If you like it then you should have put a ring on it.
whoa uh-oh whoa uh-oh whoa uh-oh. But wait, what if they're not a member? No oh
oh. I'm kidding! It's a joke. Joking.
But we're not talking about marriage-- no we're not-- we're talking about dating.
Yeah. Dating. They're synonymous the Mormon
culture. Our favorite topic! I love talking about dating. hahahha
So first here, we got some wonderful comments from our fans and
we're gonna be reading your thoughts and giving our opinions on them so-- on what
to expect when you're dating a Mormon. If you're not a Mormon or if you are Mormon?
If you're both, I guess, a little bit of both. I think it kind of works honestly.
Honestly, I could have used some advice dating some Mormons. Well here we
go. Because that's all I've dated and it's not going too well. Alright so one person
says, "So for non-mormons dating Mormons, they're not just going to try to
convert you. If they really love you, of course they'll want to share the gospel
but they'll hopefully also be respectful." Mm-hmm. Interesting. How do you... I half
agree with this because some people will try and convert you, that's just a fact.
That's just a personal decision if you want to do that
or not. Hopefully they're not just dating you to
convert you. Yeah. I think inviting you and trying to convert
you are different, right? Right. Okay I also think maybe a little bit on
that is like if you're dating someone ... if your relationship is conditioned on
them progressing in the gospel then I'm not sure that's a healthy relationship.
Yeah because because it shouldn't be conditional. Yeah and so it's like this
relationship will only be successful if you decide to join the church even if
it's kind of a secret, like in your heart. Like yeah this is only gonna work out if
they decide to get baptized. I'm not saying that's a bad
thing. Right. A lot of relationships have worked out but I just would make
sure that's not the reason. Cuz conditions in any relationship kind of
mess things up. That's just a personal... Okay. Lots of YSA women I know
practice the 3 D's. Date em, dump em, and dunk em.
I've never met any woman who does this. You might have a really bad streak but
the majority of LDS women I know don't even... no, no, they don't do that. But I
have met, I have met a man and there's a guy I knew who had needed three girls
consecutively who all we're non-members got baptized any dump of them okay yeah
yeah crazy but I think that's kind of a miracle you
know on that one yeah yeah who don't like that's not a good thing you know
yeah well don't join the church for someone else right but that's a very
important yeah I think though you know what I think it may come across that way
because there is two girls that I dated and I of course wanted them to join like
invite them to church yeah objectivity um what is the join church they weren't
members of the church and but after why I knew you know I the room can have a
temple marriage and so I broke it off and so they kind of assumed that it was
going after like it like I'll just convert them and then dump them but that
wasn't what I was going for so um I think he can't have you can't just
project what you think they're doing to you you know you've got to be you know
these are people they're not these robots from Cedar City just let's go
find the homo sapien males and make them baptized into our church people doing
you know um cool story though is my mother she was
not a member she was a Catholic and right right and then when she met a guy
I she worked with I think at jack-in-the-box
she was like 16 alright and she thought it was super cute he was a Mormon you
know they started going on dates he thought about the church because he was
going on a mission you know so he doing a whole thing and then she started
taking missionary lunches got baptized he left on his mission and they weren't
dating when he left you know yeah and the whole time she was like really in
love with this guy she really wanted it to work out he turned out not to be so
great you know like his mission like I don't think I ended up going on a
mission just because things started going well he kind of he eventually left
the church mm-hmm but my mom stayed because she was converted to the gospel
not to not to him yet I think that's when it's awesome you know
yeah if you're if you're dating a Mormon and they are like very active in their
faith they're gonna share it with you right all right you have to look at
their intentions like and if you are a Mormon dating a non Mormon don't just
try and convert people like that's not that shouldn't be like your whole focus
in dating them like for instance I was at church last week and we had this
great lesson on ministering and just like becoming friends with people in the
ward right after that meeting I had these
people in my word come up to me and they were like talking to me and getting to
know me and it was great and I was like oh my gosh and then he was like yeah I
had this business and you know we do interviews to start cataloging this
thing and you can retire in three years and it's gonna be great and I was just
like I was like the summer sales tactic and I was just it sucks when you realize
like their intentions weren't to be your friend yeah and you're just like you
just wanted me to join your business and I imagine it's the same way if your
non-mormon dating a Mormon and you just wanted me to embrace the Mormon role
like yeah yeah right that's a bummer you know sometimes it's just I mean we're
encouraged to date people that share our faith because it's a big part of our
lives and because at least we want or eternal marriage to be the goal and that
can't happen unless both of us share the same faith but follow the spirit I mean
if the spirit tells you that it's cool to date someone that's not of your same
faith and date someone that's not of your same thing yeah
oh oh here's one okay this is I don't agree with this comment it says
religious differences in one way or another no matter what though if you
love each other you should not let religion get in the way i I think
there's like goodwill behind that but that also is I feel like that can
suggest like hey we love each other you know she's Baptist I'm Mormon but you
