her, by the way
I should really add to this hack that you need to be looking at her directly
in the eye when you're doing it and when you're doing this and you had this kind
of like built-up excitement when you're just like this, it's very flirty.
It's a very flirty smile. So she's gonna see that and she's gonna feel that
and she's gonna feel that energy from you. It's positive energy because you're
smiling and you look happy and also it's flirty energy because you're
looking at her and doing it as if you're excited to be talking to her and again
this is non-verbal so you're not coming off too needy and you're not coming off
too assertive or too aggressive. It's the perfect balance in why it works so well.
I want you to do that. You're gonna be doing it as you're talking to her.
Specifically, you're gonna be using it when you're listening to her. If she's
talking to you about anything, you're in conversation with her. I should also
add, this is gonna be used when you first meet a girl. If you've already known
her for a long time and you're doing this, it's not gonna do anything because
you might already be friendzoned. So don't think you're just gonna use this on a girl you
already know and it's gonna magically work. This is when you're first talking
to a girl. Maybe you're on a first date with her, maybe you're face timing her
for the first time off of an app. Maybe you're meeting her on the street, at a
club, at a bar, wherever and you're looking at her and you're doing that.
Don't do that the entire time of the conversation. There has to be
a range of different emotions to make it more interesting. If you're doing that
and you look like you're gonna laugh the entire time, it's kind of weird. But if
you just do it just a couple times in conversation when you're really deeply
listening to her, she's going to feel that energy. Why does this work so well?
I've given you a couple hints so far in this video. I've talked about positive
energy. When you're smiling you look happier, you look positive and that's
infectious. When you're with someone and you feel their energy, you
can actually get it on to you. That is called the law of state transference.
Your vibe can get easily transferred over to somebody else and vice versa.
You're kind of smiling because it's like this like half quarter smile where you're kind
of excited and that is gonna make her feel good. I didn't make this up. There
are studies a lot of studies like I said tons of studies done on the art of
smiling and why it works so well and the kind of effects it has and it's been
shown that it makes someone else feel happy. Also, a study was done that showed
that when you are smiling, you're actually seen as more competent because
if you're smiling, you're happy and if you're happy that means
you have your life together and things are going well and you're doing
life correctly and that is an actual masculine trait to be able to take life
and say hey I got this. It's confidence, it's powerful, it's courageous. Masculine
traits that are very sexy to a woman. I know this sounds crazy. All from just a
smile? Yes. We're combining this smile that I've created for you that has this
positivity but also like I said earlier, that excitement that excitement for you
to be around this person and her feeling that excitement, feeling that flirtatious
vibe and then her being like whoa this is a nice interaction because the exact
opposite of this is you looking at a girl all scared and shocked kind of like...
Swallowing a lot and freaked out, maybe not looking at her. This is
the extreme end of things and you're just like I'm scared and I don't know
where to look and I'm not smiling cause I'm not looking like I'm having a good
time cause I'm not confident cause I don't have this thing called life handled.
Or you wipe all of that away and you're looking at her and you're just like hmm...
Interesting. There's something interesting about you.
That's what you're subtly saying to her when you're doing this
face. So there's a little hack. Body language body language is what we're
talking about here and it's very very powerful. In fact I have a blog post.
I'm gonna put a link down below in the description and it's gonna give you four
hacks in terms of your body language that can get women attracted because body
language is more than just smiling. It's how you're overall presenting yourself and
it is 80% of all communication when you're talking to someone. Go check
that out in the description below, read that blog post and learn more. Write a
comment down below and press like if you think this is gonna help you and if you
don't, well try it out. Peace.
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Sketchy Secrets Dairy Queen Doesn't Want You To Know - Duration: 4:16.
For many American kids, one of the best things about summer afternoons growing up was the
celebratory trip to Dairy Queen.
Those perfectly formed cones and Blizzards filled with all sorts of goodness — all
was right with the world.
But DQ is definitely hiding some secrets, and it's entirely possible your family wouldn't
have taken you there if they knew some of the following facts ...
Not ice cream
Sure, you call it ice cream, and we're not going to tell you to stop.
We will tell you that you're not entirely correct.
According to Snopes, the truth is a little complicated.
The FDA has rules in place about what can and can't be called "ice cream," saying it
has to have no less than 10 percent milkfat.
There are a bunch of other rules, but basically, DQ's soft serve doesn't have enough milkfat
to be called ice cream, so it was originally referred to as"ice milk."
Since that doesn't sound nearly as good, the FDA allows products to be marketed with names
like low-fat or light ice cream, so DQ isn't technically breaking any rules… but they're
not serving you the "real" ice cream you might be expecting.
Top secret recipe
You've probably heard rumors about just how top secret KFC's fried chicken recipe is,
and those rumors are true.
Did you know DQ has a secret recipe, too?
"It's kept in a safe deposit box…"
"Really?!"
"... there's a few keys to it!"
As the basis for all their ice cream products, it's their most closely-guarded secret.
Not quite moderation
Today, DQ is more famous for their Blizzards than their soft serve.
According to Franchise Times, the candy-mixed Blizzard hit the streets in 1985, with Heath,
Mars, and Oreo all eventually joining the team.
But in 2016, Reuters reported Mars was considering pulling M&Ms and other candies out of products
like the Blizzard.
Their reasoning?
These sugar-packed desserts went against the message of moderation they were trying to
send to consumers.
Very guilty pleasure
No one's expecting something healthy when they head to DQ for dessert, but it's still
shocking just how bad some of their food and dessert items really are.
Check out their nutritional information and you'll find that even picking up a medium
Blizzard is likely to set you back between 20 and 30 grams of fat and around 100 grams
of sugar.
Go for a large, and you might be looking at up to 150 grams of sugar.
If you've wondered what makes DQ's grill items taste so good, it's probably all the calories
and fat.
A side of chili cheese fries will set you back 51 grams of fat and 1,020 calories, while
those breakfast biscuits and gravy are going to leave you filled up with 46 grams of fat
and 720 calories.
A guilty pleasure, indeed!
Food poisoning claims
While you might expect to feel a little queasy after eating a large Blizzard, you can also
accept that it's your own fault.
What's not your fault is when you're served something that makes you sick from the very
first taste.
In 2014, ABC Denver reported a 7-year-old boy was taken to the hospital after getting
a DQ vanilla shake.
"Something was like bubbling on my tongue."
"Bubbling on your tongue?
Was it burning?"
"Yeah?"
It turns out an employee had accidentally put vanilla syrup in a bucket that was soaking
in a floor cleaner and degreaser solution.
In 2017, a Texas man reportedly spent $20,000 dollars on his emergency room visit after
getting food poisoning from a moldy DQ burger.
According to the Dallas Morning News, in spite of being offered a coupon for more DQ food,
the man was planning on suing.
Safety problems
DQ probably hopes you don't take a look at their track record with the health and safety
inspector, either, because on top of having violations, many stores have been completely
shut down.
According to Consumerist, DQ had the highest number of health and safety violations in
the country in 2007, and Orlando locations averaged 13 violations per store.
According to WSB-TV, multiple Georgia locations failed in 2016 because of things like mold
build-up and improper food temps.
According to CBS News, that same year, Florida health inspectors found live roaches living
in a Temple Terrace DQ, and they were tipped off after people started complaining they
were getting roaches in their soft serve.
Of course, not all locations have these safety issues, so we'll just say, be sure to check
those health and safety reports before you stop into DQ for a delicious treat!
Thanks for watching!
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Truther Secureteam10: "They Don't Want The Truth Out" - Duration: 7:53.
The channel Secureteam10
that provides us daily
mysterious stories comes April 23 with
a very extremely disturbing story.
The number 1 leading UFO truther
aka specialist UFO researcher
shows that he is being trolled
and he suspects it is from Russia.
This is evident in his video
"They Do Not Want The Truth Out".
Let's find out what is going on....
I'm Heathcliff, Your Host,
This Is Lions Ground.
Tyler of Secureteam10 surprises us all
with a video that we are not used to.
Normally he comes with high-profile
UFO research videos and
extraordinary natural phenomena.
Tyler opens his book ...
he has enough!
The
Youtube channel Secureteam10
is being watched and
is the target of disinformation campaigns.
Who is responsible for it?
A kind of Counterintelligence apparatus
he says in the first 2 minutes in his video.
Tyler did not mentioned
the country of the country of origin
for fear that Youtube recognizes
the word
but in YouTube analytics
Playback Locations he points to one country
Russia
The die-hard truther
says with a disturbing tone
that he is more and more worried by the
number of dislikes and
hate speech under the
umbrella of this
Counterintelligence apparatus.
How is that possible?
How can you get more hatred
the moment you get more views?
Indeed, that is very mysterious.
Tyler explains that he monitors his
publication for the first 45 minutes.
He notices that the
number 1 UFO channel SECURETEAM10
receives 20-30 dislikes in the first
few minutes.
How can you dislike in the first few
minutes, while the videos are on
average 10-15 minutes long?
He receives a lot of mean comments.
Tyler shows several comments,
indicating personal attacks.
One of the haters knows the name of
the surgeon
who has treated his broken leg of Tyler
while Tyler never shared
the name of the surgeon.
I do not have +1 million subscribers
but I know exactly what Tyler
is going through.
I'll show you:
"MILITARY JET Chases TWO
Unknown Craft About California
DEBUNKED"
22 likes,
408 dislikes.
"Fake Whistleblower
DELETED Video Disclosed",
149 likes and 194 dislikes.
They swapped the 4 and the 9.
Comment by Rouzbeh Gh
"Hayy f*** head, how much do you get pay from
corporate- government and its little NLP
focus-teams to make such b****s claims?
HOW much the corporate media spend
on "popets" like you?
Do you think by labeling yourself as a
Dutch, you can gain more trust?
I believe whoever made you were a smart
b****d and knew what to put there so
people will fall for it.
It is clear to us that you got enough cash
from organizations that your whole
channel
and working 24/7 to keep the truth
hidden,
so you could chase down people like
Taylor
to make them physically, mentally and
financially
frustrated by dragging them from one lawsuit
to next one but believe me people like him
are "rasing" up every day in each corner of
the world.
Also, Tylor made right move to not
disclose his info."
I am just like Tyler, I think the truth is
the most important thing.
That is only possible with facts.
I too have to deal with a clan of haters
who all support one UFO channel that
attacks conflicting
factual content with dislikes
nasty comments.
Here comes the strange thing about the
story.
All accounts, shown in his video, no
longer exist.
Tyler, I know you're watching my videos.
At 5:19 you show the about section of
your hater Jay El33t.
Why is it that in your video I see an
edit button at the bottom of the about section
of Jay El33t?
Because if I try to reproduce this with my
Youtube channel on my Youtube account,
I fail.
But when I switch from channel to my
Youtube account, I see the same button in
the about section displayed in your video?
Now something different also about UFO researchers.
If you are a big fan of UFOs then I have a big gift for you.
In the video description, I will add links
that you absolutely must follow on Twitter.
If you're not on Twitter, create an account
quickly because you will always stay up-to-date
on the latest high-profile UFO news:
UFO of Interest, UFO Theater, hoaxeye
Alien Addict,
The Out There Channel,
Mick West of Metabunk,
Captain Disillusion, or
Lions Ground.
This is the end of this video.
What do you think of the Secureteam10 situation?
Share your opinion in the comment
section below.
Treat me to a black coffee once a month
if you like my work.
Become a member of my website
lionsground.com.
Get access to exclusive content,
live streams and more.
I'm Heathcliff, your host,
I'll see you in the next
Lions Ground episode.
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Actions and Outcomes - what do you want your future to look like? - Duration: 0:51.
Welcome to another Kalabra Coaching Minute. Today we're talking about actions
and outcomes. There's an old saying that I really like and it goes like this:
If you want to know your past, look into your present conditions. And if you want
to know your future, look into your present actions.
What we do today is going to determine what our future is going to look like. And what's really
cool is every day when we wake up we have a choice to make. What types of actions
do we want to take today to create the future that we want for ourselves, for
our employees, for our families, for our communities? We get to make those choices
every single day. So what are you going to do today to create the future that
you've been desiring for yourself? Think about it. That's been today's
Kalabra Coaching Minute.
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Bible Minute: I Want My Sins To Be Erased - Duration: 2:21.
Our sins prevent us from going to Heaven to live forever, but God has made a way for our
sins to be erased.
If you become a follower of Jesus, He will save you from the penalty of your spiritual
crimes.
So, how does a person become a disciple of Jesus?
First, you must believe in God.
The Bible says that "anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards
those who earnestly seek him" (Hebrews 11:6).
Next, you must resolve to no longer willingly sin.
The Bible calls this "repentance" (Acts 17:30).
The basic idea is that you are willing to allow God to transform your mind in regards
to your thoughts, attitudes, speech and actions.
A disciple should become more and more like Jesus every day.
You must also be immersed in water.
The Bible word for this is "baptism".
Those who desire to be a follower of Jesus must be immersed just as He commanded.
Jesus said, "Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe
will be condemned" (Mark 16:16).
The Bible also states, "...Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ
for the forgiveness of your sins..."
(Acts 2:38).
Lastly, you must remain faithful to Jesus until death.
Being a follower of Jesus is a lifelong commitment.
Part of being faithful is not being ashamed of Jesus, but rather being willing to tell
others about Him.
Jesus said, "Whoever acknowledges me before men, I will also acknowledge him before my
Father in heaven.
But whoever disowns me before men, I will disown him before my Father in heaven" (Matthew
10:32-33).
By doing the things which the Bible teaches and being fully committed, you will be more
than a follower; you will become a disciple of Jesus.
A disciple is someone who is continually learning and endeavoring to apply what he or she has
learned from their teacher.
The Bible also refers to Jesus� disciples as �Christians� (Acts 11:26).
Jesus said, "I am the way and the truth and the life.
No one comes to the Father except through me" (John 14:6).
There are many religions, but only through Jesus may we have our sins erased and live
forever.
Would you like to have your sins erased and become a Christian?
God has paved the way.
If you heed the good news and obey Him, you will be able to spend eternity with Him in
Heaven.
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Episode 6-"We want Equality" - Duration: 1:22:24.
Enough to town today ah
Got another another episode. You've said six
yes, six with farm till we
Tried one the other day, but uh it fucked out
So yeah, hopefully goes well this time
Hey gang guys here, we are I'm back with Joey we tried to do an episode we while ago, but I
Kept them fantastic here fuck the audio up my laptop is definitely doing upgrade, but yes, this is 2e
episode 6 episode 6
pleasure to
Have your acquaintance today?
Thanks for the room as well
twice
Champion this one for you
Wow 12, $5 don't sound me short
It's better than the last one oh
That's way better
those extra couple of dollars a warmer I
Think I like it a bit warmer
weather yeah
It's been an absolute peeler today guys. We're talking
mid 30s today
I think it's mean to be harder tomorrow as well
Just quickly we'll get you to tell us a little bit about yourself alrighty. I'm to II I
That's Frankie Frank
It's my dog
I'm in my fifth year coming up now of uni I'm moving up to Christchurch in a little bit I
Study social work, and I work as a support worker for kids with disabilities
Champion let's kick it off of Christchurch I
Don't know how I feel about Christchurch, and I get mixed reviews on it as well. I feel like
People who everyone who lives there kind of likes it mm-hmm well everyone loves this seems to like it
But then everyone outside of it seems to like kind of hate on it a little bit
I think that kind of just extends from like the earthquake thing
Yeah, I mean it's not to the same level as like gore and the cargo the no no no its doors
It's like yeah. It's the second biggest city isn't it let's bring in the mountain
It's yeah. It's the South Island's biggest today. Yeah, I think it's the second-biggest oh maybe Hamilton
I don't know. I don't know I don't think so I
Feel like so that's kind of as well you go for the fact check on that one folks
Yeah Christchurch, what do you reckon? What's the attraction? Um well it was either that or Wellington Wellington is just really too expensive
Laughing yeah, just not really and it's a bigger move as well Christchurch is a bit more manageable
And I kind of wanted to like end up like if I do my placement up there for Social Work
Then I can end up getting a job up
There is the goal in Christ Romania yeah, and then just been like a year or two there, and then perhaps either
Go overseas, or you know change cities
Yeah, we do you want to go overseas
I'm really interested to try like maybe Scotland or Wales
Wales
Always trust me out how Wales have their own language?
yeah, so I met these two Welsh girls when I was travelling and medical and
Yeah, that was what I found out
Native language everyone speaks it though, no no I think English is like the most still the most spoken but
It's still more prominent than Maori though
Yeah for sure yeah people can still speak fluently in it, and they still do use it a wee bit yeah
Yeah, that's that totally true
Yeah, Christchurch will be all good Eric, and I I think it's got some good shit happening for it at the moment
I think so especially with Mike
I mean the earthquakes are horrible and everything
But now they've kind of got money to like they hate to sort of redo everything to blessing in disguise
Isn't it like this positives coming out of it in terms of it you're making the most of it
Yeah, well they get a redevelop. They need to rebuild everything in this all quite modern. It's getting that I think like
10 years down the track maybe not even but it'll be OB legit pumping place or even is now like you go there
And it's just everything is so well done, and it's very like
Quite modern like all they've got cool apps
There's quite a few like called a bar popping up around the place as well like there's kind of garden outdoor bars type of vibe
shit
yeah, and there's also like a
lot of like
People up there like the people up there. It's kind of like different to need him because didn't like we're students
We're all like this student, and everyone's on the student buzz where people are actually like working full-time
Yeah, yeah, it's a whole different thing I
Friday's will be the big deal update. I suppose in terms of party. Yeah, I don't know
I don't know too many people party that they're much a couple
and
I'm hearing a good story
Lots of free drinks. It's good lots of free drinks people have money up there students like seeking donate money as students
I mean - I went to a gay bar once when I was there
And it was pretty fun bar
And they like the chill airs about it
I'm not saying that I thought they weren't chill about it at the start, but I was like yeah
I'm not interested bro, so huddle good
Maybe they still find that flicker. I hope I don't drink maybe
No, I actually like actually go over girl, they're like what are the chances who would have thought?