know what we should be able to have sex because you know we're not gonna
religion get in the way it's like this no-ho-ho-ho
so you're saying like you're not supposed to like check your religion at
the door and yeah yeah but your beliefs not supposed to do that I do not think
that's a smart move so well but it is good to like be tolerant of each other's
leaves definitely pious because there's there are people who are married and
from different religions married you know yeah yeah well I think so
I dated this girl who was Baptist and her parents could not stand the fact
that I was LDS they were so mad about it and on Sunday
they're like you want to come to church with us and I was like only come to
church with me and no they're lying Savage they're really upset but you know
what we ended up having you know to break up
for obvious reasons but it's so those two girls I mentioned both wanted to
have sex and I was like sorry huh they really wanted to like listen I'm Vince
naka and that's also the only point that could have been like an obvious reason
is if you just like pulled out a baby from like no no III just and here's what
stinks about this I they're both such great people you know I love them both
to death to this day right and it it's it was horrible that like I had to that
that's such a vulnerable thing you know one in pep sex with someone and at that
moment of vulnerability make no and we need to break up you know III really
hate that I hurt them so much in that way but I waited to break up few days
later no I did you know I could have I definitely could've handled both better
but I just City you know so looking back you know it is hard it is hard and you
feel so bad about it and I hope they don't hate me and no one does but uh
well gets near the elegant mattress like when I was in high school we had in my
health class I think it was we were supposed to put like what are the most
important things to relationship and I put number one religion than number two
you know like love and stuff and my class like everyone my class was like my
teacher even my teacher she called me up she's like religion like are you serious
and I was just like my entire life is based around my religion you know
because it's the truth you know like it is how I'm gonna be saved you know so if
someone didn't share that with me that just wouldn't make sense that wouldn't
work in my brain yeah I could you know yeah and that's just person that's me
personally because like if I want to have it I won't have an eternal family
right and there's somebody on here who responded and they're talking about
their she's LDS and her husband is not and she says he has always said that the
only thing he expects of our religious differences is that I I respect that he
doesn't think the way I and to not force him into anything into
something he is not we've been doing great with this and learn how to
properly communicate when we do have differences of opinion and I think that
when you have differences of opinion you just have to reach a point the correct
way to handle that is reaching a point where where love becomes more important
than proving the other person right or wrong as a good point not checking the
religion at the door but checking pride at the door right yeah right contention
is of the devil whether or not you're on the right side and honestly there's
gonna be differences in any relationship regardless of religion yeah like they
like this show and you don't they like this food and you know and I don't know
like you're gonna exactly yeah you gotta learn how to work it and you gotta learn
God bloom where you're planted well or plant or you're bloomed here's what I
always talk about this comment says no
this comment says no booze and sex and they're gonna mousse or sex and or sex
really emphasize those true we don't drink anymore sex before we're married
so if you're dating an Elias person that's all yeah be ready for them not to
drink with you and let's it's like sparkling cider or apple juice or soda
drink I don't drink apple juice is really bad for your teeth really it's a
super acidic and it will just our teeth very quickly
take it easy someone lay off here's something cool about that though is that
I was in high school once again there were a lot of members who weren't active
well yeah they went to church to stuff but they didn't really keep the
commandments yeah and so I didn't hang out with Mormons in high school I hung
out with a lot of different religions because they were super like awesome
great example and there was this girl I really really liked yeah she's probably
one of the most amazing people I've ever met and still is mm-hmm but she wasn't a
Mormon and I think that's like that's the kind of situations like just because
you're not a Mormon doesn't mean you're a bad person yes because you're a Mormon
doesn't mean you're a good person there are some some people in my life who are
Protestant Christians and who are Muslim and they share my values way more than
some LDS people I know and some other Christian people and so I can see that
working out because at the end of the day you do like
believe in God and you look at alright Jacob said a lot of oh my hex and praise
checks with the priest I'm not sure I'm hoping I open clarify
in the comments please check it there will be a lot of oh my hex Oh My heck
and what the fetch ok wait no what do you guys say though what are your thing
I say heck a lot I said what the heck I jammed my finger in a door that earlier
today actually and I said son of a biscuit so really just follow the spirit
just do what you feel is right but don't like they quickly said don't check your
standards or your religion at the door and know that ldiots people can love you
even if you're not LDS and you might fall in love of the Mormon and it's
pretty cool and just because they're not LDS it doesn't mean they're going to
help respect their beliefs find what you have in common don't be a jerk love each
other in in you know the christ-like Wayne don't get too involved in and
don't get mad at your daughter's boyfriend if he's LDS and your
daughter's a Baptist and treat him badly and make snide remarks cuz you know what
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