Really tasting today
Classy Christchurch will be cool that playgrounds legit as well that Margit May. He won
Oh, I've heard of that one ever mean to it. Though. Oh fuck it looks fun
I wish I was a kid you can like just go playing it. That's a bit weird if I do it now
Yeah, you kinda have to be like in the middle of the night and drunk yeah, and it's on
Maybe
On the to-do list I actually know a few people in Christchurch now
Yeah, I do
It's weird how like everyone's kind of like moving out moving around now
I had like a weekend away in Queens on last weekend
and we're like talking about how like
The next sort of time when people will be like getting together for big parties will we like we need like weeding season stats
mmm like people are gonna start settling down and
weird yeah, I've already been to one of my mates weddings and
super fun
so cool
Yeah, it's quite uh like
Mind-blowing really has like life is coming. It's coming hmm strap yourself in
But yeah, it's kind of scary at all
but exciting
Yeah, it's just a little bit like it throws you off away
But like it's like you feel like you've had barely any time at uni but realistically it's been like four years
Yeah, and that's a while like we like know let's go leavers anymore like we are definitely way past that I've been out of uni
For a whole year now, that's like that just went by in a flash
So
You know how so you're doing social work mm-hmm. Are they on the dole and stuff, or do they get like different types of benefits
Do you mean social workers nah? I mean your clients it depends
What agency you're working for like Social Work like people don't realize how very Social Work is like you've got the typical Otunga
Somebody key, which is like just like you normal social welfare sort of thing
But it's like Social Work is under such a broad spectrum of
Different areas like their Social Work is everywhere you get social workers in schools
You get in hospital you get them like when you go into disability
Like so many things are involved with so short mean to health
And we're leaning towards kids with intellectual disabilities. That's what I'm working as now. That's my
Just my job. I could see myself potentially getting more into it and like I think that'd be really interesting. I like kids
good
Fine like I like them, but I don't want to say no to anything though
Like I think I'm very open to whatever comes my way. You know yeah, just want to try anything or
agreeable
You know if you keep saying yes to things
Then that would be the same kind of being agreeable yeah, you know kind of agreeing just going yes everything
Yeah, well I don't like the thing is like when you first get out of social workers
You can't really afford to be like any degree you can't afford to be fussy with whatever job. You come across totally yeah
I think I'm just gonna say you so just recognize
Yes, man that shit loved that movie but um
Yeah, no use man that shit
to an extent you know
Social work you studied it as well right so that sorry yes
Sociology a No what is it BS w so Bachelor of Social Work degree social work?
So it's completely different to sociology
yeah, well we start off like first year is you do like a lot of it is sociology base so the
first two years as you're doing a lot of prerequisites and
some of those prerequisites are Social Work sociology papers a
Majority of them are a lot of it crosses over. Yeah, because it's all social theory
It's like the theories that we like going under like the ecological model and stuff like the theories that we're working with our all based
on sociological thinking ok yeah
So it's a Bachelor of Social Work with a major in
Social Work Social Work, you don't even have a major
Cuz I yeah, it's like that with music a Bachelor music, but I majored in
Performance and composition yes, we don't have that option. You don't have the major option. Could you do a minor if you wanted, okay?
Yeah, so you just strictly that yeah, it's like a C. Course was a quite an intense like um was it academically a
Struggle for you, or was it quite easy. Did you find?
just your personal opinion like I
Mean I found that like a lot of work because it's all internal
Yeah, which a lot of people like oh, yeah?
I know externals whereas I quite like externals like I'm quite good at like cramming and sort of like yeah, it's sort of retaining information
Everyone has their preferences yeah and internals, but yeah, well like internals. I just take so long and like
It's so much work like and they say that they space it out like they're all in the same department
But like they say they space it out, but like we had like four or five assignments due in one week
oh
Yeah
Like writing essays do you think he says like a good way to test to?
test knowledge I
Think it's good for your understanding of Rhys
I think I've learned like I've only ever really enjoyed one aside that I did and it was like Oh, Papa Modi
He said that I did like examining
What was it was it was moldy woman in the history, and I found that really interesting because was kind of a literature review
So we I packed like one article, and then I used other articles to compare it and critique it
Oh yeah, and I found that really interesting because it was like each sort of bit of a sort of it every bit of um
Research that I found it would
Lead me to more and like keep looking like you know the footnotes or whatever and like look up what heard they quoted me like
I can't write them too, and then add that in there what year was that that was last year, yeah
And I think there's probably actually sort of like the first time I've ever actually kind of understood how and you say what's supposed to?
Be done
Jesus
I
Thought those Lee sin that the glass deceived me, I thought it was just like a waste
Paint for words playing tonight in Dunedin as well well. No not Pink Floyd but
There's that one
So Social Work, I'm
More into the university side of things did you started off doing lore a yeah? That's right?
What didn't you like about that?
What what I made you change a
Couple of things like I didn't like the idea of
Representing people that I didn't agree with
And also the like case
Laura whatever it was like trying to pick a side
I wasn't very good at it like I just be like I can see the arguments for like I was I perceived both sides
Yeah, and I couldn't pick one
Yeah
I suppose like a lawyer should be able to see both sides as well. They should be able to represent both sides
Yeah, they have yeah, they should
Must be tough well, I feel like a lot of lawyers probably have a
Heap some moral barriers that they have to cross
in terms of their work
Yeah
I think it also depends on what sort of ear you get into and it's like I just wouldn't want to be stuck doing something
That I real that really wasn't that exciting to me like so sure I did one paper, and I absolutely loved it
I knew that this was like just for me. You know I didn't get that feeling with law
Mmm. You know probably same with music hmm
Yeah, was any music papers that you really didn't like
I think they're all pretty breezy. Eh oh
Yeah, they're all kind of bad. They're all pretty chill I've
Got to imagine music. It's got to be like one of the most chilled degrees
to be honest
Yeah, I was pretty cool sometimes I wonder whether I should done something else
Well it's the thing like what would have you done, I wouldn't have done anything else because at that age
I wasn't thinking about anything else
but you know hindsight's always an easy thing I
Like like I'm kind of interested in
This like psychology and stuff now
But something I could be interested in doing in the future would be doing like a PhD like trying to
Combine the two music and psychology and seeing all that what that what's happening there
There's gotta be a lot of shit going on there. Okay some like
Guesses of what's going on, but I haven't actually like looked into it
So that that's something I might want to do in the future I reckon
Depends on the situation yeah
No, it's cool
Yeah, I can psychology so cool, bro. I
Haven't actually done any psychology papers. I'd I'd neither I did one philosophy one well. I like philosophy as well
I've like I've always wanted to a philosophy paper is so interesting
It's Coleman all the ones that I did well the one I did Wow
Cuz I do a few classics papers as well which kinda is like philosophy a little bit cuz they've got like religious overtones to them
Throughout the whole thing pretty much
Stuff
Yeah, well the one paper. We did the one philosophy paper. I did was Plato. Okay. It was like 100 percent Plato
Socrates who was Plato but
That was cool. We just got to read like six Plato books and just talk about them in class and then
external was like
Just your standard essays
Another one I did four classics was one on Alexander the Great you know
It was cool. That was I really enjoyed that I've always liked that kind of ancient shit. Eh, it's fun. Yeah, I think it's cool
as I can
The really good storytellers, I reckon it's like
really good
But it's interesting like cuz I always had this bias against like religion and stuff growing up and like thought it was all bullshit
I don't know. I think it must have just been
Me being arrogant
Pretty much to me like that's bullshit. You know and not not even giving it a chance type thing
Ot oh, it's not even wasn't even whole T. Growing up though. No one. No one was into it
Maybe it was maybe as confirmation bias, maybe everyone else is like you know it's bullshit. I was like you know it's bullshit
but
There's a lot of bullshit like as in terms of if you read it if you're trying to read it logically and
Like factually it's pretty flawed. I feel like but if you're trying to read it for like
morality and
Methodically and like reading it like a story instead
There's some good shit to get out of it
And you know it's so I kind of like to view it as fiction a bit more now
and
Even though you know fiction is fiction. I mean, there's still a lot of truth in it like it's kind of almost more real
Than facts a little bit because they like they play out all the archetypes and stuff
That we all know so deeply like the archetype of a hero you think about that how that's used in like every single film
mm-hmm they obviously change the character shit, but you you look at the traits of the
Traits of a hero and you know like it's a hero like someone who steps out into the unknown
confronts the chaos
overcomes the chaos gets the prize
I mean the best example off the top of my head is like Shrek. You know
He's kind of like not a hero
But he is a hero he he leaves his safe bait his safe space of the swamp his companies like okay
I'll go out and to the unknown
Confront the dragon get the princess who was the prize
And he develops through it for the bitter so it's kind of like saying you have to leave your safe space in
Order to grow as a character kinda and fuck this there's good things to be found and the unknown, but there's also
Dangers and the unknown eg the dragon. You know it's not for the light hearted. You gotta be ready to face some shit
So I feel like that's kind of what a lot of the religious stories tell em like
Christianity and whatnot and it's the same thing with
With the classical stories like Alexander the Great and stuff, I'm sure that they're emphasized all has
All his great successes and whatnot button
Yeah, no I agree with you though, I think that's just good storytelling
You know that's always the goal is have someone you can look up to and admire ya and
see the value behind, I guess I
Really like films such as you know Harry Potter because it it shows a whole
It kind of shows getting bit nippy
It shows more than just the hero, you know Harry's the stereotypical hero, but he can't do it by himself that's the whole thing
That's everyone around him. You know Dumbledore's like the intellect that kind of like evil
Yeah, if it was like the little brave coward that improves Ron's the friend who's like
Kind of jealous, but like also like oh, I love you Harry
in a
Mine he's like just super smart
No
She does everything pretty much mm-hmm
I
Think was pretty cool. As well growing up getting to experience something like that and seeing such a strong
like
lead from those sort of characters, you know like it was cool seeing people valued for those sort of
Properties, that's the cool thing I like
They all represented a different part of being that is
They all represent different virtues kinda
But not it kind of also showed that not one person can hold all the virtues. No one's perfect
No one can be the perfect thing you need to have like a team of people
Who hold certain virtues so that you can work to give in use your strengths kinda like that's pretty beautiful theme?
Yeah, really you think about that you played that out in the real world. It's gonna work
Far more, and it's just about stepping out like that's why arrogant people can't do you know that's what they struggle to do is
Step back and see
What's been offered from other people who have different different skillset different virtues different values and also I gave everyone someone like it gave everyone
A character to identify with as well it did yeah
That's the thing it appealed to everyone. They could relate to something I who are you?
Who was my favorite character who dear can you related nice to?
See I would say you'd either be Ron or is it Sheamus
The guy that like blows shit up, I reckon yeah, you know I wouldn't say that I would say
The one who Hermione was poking a fabricator mm-hmm you Hermione
She was amazing though. She was just like such a good good hero, and such a good role model yeah
Yeah, she is she was uh so we both - well. I'm not saying. I'm Hermione. I'm just saying she was my favorite character
She was good. She's so hot damn she's good-looking
She's also really smart
And she's like thank you in real life man is she actually I'm just gonna. Sorry. I'm just gonna
there
She's in the real world Emma Watson. What does she do I've no idea what she doesn't realize? She's just Hermione
But she's gone to like a university like college and stuff in America
And she's also the UN Ambassador for woman you in investor forum or United Nations
So what would that role consists of she was the person that started the he Fushimi movement the water he for she movement
Could you could you explain that to me a little bit he for sure that's so that's feminism for me
So it's involving meaning the conversation and saying look we can't get here without you hmm
We need you to help us and it's say standing up and saying
Like I'm for you. I'm for supporting you getting in this getting
Getting support from males to help woman yeah
Yeah, and having them stand up and say look we see it's a problem - we want equality. Okay, yeah
Would you class yourself as a feminist understand like um like a third wave feminist or?
Yeah
Yeah, I guess I mean there's lots of different types of feminism. I mean I think the best
I mean
so what's your definition of feminism because I feel like this has been a lot lost and and
The conversation, but since like it started back in the late 19th century
Like well the first wave happened and that was that was pretty much for like
Yeah, and just getting into the workforce and shit, yeah
And then the second wave was like what the 60s and that was more about like sexual harassment
And reproductive health and stuff reproductive health and equality of opportunity and whatnot
I'm not sold on third wave I can see those two I agree if those two
The third wave seems you tell me what your type of feminism is I?
Mean, I don't think there's necessarily a type. I think anyone's supporting each other is the best way to go like supporting woman
I
understand how people might not see it, but I think it's I
Think the best way that I find sort of describe which people would be
Like looking at the things that you can do that what might make me feel uncomfortable like
You are able to walk by yourself
downers straight in the middle than I and not feel like
Unsafe means it's likely you're more likely to be attacked as a man yes
But at the same time we have an inherent fear that we are taught and you know you're taught
With you know you're taught to walk with your keys and between your fingers, so you can like yeah
I think that's definitely a part of woman's nature that they are that you can't really deny. It just the fact that me and I
Have that physical prowess over females yes, it's not even that though. It's the fact that it's like there's like it
Like sexual harassment and sexual assault was so common in New Zealand
Like it's like 1/4 or something
I mean all get sexually assaulted like that's ridiculous, and you can't say that that's a woman's problem one for harassment
sexual assault
What's assaulting?
It could be it's I mean people wait ok look at all right for instance look at like that glitter
you know that the woman who was walking around with a minute apps, and she was topless and
Some dude grab her boob
This year rhythm vines no rhythm in Alps, okay, I think yeah, I think was women else so like over in Central
And a lot of people were saying that she shouldn't have had her boobs out and it's like
well, why not it's her body and no one has the right to touch it and so anyone standing up for the person saying it's
Anything like it's anyone that touching you without your consent
anyone
not
acknowledging your autonomy as a woman and
Insulting that
Well, he's taking advantage of that is the issues that we still have okay. Yeah, I I understand how that would
Be very annoying frustrating just to play devil's advocate on the situation, and then you've also got the pay gap
There was advocate on that situation I
Think
is as a guy if you do see a
female
With her breasts out mm-hmm
it's
Kind of embedded in their nature to be attracted to that and want to look at that. I'm not saying they're that means we
hmm, okay
But that's super dig in there and when you think about that the reason that you're looking at
Boobs is a biological thing and it's because you're looking at a potential for a mate mm-hmm
And so if we take away the sickness of them water boobs actually therefore they're there to feed children
You're looking at a woman
I would also say they're there to attract males as well, though
But even then it's also showing that their potential is to feed children
It's what boobs are there for that's why you're biologically looking at them. Yeah, so
from there
You're not it's if you think about in a non-sexual way
You're just looking at our potential partners mate and thinking there's someone who would give
Give me healthy children yeah, and so like boobs aren't
Sexual they're just not it's not something that's there that it's a sexual thing, but they are for me, but they've been sexualized
There's a difference you
Think so cause I think that that might be part of their and better nature to be attracted to that even though you're saying
That's biological that we we see them when were like oh shit
Think we boil as you think okay?
potential partner good like
good for the kids and whatnot but
That's attractive to us, but that's what the attraction is and we we don't consciously think
We aren't consciously
Boobs have been over sexualized like look at woman who gets shamed for breastfeeding in public
Realistically that is what they are there for yeah, I know mate
Maybe they have been over sexualized, but like I don't think women have like
help themself in that matter though because
I think that they with women do wear more revealing clothing in nowadays and considering it looking back like a hundred years ago
thank you for sure fair enough like I
Mean do what you want to do like it's your body. You should be able to and if that makes you feel good and
Yeah, if that makes you feel good, but I also want girls that
have flaunted their assets will say and then they feel uncomfortable because me and are looking at
The assets that they're just playing with more eg cleavage or something mm-hmm, and they feel uncomfortable because I mean are looking at it
But we I feel like you've got a you kind of said it yourself. It's biological
to be attract yeah, but is this
It's being attracted, and he's just being a perv. Yeah, yeah
different I mean if you were just talking to me and you're talking to my chest like I'm not saying it's
kind of being a bit of a dick
But its differently it definitely is provocative if you're gonna walk around with a shirt. That is sporting your cleavage a lot
Can you not see how that might provoke me in to be I'm not saying anything harassment snot, okay?
But it's saying that they that I have the right to dress however
I want and not have someone come off and grab me yeah grab you I don't think that's fine
No, and that's what I think you should be like if you're ready to dress up. How you want and look sexy
Which is I mean that's kind of what they're going for right? They've got to be if they are flaunting
The assets they've got to be trying to attract the opposite sex right is that not that main goal not necessarily
There's also been studies saying that women dress up for other woman you want to impress other woman
So you're trying to make them jealous well, yeah, you're trying to be the most attractive person
most attractive person but attractiveness would be based from a male's perspective wouldn't
Yeah, but you still on those that opinion of the other woman to be jealous, but yeah, okay?
Yeah I understand that
But there's gonna be sight like the the side effect of that is that me and they're gonna be attracted to you. Yeah
and there's nothing wrong with me and coming up and talking to you like that's a
That's and I'm not saying that it's like I mean we're talking now like mmm like that's not the issue here
The issue is harassment in a society okay, yeah, I don't know the harassment rates at all or anything well
I mean is like have you been to town and have you seen guys like going up engraving girl asses
Like you can't say that you haven't seen I have seen yeah, and it's just things like that
It's like why the fuck has anyone got a right to do that yeah
I'm not saying that anyone should be able to do that though
That's not what I'm saying. I think that's wrong yes
There's also things like promotions and like
and
Pay gaps and different unpaid work versus paid work like who does more in a household and stuff okay? Yeah like that's still an
Unequal thing which is something that we all individually have to address, just um just back to um so your definition of feminism
feminism would be
Equality equality of opportunity yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, sweet yeah, so that's kind of more of a second wave thing
But it's also a third wave because it's we want opportunities for everyone and
everyone be able to
This is go out and go after the same things. This is a step. Yeah. I think yes third way still does be
Kind of representing that but they were represent a lot of other things and there's a lot of kind of
misconstrued though
Have you ever seen the documentary the red pill?
So it's this feminist
Who does
Goes and tries to find out
Someone Jay
But um she was a feminist and then she's are trying to find out the means in our in the men's rights
Like medicine or whatever yeah, it's the guys that are
Saying that hey, it's not so hard it's other side of feminism does the man side of feminism pretty much actually for men hmm
At the end of it, but it's not what feminism just because feminism has a female pronoun doesn't mean it's not supporting quality
You know I
Decide feminism is for me
Yeah, totally but um I feel like so this documentary basically showed this feminism
Transform to go against what now was classed as feminism this third wave feminism cause it's turning
People saying that it's turned into this
kind of man-hating fueled
Movement and
This is the stats I think it's about 80% of people
Believe that there should be equal equal opportunity between the sexes mm-hmm, but only about 14% of people
are feminists
Mm-hmm so you see what I mean, they're not the same any meds. It's not because it's been their word has been taken
one out of context
Into, it's been given like ideas that really isn't like it's a whole man-hating bra-burning sort of idea like
It's not passing some bad hashtags like kill all white men
I've never seen that one, but it's like it's things like the meter movement
It's like how many girls are coming forward and saying yes, I've been sexually assaulted
like majority
Like I don't want to say it
but like there are a lot of girls that have been and
Is there the society that we want to be a part of no we want to raise our mean and our woman to?
Not support that and not be okay with it when it happens
the other side of that
as there's been a lot of
False accusations as well that's inaccurate as a
joke I
remember because this was something that we learned that we looked at in sociology, and I've and
It's one of those things that out of like say a hundred people
to
Accusations will be incorrect. They're right. I don't know it's I've definitely I've definitely like herds and false accusations like firsthand
Yeah, well that's that's a shame that you've heard that
Doesn't help but like how do you know that how do you know that they're false?
because
Cuz they got proven wrong by their surrounding people like the majority
and that's how that's how it should work all that said I'm
That's really just haunting to hear because it's it makes everyone else who's coming forward
Feel like they can't when those sort of things are coming up and portraying that image is something. That's a regular thing
Stops people being upper come forward the other thing. That's bad about that. Is that women are lying about it
Sometimes mmm to try and get this victim status and put me in under
Okay, but the majority of them are accurate and so the men that have there need to be held accountable
But to sexually harassing and assaulting people not advocating for sexual harassment here at all no but - like
Not helping your cause if people are gonna lie about it, but to paint everyone with the same brush is not
But the best way to do it works both ways
You can't pay to over meter with the same breath, but we not that's not what the movements about yes
But it definitely seems like it's kind of moving that way a little bit. It's not it's not painting if
Basically all the main thing to get away for anything about sexual harassment as if it is wrong if it feels wrong it is
Like if there is if you're holding a hug
You know like okay the whole thing that came around. It was like I can't even hug a colleague now at work
it's like if you are holding a hug for too long, or if she didn't go in for it and
She's standing there uncomfortable
And you can tell that it is wrong like it's just it's just like looking at those things and not doing them. You know I
Get when you mean
But and when someone's trying to pull away, and you're still holding it
Okay, yeah, I get I get it. Okay, so what happens okay?
What happens if there happens to a man then is
That sexual harassment as well, or does it not work both ways of course. It works both ways meaning is sexually rest as well
Yeah, okay, okay? That's good. That's good
People don't say a lot of people don't believe that no I think one of the key things there is it's like
Often women like okay, so how idea of like violence?
Like not all men a violent however violence
Benefits all mean because dead threat of violence causes woman
To act in a certain way, you know you get I mean
Yeah, like you're policing yourself because of it's like that threat of walking in the dark by yourself
You know it police's you from doing it. I get ya that yeah, I can understand. Why women are scared
I understand that not all women either. No not at all especially out a few drinks
But um
Yeah, like there's the my main
Worry is I feel like this third wave of feminism and maybe even it's probably even moving more into a fourth wave now has got
A lot of men hating in it, okay?
Well, it's said that you feel that way but is a few minutes from that it's not what it's about
It's about creating an equal space and a safe space for all of us so
We don't have such huge rates of male suicide, and we don't have such
disparities in the workforce and
woman feel like they can go over kids and it'd be okay and
Mean feel like they can stay at home, and be stay-at-home dads, and it'd be okay totally I agree with that
But yeah, this is what I don't think that's what the the movement is representing anymore. I really I don't know
What examples of you okay apart from the hash tag like what other examples we've got of like being like mad at men okay?
so
There's kind of like this thing you'll know mansplaining mm-hmm
So that's kind of just a term that some feminists like to use
to
Kind of discredit a man trying to explain something
It kind of it's kind of just it's being
Denoting a man's opinion, so that's kind of its mean assuming that women don't know is where that comes from
So it's mean assuming that woman don't know about a subject
I remember I was watching a really funny example of like it was like the Prime Minister of Norway. She's a woman and
They were in this like economics committee meeting and this dude was explaining to her like what interest or something was
And another guy leans over and goes to her we go to that guy explaining
You know she's got the highest education and he cannot mic setup anyone in this room mm-hm
and it's just things like that just assuming they don't know and
Getting explained to you
There happens to me and just as much I'm sure it does but like it just it's been interned explain something
That's not a problem with me
And I'm not sure it happens as much though
Like is it a regular occurrence for females or females to explain things to you that you ready know about
Just as regular as a man, yeah
Yeah, it's heartily
I
Dare say I did say more often I would
But my cam
Maybe that's just you they can't yeah
That's what I'm saying. It's a case of case thing
It's not a man, but it's a term that we can all like laugh it and be like oh my gosh
There was a funny example like it's it's also unity as well. Yeah, okay, okay, so that's the other thing like it's
Like what you just said that where you can laugh at
Whereas we can't laugh we can't do the same back
Because then that is misogynist
But I guess it's like
You guys already have the upper hand and this playing field like you guys are like
Okay, the best position you can be born into in society is a white male
agreed
What do you mean by that like in terms of like genetic lottery
If you're gonna be born into any position in society I'd say for the best of Western culture
Based opportunities it is male
well, and white if you're talking from a biological just be no for
for the best like chances in life
Statistically you're better off two people in a white male. Okay, maybe because of the biology that comes with
males and the personality types it no
It's not personality. It's to do with
Position of society that you're born into so say you're a white male there are more mean than a white male in
positions of power and
They're more likely to hire someone that they see as
The same as them
Okay, yeah, this is this is I don't think you can categorize. White me and like that
I really don't think you can, but this is this is proven that um
There's more difference
Within a group, then. There is between groups
Okay, so if you want to categorize all white men as though. They're privileged which I'm not saying that it's everyone's approval
Everyone's got the orange struggle. That's not what I'm saying
I'm not saying it, but you're saying the best position you could be in yeah
if you had to if you had to pack out of
every single like
Option that you've got so you could be maybe a black man or a black woman, or you know
An Asian man, or you know etc
Mm-hmm the best option you could pack would be white man
You cannot disagree with it. Yeah, okay, I might probably have the best opportunities, but at the same time like is that not like that
Not just like mean being like okay
You're born a white man, so now. I'm gonna class you as though you've got this privilege and that
That's what you are
You're still gonna make yourself out of something. Yeah for sure you it's not dismissing your success
But it's like let's say someone
I mean is the same thing with privilege and entering general though like it's like someone who's born into say a really well off family
you're gonna have better life chances and someone who's not
Used to you're still gonna work for it, but you're not necessarily gonna have the same struggle that out of family has yeah
The thing I feel like is
white man might be getting blamed for being white men
Which we didn't perk just I don't I don't think that's an issue
Sophistical either wise do you guys still make a lot more money and you?
Have like there's like less crime rates
Poverty is a lot blade
It's not. It's not they're bad for you guys compared to like other races
Yeah
Like I think what do you want? What do you want? How was that air fault though? It's not your fault
That's not what I'm saying. Yeah. Okay. Okay? Well. What are you saying then just there? That's that just said it's a privileged position
Yeah
You just have to acknowledge it like that's it's it's not a hard thing to do
Hmm like I acknowledge my position is a white female society in a Western society like I'm very privileged mm-hmm
yes, I do believe I was born into a
Into a not a privileged position, but a very good position hmm
But like I don't know
What does it's like you have to by recognizing that privilege?
You can deem help equality within a society and just making it more equal with life by acknowledging it and like pointing it out
It's like it's evening the playing field for everyone else
Okay, yeah
Yeah
But as well as that also another point on your like
a feminist thing and how you think it's man-hating I
Mean that's an example of privilege there. It's like people who are
Who have been proven to have had more sexual assaults happen more domestic violence?
There's the pay gap as well as that less precision less promotions
You've got you're getting it like at least out of education than like a male would hang on
By
You expecting us not to get angry about that
It's privileged talking like it's a shitty situation
Don't expect people to not get mad about it. Yeah. Yeah, I hear you
I just feel like there's more variables than gender and race oh absolutely
And that's where intersectionality intersection now Ali feminism comes into it, which is you're acknowledging all the different?
aspects that come into it's not just
Intersectionality kind of points back toward on driving yet, which is individuality?
Intersectionality you take it to like six extremes of intersections
You're to the individual. You are one in a billion
Mmm-hmm so that's back to the individual so it gets rid of all this class guilt
We still have to acknowledge it we select to see it
For us to make any difference to make it society more equal as you have to acknowledge your privilege and be willing
to fight for those who
Aren't in that position to be able to do it for themselves I?
Hear yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm not saying you shouldn't help people. I'm saying yeah
I definitely agree if equality of opportunity and fairness in society is always gonna be corruption in the world. There's no doubt about that yeah
but
Blaming a whole class of white male for him
But it's not blaming white male its sang acknowledged that this is the best bring it when like I'm not
It's not because I'm not turning around and saying every male
Sexually assaults every female. Yeah, it's not what it's not what any of us are saying because it's not
A little bit going on I don't think so okay. I think you're wrong. We gonna. Have a difference of opinion there
That's not what that's not will be saying. We're not saying that but we're saying it goes on
You know that it goes on acknowledge acknowledge that you see it, and then when you see it do something about it
You've seen that you've seen girls get their asses grabbed in a club
Stand up for them
I'm giving you an example of when you haven't and that's using your
Position as a male and of being a little bit more dominant being able to push someone off and say yo, that's not okay
Yeah
Well you don't have to be aggressive about it
What's gonna lead to aggression?
What's stopping it okay? Well then and of itself isn't it terrifying?
Can you not acknowledge that if they're dead?
You're scared to push a guy off and say that how on earth do you think a girl feels who is?
Biologically a lot weaker than him. Yeah. Yeah, but like if it's just a I'm not saying Oscar everything's fine
but its she's not under necessary a
Ripe fruit in the club she's not gonna get raped in the club
Yeah
Where do you want to say that people haven't been raped in clubs I don't know not in New Zealand probably I
Don't know don't weaken Google is right now
Hurt me, okay possible laptop you phone
How about how about we have a break okay?
Hate it. Oh
Song each yeah, what are we running um?
Nancy Mulligan Nancy Mulligan very good coming at y'all
Classic heed beautiful soul beautiful voice
So yeah, what'd you find out?
So there are differently lot quite a few instances
of people being raped in clubs in New Zealand, okay, unfortunately
There are also clubs. That sucks. Yep. They're also clubs about rape such as roast Busters. Oh, that's horrible
I found it was that
That would
Rape unconscious underage girls and put it on Facebook. Okay. What do you think that?
Just to kind of twist it a little bit. What do you think that um?
tenders doing towards
These feminist values in these this rape culture. Do you think that is playing a role?
Anything about tinder in general. What are you thoughts? I?
mean
It's making everything way too easy mmm like in terms of
It's literally just based off looks for one and then you find out about a person, and then you meet up
And it's not it's kind of just like
Like there's nothing like that exciting about it. You know
Whereas like I mean like the other day. I didn't have money to pay for parking and so
this was really sweet and
So I went
So I was talking to like the guy about it, and I was like look I don't have money to pay
I'm really sorry. He's like. It's alright. Just like leave
it's fine, but there was a dude that have been like listening to our conversation, and he just paid my parking ticket and
Then wrote his number on it and said you're welcome, and it was just like that's a really sweet thing to do man
Yeah, and it's like those sort of interactions like they don't have it like that was really nice
You know it was like someone being a genuine like Cooper. Oh, dude. No. Oh nice. Good on that guy
Mm. It. Was just like a really sweet nice things doing you
Don't really get to see that a lot nowadays
And I'm not necessarily saying that people should be like paying for me or anything, but it's like
It's this it's like it was just like the little nicer wallet. Yeah
It was a little thing that like me
Diane made you feel like a little bit special it kind of takes that like specialness out of it you know
Yeah, okay, so for you tinder is um
Taking away the novelty of that male-female interaction, I guess so it just makes it very easy hmm
Yeah, cuz what do I feel what I find with tinder is that?
There's different drivers
For why people who are on tender? I think some some people a lot of people use it for six
mostly of the male population I would say and they're very optimistic
That you will reply
And then I
Think that I think a main motivation for women will be to get that kind of like a
validation their ego boost kinda a little bit, they're like oh
people think I'm attractive condom, and I think that they probably enjoy that motion that kind of
Amount of people who actually just want to make friends
Probably not the right platform to meet I need to make one for that that eirick
And I think there is some
It's like do
I really want that for Christ Church because I feel like I don't know in our faithful here mm-hmm
And like I'm really nervous about the whole like so she's like cuz it's like you come from Geneva
And we you've got like your friends everywhere. Yeah, I
Mean like I've been like looking at I've been like looking at places, and I found a wine club, but it's like older people oh
Right pissing up folder people me, too
Or I can do fucking good times cuz they they capture the chase and they express their opinions whereas
Well, they're also more set in the opinions as well because as you out as you get already kind of crystallized into your own view
Of the world how you think everything's working, which is just natural and it doesn't mean you're right, or doesn't mean you're wrong
you'll be writing some things wrong other things, but
Yeah, at least I would like to tell you how they think it is most of the time
So that you can kind of just do like the hey, hey guys
What do you think about this and then
Whereas younger people might not for one not have an opinion, too
Copy someone else's opinion that they don't even know
But like claim to be their own
three
Too pissed - pissed
Like that's what I like doing that when I'm out and when I'm out in town and stuff well
that's why I don't like town as much because there's not as much talking that you can do it's always so loud and whatnot I
Want to have like I fuck the fucking back bar of the cook?
Remember the outdoor area of the cook did I?
Did you did?
Yeah, that was so cool cause like all talking leave all everyone's personal Frisch's pretty much more or less
It was just on find all the jugs like yeah, the cook was so mean
They shouldn't have fucking got rid of it, but clearly they weren't running off it
And everything's going actually
The country
I tried to sneak into that up the fireworks at once
We got cool
It's fun though I would always go for this dude you mean the fever
Was like on the way to town, there's like a it's like an oldies bar kinda it had like a head the under floor lights
And the stripper pole yeah great time, but um yeah
it was never it was never really that packed and they had these awesome shakers they get and
Then um
yeah, there's quite a
There's some older characters in there, and then there was like some younger people in there going
I'm kind of having a bit of a laugh and whatnot and they played great numbers great numbers
Anyway, this was back fence and that was the first club. I went to
yeah, just climb over that back fence so easy I
felt like a boss
When did you first get into like a bar I 16, I use yeah a fakie
Man girls mousqueton will fake he's way easier again fuck so many girls. I see like 14 year olds now at you 25
Are you 25 some people look so old like you? I wish I knew how to do that
I wish I knew how to look or not I
Feel like I look so young
I'm not looking you do look quite young I'm not getting asked for ID as much nowadays, though
So I'm so don't get our ID I'm not I'm like do I look like
I'm kind of like
Birds definitely make a huge difference. It's because it's me
It will be it's a big thing because you're not allowed to ever be in high school. Yeah
so if you can't it's not just having a beard as having like a not like a
Thick beard not just like a we kind of like patchy little thing here, but actually like growing here. You're proud of it
And I'm actually it's quite long
Do shape it
I turned it last week
It looks very shaped, but I am yeah quite shaped it last week a bit I gave it
I gave it a number seven last week fancy
Yeah, I'm gonna go for a number eight soon, but then that's my highest here Club, but I've got soon
Then I'm just gonna let it once I do a number right
Let it grow how big not only for like another month, so
I get that big because I want I don't want I want to shave it off touch Nance I think
Does it make you, I don't know look, but I definitely sweep more now, so I'm gonna say yes on
Your face yeah, I sweet heaps up here and sure okay. I reckon it must a must like we age
Hey, yeah, I'd say that probably a variable as well
But yeah, I think I'm not like it must make it hotter surely, oh yeah, thanks right here, I'm sure yeah totally
Yeah, I should shave my hair off as I just go completely bald my eyebrows. You could donate it
How would I do that? I don't know why here you donated your hair
Are you donate it to the wig foundation was only yeah freedom week since Needham. They're right?
Because it's definitely like once I chop my hair off. That's it. I'm not going my hair back again, but
We'll grow really long and at least donate Exene so it can go to someone who actually needs
Yeah, I probably when I do do it. I'll probably like
Such a staple now look like really
I
Know I only got long hear about that about the start of 2016
I started being able to tie my hair up really badly to like I could only just tie it up
Was he like the musician look okay? It's like good musician look. I'd wanted here for a long time
long here for a long time
Yeah, and then
But there's always that there's this awkward phase where it's too much in your eyes
But you can't tie it back and I always always landed on sports seasons
Yes, I was just like I can't I can't play sport if I have my hair like this
so I had I'm just gonna at the chopper, so then I just didn't play sport one season and
Then I just went for it got it done, and now it's fine once. It's out the way. It's fine
It's just that real awkward zone of half long. How short that you can't tie it
It's a real bear
Yeah, I mean you can also skip to the point as well away, but which is probably a bit easier
But like a good part of it is
If you are gonna be seeing someone you do have to be physically attracted to them really yeah
So first like a little bit, but it's at the same time. It's like I
Think the thing with tinder is it's like
They're people. They're going on the affair fuck
I mean there's people that are going on the edited like have a date and like it's not someone
I think that's when it gets a bit confusing because it's like you don't know what people's intentions
But there has been like these different dating platforms arising where it's
Like
For academics or some bullshit tinder for academics and then like bumble has the one where the woman has the message first
Yeah, which is kind of cool because most of the time on tinder a guy will miss it first
Not a high success rate of getting a reply
Maybe it's me
What's your
Line I'll mix it up come on. Let's hear a few I
Get bored I normally try and
No, no we'd go for something that
Relates to one of their photos or their bio or their Spotify anything? That's on their profile try say something
Yeah, we went on ten today once that was kind of how we
Mainly meet each other meet each other at party
Parties great, maybe it wasn't even like a party
I know have in your house some hell that wasn't my house or your friend's house no, Jess
Jake's house no. Well I was there
It was around. Yeah, cuz that was it not oh, yeah, Bacon's
Like yeah, that's pretty much. Why we talk to each other cause like never asked were that pissed yeah
That was
My initiations do it, but it wasn't even initiation
I know I know
But like you just did it because I felt like it some of these initiations are so much worse as well, though
That's the thing I've a band now initiation thing yeah
What do you think about that I
mean I get
Tradition but then there's there's disgusting shit that should not happen, and I feel like pelicans have one of those things
Woman someone's melt. That's so gross. It's disgusting. It's go beyond hygienic anyway, but um
Yeah, I don't know I suppose it's just the attack
I think a taco you knees just trying to lose that kind of scarfing name a
It's been here for so long it's not gonna just leave oh, I think it's diminishing though. I think like it well
Just don't know like my mom and shit
It sounds like was way more hectic back then yeah, but they always say like that's like
But we understand the riots and shit
But they had like you know do you know the Gottis yeah, yeah like when the marsh see there was a pub?
Yeah, yeah, but there was someone got shot there
Hectic, but it wasn't even a student. It was a gaming but come came back and shot someone
Yeah, but it still it's still in the student student Ville. You know it's part of the culture still attributed to the sky
Yeah, I mean like hide straight and stuff
Yeah, yeah
Mad that's what I mean. Well. I feel like it is dimande 500. That's that doesn't have anymore I
don't know I think I think students will always just get pissed and
Have extremes
I know, but I think's Dunedin got a real sense of community though
compared to like most you knees
Understandably, so like we are surrounded by each other hmm. It's like the SEPA pool
This little bubble of hormones all cramped in there's one place doing in the exact same stage in life
bullshit a new way through uni
But mainly pissing up
Because the only thing that we can afford to do
That's fun
It's great
No it has to be on form for a pelican
No it has to be like real real real fucked up
And under some serious peer pressure
some serious papers
But man, I don't know that peer pressure. Okay, good I
Hope I burst on the camera
No, I'm just trying to remember the night that we meet though
Because I ended up back at your place
Because we're just hanging out and I was talking to your friend because he's just broken up with his girlfriend
No, no, no you didn't end up in my place. You might have ended up at the other place in between
Cuz oh, maybe I don't know but like we we were neither like
Like even talking that much. I was mainly talking to your friend because he was upset
Yeah, I can't really mean that
He was upset I mean, but I remember their
Parties Pisan best parties are the best
I was like a Monday as well, I think
Two years ago yeah because you were like I'm leaving nice to meet you
I couldn't
So you know, but that was like a fun I
Tended so much fun. If you go out on dates with people well we had a fun day
fuck yeah, fuck
Yeah, got the conversations flying. I have the best conversations
Yeah now that was me not carve away fuck our ball is beautiful no
Fuck it is beautiful
Use your mum's car yeah minko
Right
Fuck Dunedin actually Loki has some mean scenes around day
It's one of those places like I can't wait to like bring friends back like and be like oh, yeah
This is where I went to uni and like will go to all the walks and like go to st.
Claire and like you have like lunch at starfish and like there's so many nice things, dude
no way, you know I've just always taken them for granted because
Dunedin has always just been
Right there. I mean coming from the big dirty clothes rip
But yeah, just an hour up the road is like I never really well in general
I'd never really look to sightsee and like do the nature things and whatnot
until I went to America and then I was like well, I better get out and do some shit and then
Then I was like holy shit. This is mean. Well. I should go just like man
I don't even know where the fuck. I live like let's go look around that place
Since then drive the new to New Zealand, New Zealand
Great little country. We've got here
When you say like do the walks do you mean like the big big motherfucking walks, yeah like the great day years old
Yeah, the great walks of fun
Doing one
Neither but that's the Lord of the Rings yeah, no Johnny, I mean, I don't do that one
There's one on the west coast you walk for like 8 hours. You end up in a natural hot spring
Sorry I've got a really sore back
That's me off man, I have like a slip vertebrae in my back just now and then just always plays that I know
It's actually been pretty good
But man it was a burden
There's a burden you got any bed like injuries or anything that just fuck with you not really
I overly flexible like hips and then kind of like
Running I'm supposed to do like physio some shit, but it's like they take so much time on a good day
No
Yeah, did you yoga?
Not very good things things like in one place like I'd like to like go do things
Yoga is kind of moving there
Yeah, but it's still in one
Spot I got yeah. Oh yeah, so your environment has the judge, yeah
Do you like our walks and stuff?
I've been running about lately. Oh yeah. How's that going? It's good problem. I've hurt my back now
Where do you normally run like just around the streets, or do you go to the gems line napped like the reservoir?
And then he'll I mean down what whore and stuff I still haven't been in the reason why?
It's closed at the moment you have to like cross the stream and do another part of it instead
Well there you go, you're missing out doesn't mean
It's native remember I tried to do it one day
Just like this way they ended up like a random spot back on the streets I
suppose this isn't
Lots of science I think we're trying to be adventurous
Now you can't have to follow the trick because yeah, you kind of like following like push up through
Like couses on either side sort of thing hi
Can you drive up to it, can I yeah can you drive right to it, yeah?
I mean because you got the reservoir, and then you got pineapple track which leads you up like Flagstaff, ooh
Curios Fran costs the dog Frankie oh
I
Wanted to close with that you're wrong, I just wanted to talk a little bit
About enemies, okay, so I
feel like
We had quite a good quite a good argument then
Mm-hmm well, I don't know it was um. It was kind of it felt quite a bit tense
but um
That's what I enjoy there. I think it's like what needs to be done
And then being able to like just not care about it not take it personally at the end of the day
Genuinely just trying to find out some shit
And like that's how you do it by having the two different sides of the argument so in that case. I'm kind of saying
You were kind of like an enemy, and I was kind of like your enemy a little bit
that's that's making it sound very negative, but like I
Just feel like there's a lack of
appreciating enemy's point of views at the moment as well I
Guess maybe it would be better to say opponents, okay, yeah
However you want to say I think it is quite
Hot for other people to see each other's point of view because everyone's so sure of their own opinions
and
I think it goes both ways like both sides have to be willing to listen to the other
Which isn't which is quite hard to do when you're sure of yourself
And you're sure of your values in your opinion really hard to do
Yes, so it's like the only way that because the fact of the matter is
There's so many people in the world and we all have a lot of different opinions on different things
And you're never gonna be able to tell everyone what the opinion what the right opinion?
Is there's always gonna be opposites?
and we need the opposites because sometimes one sides right and sometimes the other sides right you need to be able to talk between the
two and figuring that
when it helps your argument -
Definitely definitely, it's very good feels very healthy, but I'm a good example is when you're talking about borders
And it's like
obviously conservatives are more like
Let's close the borders and let's have thick borders so that no one can get in but you know sometimes. It's the right answer Frankie
Nearly done, and then sometimes having really close borders is the right answer, but then at the same time
Liberals are more likely to be like no let's open the money and let the information come in which is also
required at times as well, but like
The reason that I would say the sometimes borders need to be closed. I mean you can think about like the Native Americans and
their porters before the Europeans came over
I mean it was just a simple
Basically a simple handshake that kind of fucked over the Native Americans because all the diseases all the diseases spread
So in that case they would have been like fuck
I wish those borders were closed for us right then because there is dangers from outside
You know it's the unknown that holds dangers holds the Dragons what we're saying before and you've got to be careful about liniment
But if you don't meet them in then you can't learn as well
And you can't gain new ways to progress so you need the bow if you need the conversation you know yeah
And then once we once we aren't able to do that
once it leans too far to one side I
Think there's only one way it can go
I think it's kind of like it's kind of like it would be if it leaned too far one way. It would be like a
Very intense spread of a religion throughout the whole world that kind of indoctrinates the whole
Dictatorship totally which happens in nations, but like it's kind of like if an ideology
Ideological point of view became so prominent in societies, and it keeps spreading spread all over the world
It's never gonna fall eSATA spy everyone because everyone's always gonna have different opinions. You know I mean yeah, no I totally agree
But and that's not saying that you can't be sure in your opinions and stand up for what you believe in
It's just saying that you need to be able to
Try and stand up for your own opinions and listen to the other side and try to I mean I think that's the biggest issue
Is it's like people are so sure of their opinions? You're not willing to listen to the other side, and it's like you've got to
You need to see where other people are coming from and it's I think like as much as it hurts
yeah, but I think a lot of it though like I
Mean just from what I've seen in
the media and stuff a number of people like sign up for themselves like a
lot of like the liberal arguments for things are them like rebutting and
often it's like
Sometimes you do find like I feel like often the most close-minded people people who have like made their judgments and then found the facts
for those judgments
Yeah hard
Sorry
So close-minded people make
Frank he's back
So yeah, what was that sorry?
The closed mind I think it's the issue is when people pass like form their opinions
And then find facts to back up their opinions mm-hmm
I think that people should be trying to form their opinions, and then trying to take down their own opinions
You know instead of trying to affect trying to find facts that back up the opinion trying to find facts that make their opinion flawed
And then you get a better argument - it's like our discussion that we had before it's like
We've both probably gonna come away from that with a bitter like argument for like other scenarios because we've come across
You know different opinions sadly, but just interacting with
the other side
is good because you get a little insight to how other people think and
Like I was saying like it puts you under pressure to like it puts you under pressure to have your argument straight and to have
Your point of view a bit straighter to try to find yourself
but at the same time is it's the whole listening thing you have to try and listen to the
argument even like
Even when you disagree like you have to try I feel like you should just try and find one
One or two things that you're like okay?
Oh, okay, and then like if you can find one or two things that you're like. Oh yeah, that kind of makes sense and
Sometimes it's like a domino effect a little bit. Okay. Yeah, I see where you're coming from
And you both, I mean huge thing with like politics unlike anything
It's like you need to be able to find a middle ground where you guys can
compromise on yeah
Totally, that's the thing and that's why you know in America, it's pretty much been the trend of
going from
Democratic to Republican Democratic to Republican to Democrat or Republican and that's that's pretty much explains
Like we need the both sides and the people need the both sides. That's what happens people like okay. No
We actually kinda need it we need to chill out in that front
Front as well
Yeah, and like too annoyed with them
Not like finding a middle ground and not like listening to what they are thinking about then
They go way too far one way, and then they're like oh hang on that wasn't actually what we want
totally, I feel like yeah what I try I try to I
Try to say what I think is not being heard more than
It's not like a hundred percent of my opinion necessarily, but like I try say what's not being heard
Wait I like to I do like to have a debate for sure
But at the same time, I think like that's the stuff knees needs to be heard as well
I feel like a lot of the shit
I say I don't even know what I think about like I'm just like actually for one love a debate and for two
I'm like well. You know they have a point of view and it's valid so if they think that it should be
Should be explored at least it shouldn't be written off as though. It's nothing I
Think we should maybe close this up or ask Frank. He's going to
Quickly do a little higher virtue just
Know if that's like a good name for today do you think that that's a good metric we've already done it but
Because we did oh
There you go
Okay, hi overshoot is time
Really mm-hmm OCD or untidy icy comfort or adventure nature
Compassion or competition
How many your honesty
Honesty group or solo discussion
Group
purpose or pleasure purpose
happy and sad or content a
Content question or answer
question
Answer answer may be no
In-betweens
Okay Christian answer
Question then I don't know
Power to the individual or group
Power to the individual power to the group group yes or no
Yes
Very good. Hey, thanks to e I would I'll give you a clink anyway a
Awesome, thanks guys episode 6
Was good, that's fun ah yeah, I look back. I look forward to hearing this one back this would be good
Good to get some a little bit of debate guy
What I got I don't think I've got anyone else planned yet. Hope you get onto that
yeah, I want to get at least 10 this 10 ah
Yeah, I'll see you in the next one anyway guys catch up
You
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Who wouldn't want a giant walking robot that transforms into a sports car? - Duration: 3:00.
Any kid who grew up watching Transformers cartoons wanted one in real life, and now
a robotics company and roller coaster manufacturer have teamed up to make that dream come true.
Brave Robotics, SoftBank sumsidiary Asratac, and Sansei Technologies in Japan have created
a 12-foot-tall robot named "J-deite RIDE" which morphs into a sleek sports car in less
than a minute.
The robot will be displayed on May 5 at the GoldenWeek DOKIDOKI Festa All Working Cars
Assemble! festival in Tokyo and will make its international debut at the IAAPA Attractions
Expo for amusement parks in Florida this November.
Unsurprisingly, the CEO of Brave Robotics is a fan of movies and anime featuring giant
transforming robots, and he's been building them since he was a teenager.
Kenji Ishida told Reuters Television, "I grew up believing that robots had to be capable
of such things, which became my motivation to develop this robot."
Legendary mechanical designer Kunio Owara also contributed to the design of the robot.
Owara has lent his vision and influence to the robot designs in multiple manga and anime
franchises, including the Gundam series.
Constructed mostly of aluminum and powered by a lithium battery, the Ride seats two people
and weighs in at just under two tons.
It can be controlled remotely as well as by a "driver."
The robot's software, named V-Sido, controls the motion of the robot both in vehicle and
walking mode, as well as the transformation between them.
Its maximum walking speed is 18 mph and the company says it can exceed 37 mph in driving
mode, although the developers have limited testing to the factory where it was constructed.
In fact, we don't see the Ride in motion much in the video at all, and it's a far
cry from the Autobots and Decepticons many of us grew up watching.
Ishida admits it's not practical for an everyday commute, but he hopes the robot will
inspire future designers.
According to their website, the company is already working on an even larger prototype
dubbed the "King J-deite" that's more than 16 feet high.
Their new creation will be unveiled
in 2020.
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